u/jezz-bell

Do men want to know about a woman’s past relationships and to what extent, or is it better left unsaid? in general

27f and work from home. parents already know i’m not gonna do marriage stuff (anytime soon).

already cleared that 5 years ago and they don’t bring the topic up. anyway i belive im not cut out for it for many reasons.

maybe i also have some neurological differences than other women which makes me feel this way. and it’s okay. i’m fine being who i am.

i have a 1 year old dog and love her to death. i dream about her, about losing her. im emotionally attached to her - maybe it’s the nurturing instinct in me. (in general, i have been dreaming about dogs a lot like finding a sick dog who got attached to me and me not being able to take it home with me.)

these days i feel my mom is giving hints for me to move out or just get out? like in little things - such as she tells me that my dog is having a lot of hair fall so i need to move to a diff place with my dog.

and then she came back from pokhara for their anniversary and first thing she told me after coming back was timi pani eklai gayera au, pailai book garne ani sajilo huncha. aru keti haru pani hike garna airako thiyo.

and another time she suggests me to move near my sisters house (which is around 4-500 km far from where we live). she tells me to go visit her and stay there for a few months.

i have no idea what to do. seriously.

is my mom really suggesting me to get out or what. kaile joke gareko jasto lagcha feri she keeps making these comments regularly.

does any of your parents do this?

i know i can’t stay like this forever and i have a younger bro too, whose going to college soon.

i’ve never been a long term planner and just let life take me where it goes. and it’s not beeen that bad tbh.

my future plan is vague and have roughly discussed it with my parents several times. they seem positive about it, with me. well, they never say no to me. so idk if they are happy with it, or just okay with it, or just scared to set me off.

i don’t have really good relations with my parents - superficially it’s all good but we have major clashes is some things which has got really nasty in the past.

thats why we avoid discussions in a deeper level. and i just have to tip toe around and come to reddit wondering what my own parents think about me.

i hate going out anywhere without AC in summer because of sweatttt. i hate sweat.

how do you control your sweat while going out?

Our water motor has turned on by itself for two times.

we have a timer dial attached and a switch. so we can set time for it to turn off after set time.

however one day i was alone and motor turned on by itself. i checked the dial and wall switch both were off.

i called my dad and he told me to press some button in the motor itself until it turned off.

i forgot about it.

now around 11:45 pm the motor started again by itself. had to turn it off the same way.

if i wasn’t awake it would probably have run all night.

i have no idea about motors and electric stuff.

😂

i’ve been going through the youtube channel Mindshift lately. would love to know your favorite listens

why do you do that? isnt it difficult? or how is it enjoyable for you? like does it not hurt the back and all later? also is it easy to lift 40-45 kg for most guys. i’m really genuinely curious

(i mean lifting during that thing)