u/jennapotterr

so i’m 22 and i’ve been manifesting him for a year (obviously unsuccessfully because i spiral alot and i keep doing this thing where i maladaptive daydream about him and then go back to spiraling about my reality) but i’m getting worried.
almost everybody around me is in relationships and i’m scared of being old and single but i genuinely cannot find anyone other than my sp attractive ? and then part of me is like i don’t wanna go on dates bc that’s like against my manifestation? and also just for moral reasons like i compare every guy to my sp
i feel most happy and at peace when i’m daydreaming/visualizing is that being “in the state” of having him?
tbh i’m scared and worried and have been panicking for the past week, if anyone has advice for me on what i should do?
i keep letting “objective truths” like the idea that your options get less after 25 and other stuff really get to me
i’ve been losing sleep bc i’m worried what if i never get my sp and what if i can never find anyone else attractive?
i’m sorry for the rant but there’s nobody i can really talk to about this yk :((

sorry i just made a post on here but i had another thought😭
i never went to college, i’m a professional makeup artist in nyc im 22 btw but i feel like the guys i end up liking usually have went to college because it seems like almost everyone i meet is in college or graduated. do you guys think most men care about ur degree (or lack of it lol) if you are doing somewhat well in ur career otherwise?

i’m 22 turning 23 in may
and i’ve never had a serious relationship before😟 embarassing ik but i’ve always had trouble making friends, let alone boyfriends. having a bf was never really a priority for me
but im getting worried, i don’t know if i am ready to date, im very nervous and scared. but i worry that i need to find a serious relationship before im too old. is it ok to wait until im like 24/25 to date seriously or is that too old?
i need advice :( any advice at all would be really helpful.
there’s this guy i like at my gym but i’ve noticed he bounces from girl to girl so he probably wouldn’t be something long term but should i try to talk to him anyways? i get so nervous talking to guys i find attractive :(
sorry if i rambled but in need of advice please! ❤️❤️

i’ve manifested multiple third parties away but i still find myself stalking their social medias, seeing what their up to, am i the only one who does this? i know it’s bad, idk
i guess it’s just habit?

so i’m moving to long island ny this september for work and currently mg sp lives in arizona he’s a software engineer how do i manifest him moving to long island ny as well?

does anybody know the psychology behind this? it’s like i consider it my treat to myself. which is so backwards bc all it does is make me feel like shit.
sometimes it doesn’t really bc i think of it like a movie that i’m watching that i know is gonna end how i want it
but i still know checking is bad.
does anybody else relate?

also this is probably like my 4th time venting in this sub i’m gonna try to stop after this bc i’m probably being annoying lmfao

i’ve always struggled with ocd and it really hinders my manifestation bc i get obsessive thoughts about the 3d and unfavorable circumstances
for example, i keep getting the urge to check my sp’s 3rd party’s tiktok account and go through her reposts,
and it’s like my brain and body won’t feel calm until i do it
i think i’m looking for proof of movement like if she reposts a shady tiktok clearly directed at him which has happened before
anyway does anyone else struggle with ocd and intrusive thoughts and still manifested?

honestly like loa aside atp it’s for my mental health too LMAO.
i can’t stop obsessing over the 3p, thinking she’s prettier than me, thinking she’s more accomplished bc she went to college and i didn’t, thinking she’s more interesting etc.
sometimes when i try to visualize me with my sp she pops in my head.
she also looks nothing like me so my brain keeps telling me that i’m not his type.
i’ve also accidentally manifested him doing things for her that i want him to do for me bc i keep accidentally imagining her in the scenarios that i want

does anyone have any tips or advice please? anything would help🙏❤️❤️

he made his pfp a pic of a girls hands on his face how do i stop it from popping in my head.
it’s really upsetting me :( y’all someone pls give me advice
is there someone i can dm and talk to

just wanting to know peoples genuine experiences jo coach no course bc ngl when someone gives advice and it’s usually ended with them wanting to give them money it’s really discouraging:( pls lmk.

i feel like these two placements together aren’t talked about a lot if u so happen to have these, how is ur love life? what’s ur perspective on it? what are ur expectations for partners?

i’ve felt with maladaptive daydreaming my entire life, i’m trying to use it as a tool to manifest but how do i change my mindset from “this is my dream” to “this is happening”

i’m a taurus sun but my scorpio is rising and for the past month i’ve been nonstop crying and anxiety everyday, anyone else?

specifically a scorpio with libra venus, i know they like women who are intelligent, i’d like to think i’m intelligent but i never went to college i became a makeup artist and i make 6 figures
but rn i like a scorpio man, as a scorpio do you heavily value someone’s degrees or education?