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20M couldn’t get hard at all during my first attempt at sex — has anyone else experienced this?

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I’m 20 and recently tried to have sex for the first time with a girl I’ve been seeing and really like. She doesn’t actually know I’m a virgin.

When things started getting sexual, I just couldn’t get hard at all. It wasn’t that I got an erection and lost it — I never properly got one in the first place but beforehand i had an erection then when she suggested sex i went upstairs got a condom and couldnt get hard at all pretty sure my penis also shrunk which was embarrasing

The weird thing is I genuinely didn’t feel nervous at the time. I was attracted to her and wanted to have sex with her, which is why I’m confused about what happened.

Outside of that situation everything seems normal. I can get fully hard when masturbating/watching porn, I get random erections during the day and I get morning wood sometimes (not every morning).

Since it happened I’ve definitely got in my own head about it though. I really like this girl and I’m worried she might see me differently now, even though she told me not to worry about it. It’s embarrassed me way more than I expected and now I’m worried that next time I’ll be thinking about whether I can get hard, which will probably make it worse. And i think what hurts me most is that i really like this girl and she means alot to me so it kinda kills me that this happened because i hate the fact i disapointed but she was very nice about it and told me not to overthink it etc but i really dont want to lose her

I’m considering stopping porn and cutting down/stopping masturbation for a while and just trying to relax more next time.

Has anyone had this happen their first time despite having completely normal erections when alone? Does this sound more like a psychological/performance thing even though I didn’t consciously feel anxious?

And if you went through it, what actually helped the next time?

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