u/iwantnew

Girl who added me on Bumble and meet irl, had great funny conversations with and went to a football game together, suddenly blocks me without any explanation

She's from London and is moving back tomorrow, but she flies down to Melbourne to live with her extended family for a month at least once a year. I loved having conversations with her and loved her unruly 'spicy' mean London girl nature - I guess looking back that was just code for her secretly being a huge bitch. I sent her a text that my Visa got approved to see her in the UK, but then she read my message, immediately blocked me after that and never talked to me again. I'm just in complete shock and I feel so hurt and let down that something like this could happen, but whatever, I'm not gonna waste my time thinking about her if she doesn't need me. Forgive me for venting but this is the second time a friend I've met in person on Bumble, seemed completely energetic to make plans with me again, then never talked to me again in person. It makes me feel less and less confident about using Bumble. maybe I should go the old school way and learn how to make friends in real life 😭 but it's hard

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u/iwantnew — 2 days ago

Did anyone who bought the warner vinyl edition of Eusexua Afterglow end up getting a facetime, tickets, etc?

i'm saying this cos i've been waiting for my twigs vinyl since december/january when i asked my sister if she could buy it for me for my birthday, but i also wanted a chance to win some of the prizes (such as a facetime with twigs, concert tickets, etc). but as its been so freaking long and my sister has not told me that the vinyl has arrived the longer the delay is has been really funny to me. but perhaps its on camp with twigs's brand because a lot of fans say she's done some questionable stuff like cancel shows last minute or take forever to get on stage 😭 it's not necessarily her fault but i would love to know if her management can give me a refund, since the record is probably never going to come at this point, and despite being advertised on twigs's page and website from warner themselves, wondering if this was just a silly ruse to get me to buy the record 😭

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u/iwantnew — 6 days ago

I've been texting this guy almost every day (DMs) since he finally accepted my chat invitation and texted me back.

I found him through IG a few months back and we don't know each other personally - he has a private account and my mutuals told me about him, and its safe to say we have a great connection together. We've talked about a lot of things - mostly politics (his dad is a politician) and also what we get up to in life, and I found out about his career and his job. I've never been in a relationship before apart from some conversations online that could be described as 'encounters' but quickly broke off before we could talk any nsfw stuff. but the fact we're still talking (and he doesn't know who I am other than photos of me on my posts and profile pic) makes me wonder if this can be considered 'online dating' as its been almost two weeks. he hasn't told me about his love life but i'm getting the feeling that he's single from the way he keeps texting me back and not ghosting me like most boys do. ironically i would never do online dating or go on a dating app, but sometimes i love to chat with random guys on insta DMs 😂 as long as he's not a murderer i think i should be fine. what do y'all think

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u/iwantnew — 6 days ago
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Today is May 10, Mother's Day, the same day Lana posted her heartfelt Mother's Day message 6 years ago

It's truly heartbreaking to read the message (I knew she wrote it but I never got to read it) and since today is Mother's Day and I am fortunate enough to have a very good relationship with my mother (who in turn did not have a very good relationship with her mother), so she was adamant on not passing it down to me. I try not to be curious but I can't help but sometimes wonder what happened with Lana and her mother after her career circa Lust for Life era, so 2017. because from her adolescence it seems they had a tumultuous relationship but Lana's mum would be seen in the early stages of her career, then it seems since then they haven't been talking or seeing each other since. this whole time I thought Lana's parents were still together, but then I found out interestingly also her dad and mum had separated, although I don't know precisely when. Of course we will never know what really happened between Lana and her mother other than hints of lyrics she drops in some of her songs. anyhow, having witnessed that breathtaking moment and being told by my mother that I was the very reason she decided to forgive her own mum for everything, I hope that one day Lana can too. if what her mother did was truly horrible and unforgivable I'd totally understand if their relationship wasn't able to be mended. but of course knowing that she doesn't get on well with her mother makes me sad as well as for other people who have mummy issues that might find solace in Lana's songs. i hope that you can read her message and feel a sense of release of past traumas (we all have them) and find a way to move forward.

u/iwantnew — 12 days ago

HAPPY BIRRTTTHDAY FANCY THAT 🪭🎂🎀👠😍

also i made a reaallllly fun remix (of all the songs on fancy that, titled it fancy everything) on soundcloud!! pls stream it if you haven't already <3333

u/iwantnew — 13 days ago

me (left) geeking out because i got to be bffs with a mouthy funny and extremely pretty girl from london for the first time. #justtwogirls

u/iwantnew — 19 days ago

i've noticed she's put more alternative music on her stories (lou reed and now pink floyd). now we just need her to put radiohead and there my life is complete <333

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u/iwantnew — 24 days ago