Sociálna práca a jej zlé meno - moje myšlienky

Ahojte, som študentkou SP. Odbor ma baví a zaujíma, mám pocit že fakt som našla svoje povolenie. Lenže aj predtým ako som prišla na uni a ľudia počuli, že na aký odbor sa chystám, dostala som dosť negatívne odpovede. "A čo ty chceš pracovať celý život v decáku?" alebo len znechutené a zmätené grimasy. Spolužiaci majú podobné skúsenosti. Aj online veľmi často vidím písané že je to zbytočný odbor, a existuje len preto, aby ľudia získali lahký titul. (A ano, viem, mám na to kašlať čo hovoria ostatní ľudia. Ani ma to neodradilo a moc ma ani nezaujíma, len občas mi to príde smutné)

A viete čo je drsné? Že mali sme spolužiakov ktoré vyhlásili, že prišli len pre titul. Veľa ľudí prišlo, lebo ich inde nezobrali. Alebo nevedeli čo so sebou, a že vraj je to lahký odbor, tak prišli sem. Tento prístup určite zhoršuje stigmu.

Aj na začiatku profesori hovorili že SP nemá dobré meno. Že vraj lebo v minulosti univerzity mali pobočky, kde učili SP, ale tam štúdium bolo jedna velká 0 + kommunizmus, kde mať "sociálne problémy" bolo tabu. To bolo v minulosti, no zlé meno je ešte stále tu.

A čo vlastne je sociálna práca? Ťažko nájsť jednu defíniciu, lebo je to velmi širokospektrálny odbor. Vlastne kde sú ľudia, tam môžme pracovať. Je to pomáhajúca profesia, čo sa venuje rôznym skupinám: závislím, ľudom bez domova, chorím, deťom, seniorom atď. Je to profesia ktoré sa stará o tých, ktorí sú sami, v zlej situácií a potrebujú pomoc zotaviť sa - pomoc k svojpomoci. Ovládame právo a psychológiu.

To je pravda, že sú aj ťažšie odbory. Ale nehovorila by som, že je veľmi lahký, a to uznali aj tí, ktorí práve preto sem prišli. Možno aj preto má také meno, lebo je to dosť nová veda, a ešte nemáme tak veľa poznatkov, ako iné vedy/profesie.

Len som sa potrebovala vyrozprávať. Ja to berem ako fakt že niektorí ľudia ktorí pracujú ako SP sú nepríjemní, ale zas takých nájdeš všade. A prosím nesúdte. Veľa z nás sem prišli lebo naozaj chceme pomôcť ľuďom. Len som sa potrebovala vyrozprávať, ďakujem za čítanie.

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u/imdumbdontblameme — 1 day ago

Chances of texture restoration

Hey guys, first two pics are from when i was around 16, the last picture is me now at 21 years old. As you can see, my hair is completely straight. As a kid i had waves just like my mom, but with them they went away. Is my hair like this for good now? Or is there a chance of restoring the waves with the right routine? Sorry for the bad photos, i used to hate taking photos of myself.

u/imdumbdontblameme — 7 days ago
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I'm very afraid of oral sex, which results in me not enjoying it and not being able to orgasm

Hey guys, i know this is heavily discussed on here but bear with me. I've (21F) been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, and our sex life is great. For the first two years he didn't give me head (he wasn't used to it bc this is his first relationship) but recently he really got into it. He said he loves doing it and that i taste great, but i can't help it but feel insane stress around it.

The problem is, i really really want to have an O. I also really want to be eaten out, but when he mentions that he's in the mood i freak out. This most often results in me not allowing him to go down on me, but sometimes he does do it, and then i'm stressed for the entire time and i can't enjoy it at all. I'm afraid that i smell or that i taste bad and that he's saying otherwise just so i'll be happy. Btw i take good care of myself, i always shower before we meet up, but i can't help but be afraid. I want to enjoy it but i can't. I read many posts about this, and the advice is always "just let him do it and believe him when he says you taste great", but that's just not working for me ): i just want to orgasm man

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u/imdumbdontblameme — 1 month ago

Cup leaking even though i do everything right?

Hey guys. I've been using the menstrual cup for years now, and on the first 3 days no matter what i do, i leak. Only on the first 3 days, after that everything works perfectly even though my technique doesn't change. I tried a smaller cup, i tried a bigger one, i tried a softer or a firmer one, and the first 3 days still come with the leak. I put it in with an angle, make sure there is a suction (there is!!!), and then go on about my day. It leaks even though it's not full, so i have to pair it with period underwear which i hate. What could be the issue????

P.s.: i know discs exist, i am learning to use one, but please don't comment here to just switch to a disc.

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u/imdumbdontblameme — 3 months ago

Frustrated because i meet all the criteria yet they won't diagnose me- how long did it take for you to get diagnosed?

Hey guys, short background story: i am diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and depression. Symptoms of BPD i've been showing ever since i can remember, but when i was 17 i fell into deep depression. After a few months i started hearing voices. They were talking about me and laughing at me. Soon after i got hospitalised for the first time (i got the bpd and depression diagnosis). I am 21F now, and i keep falling into psychosis (confirmed by multiple doctors). I am stuck in an endless cycle of psychosis and deep depression and hospitals. Yet for some reason, i don't get the SZA diagnosis. How long did it get for you to get diagnosed? My symptoms are getting worse the older i get and i feel so unheard.

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u/imdumbdontblameme — 3 months ago