Swapped out the traditional diamond for her dream goth wedding ring and nervous to re-propose

Swapped out the traditional diamond for her dream goth wedding ring and nervous to re-propose

I totally misjudged her taste originaly, so my gf rejected the radiant cut and sent me back to the drawing board. I managed to track down her dream goth wedding ring that features a black sapphire setting she kept hinting about. I have the box hidden in my desk right now, but im second guessing if I should have gone with a coffin cut stone instead. Hopefully she will say yes to this one so I can stop stressing over jewelry.

u/jrlbernardo — 5 days ago

custom trillion ring is done and it’s perfection

just picked up my finished custom piece from the jeweler today! i went with a unique geometric setting because a trillion cut diamond ring just suits my style so well. the way the light catches the angles is unreal, and it feels completely tailored to my personal aesthetic. so glad i went against the grain and chose something a little different.

u/jrlbernardo — 10 days ago

got this custom pink flower diamond ring for my daughter to celebrate her turning 16

I want to get her something truly special for her sweet sixteen that she can keep forever, so I went with this custom piece. The light pink accent petals next to the main stone came out so pretty

u/jrlbernardo — 24 days ago

Anyone else have aquamarine engagement rings here?

For those who have one, do you regret not going with a harder stone? Just want to know if it needs a ton of extra care.

u/jrlbernardo — 1 month ago

Thinking of getting a pandora diamond ring... worth it or overpriced?

Been browsing different lab created stones lately and noticed Pandora offers some solid options. Just trying to figure out if you're paying mostly for the brand name or if the overall setting quality is legit. Would love to know if people think a pandora diamond ring worth it compared to direct online vendors!

u/jrlbernardo — 1 month ago

My ring is too big and I don't know what to do about it

My broyfriend proposed a couple weeks ago and the ring is gorgeous but it's honestly like a size too big. It spins around my finger constantly and I'm terrified I'm gonna lose it in .

I've been looking into getting it resized but I'm nervous about sending it off somewhere, plus I've heard resizing can weaken the band depending on the setting. Has anyone dealt with this? help me pleaseeee

u/jrlbernardo — 1 month ago

Got a matching marquise diamond stud earrings with a gold plain gold earrings!

I was worried matching marquise diamond stud earrings with a gold plain gold earrings set would look too busy together, but I am loving this combo. The contrast between the marquise cut and the smooth metal ended up looking way better than I expected.

u/jrlbernardo — 1 month ago

VVS1 vs VS1 is the price jump actually worth it or am I just paying for a label?

Ring shopping is pretty exhausting fr lol. Jeweler pulled up two stones for me, same cut/color/carat, but one's VVS1 and the other's VS1. Price difference is like $900 and he's over here explaining inclusions I literally cannot see without a loupe.

He says under 10x magnification the VS1 has a tiny feather near the girdle but it's not visible to the naked eye either way. So now the question is ... am I paying $900 for peace of mind or is there an actual practical reason to go VVS1 vs VS1 besides resale rights?

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u/jrlbernardo — 1 month ago

My BF popped the question with a circle engagement rings!

My long time boyfriend of five years proposed last night, and I was completely caught off guard. I'm still trying to process the surprise. Seeing this simple shape on my finger feels so right. No longer a lurker.

u/jrlbernardo — 1 month ago

Rose gold engagement ring durability?

I love the look of rose gold diamond engagement rings but I keep hearing mixed things about durability and maintenance. Some say it's tougher, other say it scratches weird or changes color overtime. I'm not gentle with jewelry at all. If you wear one daily, how does it actually hold up in real life?

u/jrlbernardo — 1 month ago

Looking for a flawless moissanite

Has anyone here bought a flawless moissanite? I'm looking for something really clear and sparkly, but not sure what to look for when choosing one. would love to hear your recommendations!

u/jrlbernardo — 2 months ago

Anyone else tried a sonic jewelry cleaner at home?

I picked up a sonic jewelry cleaner after noticing my rings always looked dull even after regular washing. I was honestly skeptical but watching the grime shake loose was weirdly satisfying. It works good on pieces I forgot about for years. I still wonder how safe it really is for softer stones since their settings feel delicate.

u/jrlbernardo — 2 months ago

Can someone tell me how much is a pink diamond worth in lab grown?

I went to a jewelry store just to look around and ended up fixating on the pink stones in the case. The salesperson mentioned lab grown options and now I cant stop wondering, can someone tell me how much is a pink diamond worth in lab grown? I forgot to ask about the price range and now its bugging me. I assume its less than natural but by how much exactly. Also does shade intensity change the value a lot? I probably should have asked more questions.

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u/jrlbernardo — 2 months ago

Bought an engagement ring last year..now I'm seeing diamond prices falling

Got engaged last year, and the ring was the biggest purchase I've ever made. I spent months researching, comparing specs, talking to jewelers, and finally pulled the trigger because I wanted it to be perfect. At the time, prices felt high, but I told myself it was worth it for such a once-in-a-lifetime moment.

Now my TikTok feed keeps screaming ''diamond prices are falling!” and “lab-grown is crashing the market!” and I can’t help but feel like I bought a brand-new car the day before massive rebates were announced. Every time I see one of those videos, I start doing mental math and wondering how much I “overpaid.”

It’s sentimental, not an investment.. I know that. She loves it. I love what it represents. But still… how do you stop yourself from thinking about the timing and what you could’ve saved? Has anyone else felt this way after a big emotional purchase?

u/jrlbernardo — 2 months ago

We're thinking about getting Celtic wedding rings

I've been looking at Celtic wedding rings and I keep going back to them. The patterns look really nice and it looks nice without being too much. I'm just not sure if it's a good idea long term since the designs can be a bit detailed. Anyone here wearing one? How does it hold up for daily wear? Trying to pick something I won't regret later.

u/jrlbernardo — 2 months ago

Treating myself with a round wedding ring

I finally did it and bought a round wedding ring as a gift to myself. I've been eyeing this style for a while, and seeing it on my hand feels unreal. I didn't wait for an occasion or someone else to buy it. I just wanted something that remind me I'm doing okay. Kinda proud of this little moment.

u/jrlbernardo — 2 months ago

Engagement rings for women under $1000

Looking for engagement rings for women under $1,000. What styles or stones would you recommend that stills look elegant and high quality?

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u/jrlbernardo — 2 months ago

I love my beautiful wedding ring!

I just feel so happy and lucky with my wedding ring. I can't stop looking at it. What's your favorite detail about your ring still makes you smile everytime you notice it?

u/jrlbernardo — 2 months ago