Straight talk for securing and using HA publicly. Need advice, not hate.

I am not trying to start a firestorm here, and I appreciate all of your input.

Im techy, homelabber etc. I do IT for a living, but security is generally not my strongest part (and not part of my day job in its nitty gritty form.

Ive had HA now for many years, love it to peices. Many thanks to you all that help me all the time, even by just reading everything here.

I have my HA box on an intel NUC, behind an NPM instance, and the firewall is opnsense with geoip blocking nothing but my country, and crowdsec on it as well.

I have my device(s) and my wife and two kids phones on it. I use GPS and all sorts of stuff on their devices to do automations. Its been great, and they are on board.

I have over the last number of years observed about a dozen failed attempts to login into my instance. Thats it.

But it seems like thats changing, getting alerts every 12-24 hours that its being attempted.

So, I think its time to rethink the whole thing and get straight talk on it all.

Looking into it, I have a few options but I want to have everyone chime in.

  1. Nabu Casa - pay and just do that. Homelabber in my fights it, but ive spent more on dumber things...

  2. Tailscale. Im already using it personally. Put it on my kids/wife phone and setup the proper ACL and move on with life. Should just function like normal, right?

  3. Ive read a bit about crowdsec being installed on HA and talking to my opnsense router to pass on the blocks etc. Seems this is just kicking the can down the road though.

4.?

Again, not trying to start a war, just want some good discussion on the whys.

Appreciate it!

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u/jdlnewborn — 9 days ago
▲ 0 r/bedjet

The entire hose part is bending/sagging away from the bed.

Someone else made a post about the clips and I didnt want to hijack it.

I got my 2 bedjets about 7 months ago now, and its been great, but im finding the entire rig that holds it up is sagging further and further away from the bed. Its as tight as it can be under the matress, but its arcing away more and more.

Anyone run into this and fix?

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u/jdlnewborn — 9 days ago

Error live_notifications_mark_read failed. Invalid argument value

I have a user that is being haunted by this error. I cant see any issues ongoing, and I had the user clear local data, no change.

Anyone else see this?

u/jdlnewborn — 14 days ago
▲ 17 r/bedjet

Are there such things as knockoff/no name cloud sheets? Want another but holy smokes they are $$

Mostly the title.

I hope this is allowed to post, if not I guess no one will see it. But wondering if there are such things as knockoff sheets. Once again mine is in the wash and the wife has hers on cold, im freezing all night long.

Thanks,

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u/jdlnewborn — 25 days ago

Made (and sharing) my 3d printed phone hood for streaming from phone so it doesnt cook/shutdown in the sun.

Hey all.

Im a bit of a tinkerer, and always want to pay it forward as much as I can.

This year we have had some hot summer days, and about 3 weeks ago the direct sun was too much for my phone doing game changer, and it shutdown with about 1 inning left. Sigh

So, I went to work and designed a simple hood/shade to help with that. Its loosely based on the mevo mount/shade I did up last year.

I tried it the last two weekends in the direct sun and worked flawlessly. When a ball hit the fence it moved, but my phone mounted to the pole did not.

It's yours for the taking, just dont sell it commercially please.

https://www.printables.com/model/1789808-chain-link-fence-phone-fence

u/jdlnewborn — 25 days ago
▲ 49 r/daddit

Finally got in to see my doc today, he wants to put me on anxiety meds. I’m scared, should I be?

Good day all fellow dads (I know there are a few moms here too). I’m a 43 year old father of 2 amazing girls. I have a great life, good job, happy life. Stress at work has always been there, nothing too crazy for the most part I don’t think.

I’ve been struggling with some stuff over the last 6-9 months or so and finally got in to see a doc. Sitting down with doc we discussed what’s going on, and he had me do an assessment for anxiety and depression.

In the end, he’s wanting to try me on some anxiety meds and check back in 4-5 weeks.

I’m not opposed to meds, don’t judge anyone that uses etc, but don’t know what to feel about it. Part of me thinks this is a slippery slope that I will go down with no end in sight.

I know, not a lot to really ask here, and truthfully don’t have a lot of words, but wondering if anyone can give me some words of wisdom here.

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u/jdlnewborn — 1 month ago

Hints/tips for getting claude to make dashboards?

Good day everyone,

I have finally conceded that I suck at building dashboards. And Im starting to use Claude for it, which Ive only used for automations.

I am struggling with getting anything nice out of Claude, and maybe its just me sucking at it, and if so I can deal with it.

But Im wondering if anyone has some hints/tricks that they have used that they can pass along to help. Anything that youve found that just clicked?

Any help is appreciated.

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u/jdlnewborn — 1 month ago

ESPHome Remote Build Server - who knew this existed??

Just stumbled upon this tonight and wow im impressed.

I have a number-of-year old Intel Nuc that is running HA. Thing is a tank really happy with it.

ESPHome - great product, but for the last few years, I just faithfully do updates to it and move on. Tonight one esp was being a bit of a jerk, so I was watching the compile and at the bottom of the screen it shows something like 'this is taking a while, you should look at a remote build' or something to that effect. Waaaa?

Look into it...pair another machine, and offload the compile there, it comes back, flashes on the local machine and away it goes...

So I download the app on a Mac mini M4 I have sitting on my network doing some other heavy lifting, pair with two clicks and bam...its integrated.

My 12 minute compile was still going, so I stopped it, started it again, it's now doing the compile on my Mac mini. And wow was it fast. After the initial downloads of the files, took about 1 minute.

