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I have a girlfriend!

So I went to lunch with a coworker that I had a crush on, and I told her she was super pretty, maybe looked into her eyes a moment too long. She said, "Are you asking me out?" I said yes. She accepted. "Just so you know, I'm trans. Post op," I told her. She said, "It's okay, I don't mind. You're very pretty yourself."

Uh so then we went on a date, it went super well, we vibed and I felt safe with her, felt like she understands me. Then we both got sick the next day, with the same symptoms, and I came over to give her soup. I was afraid it would be creepy, but she found it adorable. A few days after that, we got better, and then we went on a second date, and a third date!!!! Now there's a fourth date.

I said, "I've never had a girlfriend." And she said, "Now you do." So, I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND!!!! Yay!!!

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u/ilove-whenwomen — 24 days ago
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A guy asked me out and...

I was at a café and this random guy asked me out. He did it in a very considerate way, like "Hey I was just wondering if you might want to go out sometime. It's totally fine if not." I said "No thanks, I have a date tomorrow actually" and he said, "Okay. But just in case you're worried, I don't care that you're trans. You're just a pretty woman." He noticed my flag! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA that's so sweet <3

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u/ilove-whenwomen — 28 days ago

My straight friend said she wants to marry a woman

Um so I was talking to my friend, who's straight, and she said, "I wish I could have like, a husband, but he's a woman, you know? Like pretty and sweet and sexy, but not a guy, but like still married to me."

I said, "Isn't that just gay marriage?" And she replied, "No it's different like, I don't want a gay marriage, I want a regular marriage except my husband is a woman. But like still a husband, not a wife, but not a man, a woman. I want to be the wife."

How do I tell her? Lmao

EDIT: After talking to her more, it feels like she wants the social role of having a husband (and the social validation to her status and femininity), while actually having a wife.

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u/ilove-whenwomen — 1 month ago