Should I stay
Recently have been starting something I tought was meaningful with someone, they drive many hours to see me and I sleep over there all the time, they plan dates and we basically act like a couple. Since day one we talked about what we wanted and I’ve made it clear I can’t do multiple people at once and I wanna see where things go. We seemed both very on the same page. I’m the back of my mind my intuition was telling me that he was secretly evil but all his actions pointed sooooo the opposite, i recently texted them to tell them I cannot do casual and I do not like the idea of them seeing anyone else and that I was sorry for projecting my past relationship onto them. They responded very maturely and told me not to worry at all, the day before they had even insisted on pinky promising that they weren’t seeing anyone else. I couldn’t shake the feeling something was off and so I did my stalking (kinda entered psychosis for a while there ) but it payed because I found the girl that was in his recent addresses and she showed me they had been hanging out not even emotionally.. the problem is I’m sleeping at their place tonight and I know that they know I found this out because suddenly they texted me saying they wanna talk about being in the same page. I’m disappointed and sad but I’m having a hard time imagining stopping what we had. I’m just wondering would it be bad if I stayed there and wanted to continue this causally..