Maybe im late to the party, but if youre like me and this helped one of you, my work here is done.

https://desktop.esphome.io

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u/jdlnewborn — 1 month ago

Sophos Central (switches) all disconnected, anyone else?

Asking here since Sophos thread is a lot less traffic.

About 2 hours ago I started getting alerts that my network switches are ‘disconnected’. Slowly over the next 45 minutes the other sites are reporting the same thing, we are talking physically different locations.

The status page shows everything is great, and each site is showing 100% uptime from inside with my CheckMK instance, including the switches, being monitored via SNMP.

My firewalls are all online in the same central interface, so it’s not entirely down.

Anyone else seeing anything like this?

Edit: morning came and everything is happy again in their world. Status page showed nothing. It was obviously/probably DNS.

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u/jdlnewborn — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/immich

Differences in my docker-compose.yml from working 2.7.5 to online docs - concerns?

I have been using immich for a good while now, and very happy with it. Looking at everyones success and some support entries here makes me wonder which category I might fall into.

So I have dug in and checked things over before getting crazy. And I have found my docker-compose.yml differs from the one online, so I thought I would check in here first.

My current file shows:

container_name: immich_redis
image: docker.io/redis:6.2-alpine@sha256:2ba50e1ac3a0ea17b736ce9db2b0a9f6f8b85d4c27d5f5accc6a416d8f42c6d5

While the official file shows:

container_name: immich_redis
image: docker.io/valkey/valkey:9@sha256:4963247afc4cd33c7d3b2d2816b9f7f8eeebab148d29056c2ca4d7cbc966f2d9

Anything to worry about? Should I move to that on my existing 2.7.5 first? Or at all?

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u/jdlnewborn — 1 month ago

Havnt found this anywhere, but why does my mini+ error out cause Im not using input shaping

I cant seem to find anything about this online, and feel really bad making a post about it.

A few firmwares ago I found my mini+ is showing a prompt that the gcode is not compatible since I dont (and dont plan) use input shaping.

I figured it was glitched and a future firmware would fix, but here I am.

Am I blind? Suck a searching, or all of the above?

Thanks everyone!

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u/jdlnewborn — 2 months ago

Enabling notifications to go to more than one person (not just highest priority)

Hey all, I dont post much on here since I am a pretty basic CheckMK user overall. But I am puzzled and need a hand.

I am using 2.3.0p48 currently, and have notifications to pushover (which I loooove).

All is good, and has been for a few years now.

But I finally added another person in my department, and had him setup pushover as well. We made a new pushover configuration, and set it to priority number 1 (I was 0).

Seems we can only get the notification to get to whoever is the highest priority (0). We have swapped them around and tests show it never moves on past the first one.

Both are in the right contact group etc. Just never goes to both.

Anyone share some wisdom on this?

https://preview.redd.it/13vfn2wxctah1.png?width=1319&format=png&auto=webp&s=a431d80547850eb1d3dab062c72939ec8885e2d5

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u/jdlnewborn — 2 months ago

Community to share scans? Does such a thing exist?

Ive been in the 3d printing world for a number of years and loved that I can download and use others stuff. When I got into creating my own, I also shared that up. Ying/yang.

Ive gotten into 3d Scanning now, and when I scan something, now I wonder if there is a place to upload them for community to benefit from.

Have I been living under a rock this whole time, or such a thing not exist?

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u/jdlnewborn — 2 months ago
▲ 5 r/immich

After a few years, why shouldnt I move my pictures into a RO External Library?

I run Apple Photos and use the current year in Apple Photos. Once the year ends, I export out of Apple and store in Immich. This is mostly due to my use of RAW files and editing of them.

A thought occurred to me today. Why wouldn't I move my older years of pictures out of the immich database structure, and just store them in a Read Only folder where I can setup Immich to use it as a External Library?

I feel im missing something obvious, so please be gentle.

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u/jdlnewborn — 3 months ago
▲ 24 r/daddit

43yr old, seem to have it all, but doesnt.

Good day all, hope all is well with everyone.
Im a 43 year old with wife and 2 great kids (15,17 girls). We are comfortable, and have everything we need.

But Im still a panic mess every day of my life. My job is stressful, but manageable, and Ive been able to move up the world through that, and have no plans to leave or concern of that employment ending.

If/when the wind blows, Im a mess thinking the house is going to blow away or shingles will blow off. If a kid coughs differently, I feel this is it, we are going to find out kid is sick and our lives will be turned upside down. I just cant get out of my own head.

This past week we travelled ~10 hours away for national volleyball competition, and had a great time as family. But when I arrived home, I have a bit of a man cold, and hated life. Im on the mend, but still feel like crap more than normal. Now that Monday is looming Im dreading work again since Ive been away a week.

Just seems like everyday I cant find anything to help me get past my own fog. Is this the cycle thats normal?

I feel 10-years ago me would kick my ass for complaining here, but Im a bit lost.

Anyone with some words of advice?

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u/jdlnewborn — 3 months ago

Any plans for future integration in the Office365 Copilot System?

With all the claude code love lately, I get it. But our business is 100% Office365, and therefore copilot only.

Anyone using todoist with Copilot? I dont see a way to officially.

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u/jdlnewborn — 3 months ago

I had thought I saw a post or 100 that the app was going to paid video solution only.

Our season is just starting up and I went to confirm this is the case. But judging from the site it seems like it’s normal like other years.

Am I out to lunch? Blind? Both?

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u/jdlnewborn — 4 months ago