What does it mean when ur talking stage blocks u for a whole month then unblocks u then makes his acc public then hides u from his story. And he’s known to never turn to his acc public?
About a month ago I matched with someone on tinder. I’m not the type to want to meet up with anyone on there just because I mainly got it for laughs. But this guy was different and I decided to give it a shot.
He was about an hour away from where I stayed and he decided to come visit me. Everything was perfect the vibes were there and he did absolutely everything right. He checked all my boxes and it was definitely something I wanted to keep pursing. He stayed with me the whole weekend it was so so nice I cannot emphasize how perfect it was. I genuinely thought I had met my soulmate lol. He even bought a ticket to a music festival to come with me around august.
After he went back home I was kinda worried that he was going to end up ghosting me or something but he didn’t. If anything the conversation and communication just got better.
That following saturday he was supposed to see me but ended up going to a rave in san diego the friday prior which i encouraged him to go since i also like that specific dj. I started thinking realistically and came to the conclusion that him seeing me the next day wasn’t probable bc of the trip he was gonna have. and he let me know it wouldn’t be ideal which i understood.
Despite this i had a moment of weakness and just asked him like he didn’t wanna see me bc he didn’t like me or thought i was ugly and i just didn’t want to waste my time. I regret it so bad and before i knew it i couldn’t unsend it and he saw it. he responded with something along the lines of he definitely felt a connection and he would love to pursue this but there’s a possibility of me leaving far away for grad school and he doesn’t have a good track record with long distance relationships and he didn’t want to start something and then having me leave. Which honestly i get. I was also in a LDR and i know how hard it could be and i know his situation was really rough.
I know many may see this as just an excuse for him but we did have a talk abt it when he saw me during the weekend and we were willing to try it out but i think i freaked him out when i made that comment.
He ended up blocking me everywhere and it hurt more than I thought it would. even tho we didn’t spend much time together, I think about him everyday inevitably and about what could have been because never in my life have a felt a spark with someone the way i did with him.
earlier this week i saw that he unblocked me which just made me start thinking and getting in my head. im aware that this may not even mean anything and i’m definitely not going to reach out. i just feel like that reopened the wound a bit and i just caught a glimpse of hope that he might still think or care abt me.
part of me feels like he is going to reach out whether it be to check up or ask about the music festival. my guard is definitely up though and im not gonna sit here and wait for a text from him. but in all honesty i really really hope he does reach out.
i’ve gone out with a few other people in the time in between but for some reason i still find myself looking for him in other people. and i know it’s bad and it’s self sabotage but i just can’t seem to move on completely. part of me wishes he’d just reach out one more time because call me delusional, i know those feelings were mutual.
i think im just more disappointed our time got cut short than being able to fully explore it whether we would have ended up together or not. and now im stuck constantly thinking of what could’ve been.
About a month ago I matched with someone on tinder. I’m not the type to want to meet up with anyone on there just because I mainly got it for laughs. But this guy was different and I decided to give it a shot.
He was about an hour away from where I stayed and he decided to come visit me. Everything was perfect the vibes were there and he did absolutely everything right. He checked all my boxes and it was definitely something I wanted to keep pursing. He stayed with me the whole weekend it was so so nice I cannot emphasize how perfect it was. I genuinely thought I had met my soulmate lol. He even bought a ticket to a music festival to come with me around august.
After he went back home I was kinda worried that he was going to end up ghosting me or something but he didn’t. If anything the conversation and communication just got better.
That following saturday he was supposed to see me but ended up going to a rave in san diego the friday prior which i encouraged him to go since i also like that specific dj. I started thinking realistically and came to the conclusion that him seeing me the next day wasn’t probable bc of the trip he was gonna have. and he let me know it wouldn’t be ideal which i understood.
Despite this i had a moment of weakness and just asked him like he didn’t wanna see me bc he didn’t like me or thought i was ugly and i just didn’t want to waste my time. I regret it so bad and before i knew it i couldn’t unsend it and he saw it. he responded with something along the lines of he definitely felt a connection and he would love to pursue this but there’s a possibility of me leaving far away for grad school and he doesn’t have a good track record with long distance relationships and he didn’t want to start something and then having me leave. Which honestly i get. I was also in a LDR and i know how hard it could be and i know his situation was really rough.
I know many may see this as just an excuse for him but we did have a talk abt it when he saw me during the weekend and we were willing to try it out but i think i freaked him out when i made that comment.
