Image 1 — my hair is falling out
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my hair is falling out

im 17 ftm and not on any hormones yet and my hair is all falling out. it comes out wherever i am and i can constantly see through it or feel how thin it is compared to my friends hair. it's so dead despite the fact i use no heat on it, and use hair masks. it hasn't grown in 3 years and it snaps off so easily. if i don't style it and let it sit naturally i look bald and i can't do anything about it. i still have shoulder length hair so i don't know what to do.

the doctors keep ruling it as an iron deficiency but ive been on the tablets for years and nothing seems to improve and im getting tired of asking them (in the uk btw) for them to just say yes well blood test you and then give me the same result when i can see it all coming out day by day and not even be able to put extensions in because i have no hair to hide them with.

ive been looking for advice for ages but i never get any or get ignored. i don't know what to do. it's making me unbearably depressed.

u/jieiedj — 6 days ago
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what can i do? Help!!!!

my hair is very thin and dry, but it gets oily so quickly but the ends frizz up and i can feel all the damage. its been falling out a lot more because of this.

it hasn't grown in a couple years (shoulder length) and im feeling like im making no progress with it. does anyone genuinely have any good shampoos/conditioners or treatments they reccomend that are fairly cheap and accessible in the uk?? im so tired of having no progress when i literally try to treat it as best as possible 💔💔 im not sure what to do!!!

it is bleached at the top however this issue was happening even before i bleached it. and sometimes the back literally looks like i have bald patches. im feeling so down about it 💔

u/jieiedj — 12 days ago

joining a sport

i don't know if this is the right place to ask i apologise if it isn't but im a trans guy and im a teenager and i really like wrestling and that and i want to do it but i don't know like.. how. i don't know how to get into it if im a trans guy and what to do because i know the discrimination via sports so i don't know if there's any point of trying to start.

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u/jieiedj — 20 days ago

hair metal looking jeans?

hello i don't know if this is the right place but i really love hair metal and glam metal. i dress like it every day but im really struggling to find any jeans that look reminiscent. sorry if this isn't allowed but i gotta ask 😭 i was not alive in the 80s for this era so any recs? my bad if this goes against the rules

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u/jieiedj — 1 month ago

sick and tired

it drives me crazy that i can't transition yet. there's always something in the way. there's always a wait list. always one more referral. one more month. one more call. one more pay wall. it drives me fucking crazy that im not a guy, i contemplate suicide most, if not every single night. but then, my parents always manage to say things that make me internalise myself and think about if im really trans or not. my parents say they "don't know how they can be any more supportive" but they've never called me he. never called me by my chosen name or referred to me as a son or anything. never. and they don't plan on it. they don't help me with anything medical, they've never talked to me in person about it apart from a screaming match in which me threatening my life is the only thing that makes them shut up. i was so excited about a gender clinic call today, and it went well, but then my dad goes "im not convinced this is the right option for you, but it's your body" and suddenly i consider what if im wrong and he's right but im just so mad i hate this cycle i just wanna be a guy

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u/jieiedj — 2 months ago

advice

i have been in basically excruciating pain for around a week. i always have dull toothaches, but last weekend i was screaming in pain and hitting my head against anything to try and make it stop. i went to an emergency dentist appointment, and they did an x ray which showed my wisdom tooth basically on its side pushing against my teeth and pushing all my gum up over my back teeth. they said to just take stronger painkillers basically. it's still killing me even now. i feel so angry and i don't know how to help it? ive had cocodamol and ibuprofen and constant gel and ice packs but it's still throbbing, it's driving me crazy. what do you have to do to get them taken out in the UK? i can't function with this level of pain

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u/jieiedj — 2 months ago

birthday cake

i cropped out my age candles but here's my axl cake i got!!! yay!!

u/jieiedj — 3 months ago

crippling nostalgia

i don't really know what's wrong with me. i have such a heavy sense of dread and nostalgia that every day is beginning to feel heavy, i thought it would go away and that everyone experienced this, but it doesn't. i am terrified of aging, and i have extremely bad nostalgia. i can't look back at memories without crying or feeling sick. i can't look forward to my birthdays because it feels like a doomsday ticking clock. if i see someone younger than me, by even months, or days, i feel overwhelmingly, disgustingly jealous. i don't know what to do. every time i look back on something it's never in a positive way. it's always in a scared please take me back way, and ive never been excited to get older. every birthday feels like im rotting. is there something wrong with me

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u/jieiedj — 3 months ago
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please help:(

im really insecure about posting this but does anyone know how to treat this? from far away it looks fine but up close it's like i have a million blackheads. :( i have eczema and i moisturize frequently but i don't really know what to do im so embarrassed

u/jieiedj — 3 months ago