I have had multiple hours sessions so I’ve lost track of how many times I cum ngl
I can keep going after my tenth. Added bonus of holding pee.
If it was random spike of horny, I would try to have at least 3 orgasms
But heavy horny, I’ve lasted hours and hours. Lost a lot of sleep to it
I’m in my 20s, and I haven’t been touched sexually by anyone down there before (where they are successful) and would like that to happen
But I do not date and don’t find myself dating in the future. It’s a personal preference (aro) I don’t care if I’m dating someone but my personal feelings when in it is overwhelming and irritates me a lot
Dating is out of the picture. Last time I dated was when I was 18.
I’m also ace but sex positive and have a random libido
I’ve been trying to do research on doing hookups to be sexually active my first time since my friend circle is very small and very personal. I just think it’s better that I do not involve them in this.
But I’m seeing so many post where people are discouraging people on “losing” their virginity in hookups.
Yes virginity is a concept. I’m technically not one since I’ve done oral a few times with an ex. He just never returned the favor. That’s as far as I got. He couldn’t even finger me right. Not a lot of effort on his part
Idk, I’m a bit irked about seeing so much post like that when I’m in my situation. It’s not like I don’t understand but how do you even try to have sex when they tell you to wait for the right one..
I don’t see much post like mine or where people are encouraging.
I know it doesn’t matter but still, a huge party favors not losing it this way
I do plan to at least find someone to be consistent with (fwb) but through tinder cause where else do I get sex?
Thoughts?
I want casual hookups/fwb were oral is involved.
I’m pretty new so I don’t know what to write. Can I just write wanting 🐱eaten out?
It’s a little bit unhinge but I want that one the table. I don’t mind giving them one, and would love for them to be responsive
I know at this point it’s all luck and catching the right fish. But I want to at least use the right bait
I’m (23F) pretty sure I’m asexual but I have random but decent libido that shows up sometimes
I’ve never had piv sex but I’ve done oral on them and been fingered before (didn’t cum :/) My ex wanted to see what it was like at least licking me down there but not much came of it. I probably want a consistent hook up/fwb. I’m not in the dating pool and will probably never dabble in it
Even tho I’m ace, I like making people feel good so it won’t be a total loss for me
I’ve been thinking about trying to go on tinder just to hook up but I’ve never used tinder seriously when i was a younger (I used to make fake but obvious dumb accounts like water or being an account called bread) so I don’t even know what to look for or even what to write on my bio
I don’t mind oral sex at least and want someone to be at least interested in doing it to me. Piv can come later once we figure it out.
I have a preference for men but I don’t mind women. I just have different reactions and expectations from both. I’m pretty shy and don’t really go out of my comfort zone. (Introvert)
What should be my expectation for this? How hard is this to consider? If nothing would come out of it I wouldn’t be sad but a bit disappointed
Any tips?
(If there’s a different sub for this pls let me know)
(My dms are off, do not ask for dms)