He ended up blocking me everywhere and it hurt more than I thought it would. even tho we didn’t spend much time together, I think about him everyday inevitably and about what could have been because never in my life have a felt a spark with someone the way i did with him.
earlier this week i saw that he unblocked me which just made me start thinking and getting in my head. im aware that this may not even mean anything and i’m definitely not going to reach out. i just feel like that reopened the wound a bit and i just caught a glimpse of hope that he might still think or care abt me.
part of me feels like he is going to reach out whether it be to check up or ask about the music festival. my guard is definitely up though and im not gonna sit here and wait for a text from him. but in all honesty i really really hope he does reach out.
i’ve gone out with a few other people in the time in between but for some reason i still find myself looking for him in other people. and i know it’s bad and it’s self sabotage but i just can’t seem to move on completely. part of me wishes he’d just reach out one more time because call me delusional, i know those feelings were mutual.
i think im just more disappointed our time got cut short than being able to fully explore it whether we would have ended up together or not. and now im stuck constantly thinking of what could’ve been.
Hiii, my friend and i are going to hard and we’re in the SFV. we’re debating on taking the shuttles but we had a bad experience when we went to escape. We’re wondering if anyone would be down to carpool and also split a hotel?
so i met this guy off of tinder. i know, not really the ideal way to meet someone “serious”. i never had the expectation of looking for something serious with this app, it was all just for shits and giggles. but anyways, i met this guy and we hit it off so so well. we were talking for about two weeks before we actually planned our first meet up. he lives about over an hour out and he decided to come see me. great first impression, he bought me flowers, redbulls, and snacks since im still in school right now lol. we went to the movies and he was so considerate in everything he did. he’s not from the area so he said he did his research to find the best theatre and what not lol. i’m not used to being treated this way so it def caught me off guard. but he was genuinely such a great and nice guy. like i know he was raised right lol. i offered him to sleep over after the movie since it was late and i didn’t want him to drive back so late. he came on a thursday and ended up leaving on sunday since we were genuinely having such a great time together. everything went so so well. after he went back home i was a it worried he’d go dry or ghost me but he didn’t, if anything the conversation just kept getting better. he was supposed to see me this past saturday but the previous friday he had gone out to san diego with his friends for a rave. and im like okay realistically i know he’s gonna come back late and i know he probably wouldn’t wanna drive again the next day. so i asked him “hey i know you’re gonna be out late and i know it’s not likely ur gonna see me this weekend so just want to confirm abt tmr so i can plan out my day?” and as expected, he said it probably wasn’t ideal since they were gonna stay out late. understandably. but i am my own worst enemy because my head started to spiral. and i foolishly asked “i understand u can’t see me but it’s not because u thought i was annoying or ugly or anything like that right? sorry i’m just not trying to get played or waste my time :,) ” i immediately regretted it and said “i’m so sorry i get anxious and assume the worst i didn’t mean to pry. i genuinely hope you have an awesome time with ur friends and have a great and safe rest of ur night “ and he responded with “No its definitely understandable I guess my main thing is your school you still got a bit and if you plan to go for I’m not sure I can do a long distance tbh, I don’t wanna waste your time but I did come into this with full intention of seeing if there was something and there definitely was, just not sure if I could do the long distance tbh, it’s probably best we do stop talking tbh, sorry if you feel like I wasted your time but I do wish you the best”. the context behind the long distance was that after undergrad, id love to go to Davis but its still in the air since im not 100% sure i even wanna do my masters of if i wanna go to Davis. it’s a conversation we already had and how about we both had bad experiences with long distance. but now i feel stupid for pushing it and putting pressure on what we are especially since it still so early on. i’ve never connected with someone the way i did with him ever in my life. he blocked me on instagram but i somehow still have his location? even though i stopped sharing mine with him and it’s been a couple days now. i’m genuinely debating on reaching back out because the connection i felt with him felt so natural and i know ill regret it forever if i don’t try one more time. i just don’t know if i should even try or what to do. please help.
does anyone know what happened? the helicopter woke me up from my sleep.
I am currently an undergrad student who is loosing any hope of getting into medical school. i’m feeling very unmotivated and don’t know if i should even try applying. Are there any current doctors who have felt this way and have failed/retaken classes but were able to eventually become a doctor? It’s finals week and i’m genuinely crashing out.