u/infinitely_nothin

I’m a bit of a paradox in the best way. Masculine, dominant, but always a proper gentleman. Versatile, though never submissive. I love a good laugh just as much as I enjoy getting lost in a deep conversation.

I’m ambitious and driven, yet equally happy spending a lazy day doing absolutely nothing. I love my own space, but enjoy an adventure. I adore my small, ridiculously cute dogs, but I won’t say no to cuddling up with a big, lumbering one either.

I enjoy gardening, even if my patience doesn’t always keep up with my enthusiasm. I’ve got a strong sex drive, but real connection and genuine intimacy matter far more to me.

I’m drawn to skinny, nerdy types, while I’m rocking more of a dad bod myself.
If you’re versatile and actually looking for something real, DM me. (Don’t worry about distance- I’m more interested in finding my guy - however meeting up will be essential). I’m not looking for an online romance.

I’m a 57yo single gay guy in the UK. I used the word ‘struggle’ a lot when I became single. Struggling with my age and being at the bottom of the pile of potential partners. Loneliness. Struggling with dealing in the world without a partner. Struggle, struggle, struggle UNTIL a friend pointed out that I try replacing the word ‘struggle’ with ‘control’. Wow! My eyes opened. Now when I struggle, I ask myself what am I holding onto? What am I trying to control? What am I not accepting? And most importantly what am I not letting God into? My whole journey in life when I’m ‘struggling’ has transformed to being open to the ability to Let Go - Let God. Hitting the dating apps and being saddened by the lust and lack of connection and intimacy. I mean - who was I kidding!?! The ability to let go of my singleness to God has been an adventure. Today - letting go every morning in prayer from my desires to his will is way less stressful. The ‘struggling’ receded when the ‘control’ word was adopted and my relationship with Him has blossomed. His will be done! Not mine. If you’re a gay man in a similar situation you’re welcome to DM and we can talk more. 🙏

Hi all. I’m a regular guy. Sane and sorted. I’m looking to date guys who are looking for connection and intimacy. It would really cool to find someone who shares the faith and has a desire to find love.

What I’m looking for:
Physically - I’m into skinny/slim guys. Not too much hair. So bears are not my type.
Character - Nerdy with a good sense of humour. A fellow Christian would be awesome.

Me:
Physically - Dad bod. Silverfox.
Character - a true British gentleman who enjoys silly, banter to deep convos. Nature, film, football (soccer), dogs, tech and the occasional adventure.

Please be cool about swapping face pics on here and we’ll go from there. Distance - I’ll stay open minded I’ve had a LDR before and as long as we can meet occasionally, I’m good with that for now. Please DM.

Be over 25 please. Vers but masc. Attracted to guys who look after themselves physically as well as mentally. I’m a natural dom, mentor vibes. Sane and sorted. Love my dogs, nature, meditation, film and reading. If you’re into late night clubs, getting drunk and happy not to work or study - then you’re not for me.

57, easy-going, and comfortable in my own skin (yes, a dad bod). I’ve got a real thing for younger, slim guys. Regular guys to the front. Not into super feminine or chubby.

Versatile here and into the same. I’m definitely not shy about what I want. I’m a natural dom, successful in business and have mentor vibes. I enjoy good conversation, flirting that builds tension, and that moment where things shift from talking to not wanting to keep our hands to ourselves. I’m into connection, but I like it with heat.
If you’re into older guys, and enjoy the idea of a proper spark turning into something more physical, come say hello.
Must be open to exchanging pics and please no time wasters. DM me.

Hi there. I’m Matt (57, UK).
After about 35 years away from the Church, I’ve recently returned following a powerful experience of God during a Mass I attended while on holiday. Since then, my faith has felt genuinely alive again in a way I didn’t expect. The Mass has been deeply moving for me, and I’ve been fortunate to meet a local priest who is kind, thoughtful, and genuinely pastoral.

I’m also gay, and I grew up in a time when the Church often didn’t feel like a safe or welcoming place for gay people. That experience stayed with me and is a big part of why I stepped away for so long.
Coming back now, I’ve been trying to engage seriously with Scripture and theology rather than just relying on old assumptions. A key part of that journey has been looking at what are often called the “clobber passages”, the handful of biblical texts commonly used to condemn same-sex relationships. These usually include passages such as Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13, parts of Romans 1, and 1 Corinthians 6.

As I’ve read more around historical context, language, and biblical scholarship, I’ve come to see how important it is to understand these texts within their ancient cultural setting, rather than reading them as direct commentary on modern, loving same-sex relationships. That exploration has significantly shaped how I now understand the Bible as a whole: inspired, yes, but also written within specific times, cultures, and assumptions that need careful interpretation.
At the same time, I do consider myself a believer in Christ and am trying to live faithfully in that relationship as I return to the Church. My central belief is the God is love and I expand my belief from that central tenet.

I’d really appreciate connecting with other gay men who are on a similar path or who understand this kind of tension between faith, identity, and interpretation. Feel free to DM me.

Hi there. I’m Matt (57, UK).
After about 35 years away from the Church, I’ve recently returned following a powerful experience of God during a Mass I attended while on holiday. Since then, my faith has felt genuinely alive again in a way I didn’t expect. The Mass has been deeply moving for me, and I’ve been fortunate to meet a local priest who is kind, thoughtful, and genuinely pastoral.

I’m also gay, and I grew up in a time when the Church often didn’t feel like a safe or welcoming place for gay people. That experience stayed with me and is a big part of why I stepped away for so long.
Coming back now, I’ve been trying to engage seriously with Scripture and theology rather than just relying on old assumptions. A key part of that journey has been looking at what are often called the “clobber passages”, the handful of biblical texts commonly used to condemn same-sex relationships. These usually include passages such as Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13, parts of Romans 1, and 1 Corinthians 6.

As I’ve read more around historical context, language, and biblical scholarship, I’ve come to see how important it is to understand these texts within their ancient cultural setting, rather than reading them as direct commentary on modern, loving same-sex relationships. That exploration has significantly shaped how I now understand the Bible as a whole: inspired, yes, but also written within specific times, cultures, and assumptions that need careful interpretation.
At the same time, I do consider myself a believer in Christ and am trying to live faithfully in that relationship as I return to the Church. My central belief is the God is love and I expand my belief from that central tenet.

I’d really appreciate connecting with other gay men who are on a similar path or who understand this kind of tension between faith, identity, and interpretation. Feel free to DM me.

Hi there. I’m Matt (57, UK).
After about 35 years away from the Church, I’ve recently returned following a powerful experience of God during a Mass I attended while on holiday. Since then, my faith has felt genuinely alive again in a way I didn’t expect. The Mass has been deeply moving for me, and I’ve been fortunate to meet a local priest who is kind, thoughtful, and genuinely pastoral.

I’m also gay, and I grew up in a time when the Church often didn’t feel like a safe or welcoming place for gay people. That experience stayed with me and is a big part of why I stepped away for so long.
Coming back now, I’ve been trying to engage seriously with Scripture and theology rather than just relying on old assumptions. A key part of that journey has been looking at what are often called the “clobber passages”, the handful of biblical texts commonly used to condemn same-sex relationships. These usually include passages such as Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13, parts of Romans 1, and 1 Corinthians 6.

As I’ve read more around historical context, language, and biblical scholarship, I’ve come to see how important it is to understand these texts within their ancient cultural setting, rather than reading them as direct commentary on modern, loving same-sex relationships. That exploration has significantly shaped how I now understand the Bible as a whole: inspired, yes, but also written within specific times, cultures, and assumptions that need careful interpretation.
At the same time, I do consider myself a believer in Christ and am trying to live faithfully in that relationship as I return to the Church. My central belief is the God is love and I expand my belief from that central tenet.

I’d really appreciate connecting with other gay men who are on a similar path or who understand this kind of tension between faith, identity, and interpretation. Feel free to DM me.

Any skinny, smooth ish twinks near Newcastle, England? UK, Europe? Have done LDR before as well. Top/vers daddy looking for good vibes and potentially LTR. Start with chill chat on here, then WhatsApp, then meet up. Real deal daddy, mentor vibe. Intelligent, masc, horny, kind and good banter. Singles only. No time wasters please. DM me.

Any skinny twinks near Newcastle, England? Have done LDR before as well. Top/vers daddy looking for meets. Start with chat on here, then WhatsApp, then meet up. Real deal daddy, mentor vibe. Intelligent, masc, horny, kind and good banter. Singles only. No time wasters please. DM me.

Wow! I did it. About 2 weeks before I stopped I slowly tapered off vaping nicotine, until I was on a zero nicotine vape. I read ‘the easy way to stop vaping’ and then attended their course. I haven’t vaped or used any form of nicotine since. I don’t want to give them all the glory as I found the craving to be nasty but I just dug deep. Lessons:

1. Cravings will pass whether you succumb to them or not.

2. Sure they’re uncomfortable but not unbearable.

3. Dial up your stubbornness to the max. Dig those heels in. You ain’t gonna let nicotine control you any more.

4. Trust the process. It’s true what they say. It gets easier.

5. See a relapse as intel not failure. Work out what happened and learn from it.

6. Addiction is not logical. It’s centred in the emotional part of your brain. Learn everything you can about your enemy.

7. You want to feel like a non vaper. The ONLY way to do that is not to vape and ultimately stop any use of nicotine products.

8. The power within you is ALWAYS stronger than the fear before you.

I sincerely wish you every success. I failed many times but this time I made it. 💪

Any younger guys looking for more than just casual chat? I’m into skinny guys. Nerdy/goofy/sporty. Not into femboys at all (makeup, nails etc). I like boys to be boys. I’m a natural dom so into masc passion not pain. I want my boy to feel secure and loved. Not bullied and bruised. I LOVE a good laugh. So banter is very welcome. I’m dom but top/vers. So I like to switch sometimes but I’m never a sub. (Happy to explain). You’ll get me interested if you’re into film, tech, nature, dogs, football, travel. If you love deep convos about life and the universe, contact me. If you’re a deep soul who seeks a genuine lover then DM me. Be prepared to swap pics please. If you’re a fetishist who just wants to anonymously talk about your weird kinks - go somewhere else.