Feeling the feeeels.
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Feeling the feeeels.

I moved into a new place three days ago, and today I finally unpacked my Pyrex collection and put it out on display. I haven’t actually seen most of it in several years.
After leaving an extremely abusive marriage and downsizing, I just didn’t have the space to have my collection out anymore. So unpacking it today unexpectedly hit me pretty hard… in a good way.
Some of my happiest memories from that time in my life were antique hunting with my stepdaughter and my grandparents. My grandma passed away earlier this year, and we were extremely close. We had been antique shopping together since I was two years old. My grandparents even had their own antique booth for about a decade, and they used to take road trips all over the country collecting things they loved. Their house is basically a treasure chest of memories.
Looking at my Pyrex today brought so much of that back. I thought about all the afternoons spent hunting for treasures with my grandma and grandpa, and all the fun times antique shopping with my stepdaughter, who I’m still very close with.
It was such a strange feeling because some of these things came from a really difficult chapter of my life, but they also hold some of my happiest memories from that chapter.
After so much darkness, it felt really special to be able to unpack these things and actually enjoy them again. To have the happy parts of that time in my life out where I can see them, instead of packed away in storage.
I know it’s “just Pyrex” to some people, but today it felt like a little reminder that even in the middle of some really hard seasons, there can still be beautiful things worth holding onto.
Anyway… I’m just really happy to have my collection home and on display again.

u/jussstjen — 2 days ago

Love bug 🐞

This little lady is truly my husband & my world! It is so fun scrolling through this sub and seeing how similar everyone’s borders are, personality and looks! We are all the luckiest humans to be loved by them 💙👏🏼

u/jussstjen — 1 month ago

The decision was made for me… and I’m ok with it!

After leaving an extremely abusive marriage, and then receiving a lot of therapy.. I found the partner of my dreams, the person that finally made me go “wow” everything I’ve ever dreamed of in a relationship CAN exist, as long as you’re with the right person.
This led me to wanting nothing more than to start a family with him, and as soon as possible! He felt the same way. Well, life had different plans. My health completely tanked about a year into our relationship, right as we were thinking it was getting close to time to start trying. We had enough money saved up to buy a house and do everything the way we thought was “the right way”.
I got diagnosed with a genetic condition that I showed signs of my entire life, but wrote off as weird “quirks” until they were no longer quirks. This required me to get surgery after surgery, and led to finding out that I also would not be able to conceive at the age of 31 years old… I was already post menopausal. I was crushed, we both went through a long period of depression.. grieving the life we imagined together, the family we had envisioned, along with the limitations that my condition will put on me for the rest of my life. It was a hard year coming to terms with our new reality. Now we’ve come to terms with it, through all of my health struggles we’ve become even closer to one another, we’ve had to face challenges most people would never imagine, and through the pain I’m grateful for it. We share a real once in a lifetime love, and we also get to be aunty and uncle to a really great niece and nephew on the way!
Watching my brother and sister in law raise their daughter has been so eye opening to me, they did it all “right” they both have amazing careers, health benefits, a gorgeous home, savings and retirement accounts…. And their child was born with medical complications. They’ve overcome and she will lead a mostly normal life, but it hasn’t been without GREAT stress and sacrifice on their part. Even with the help of family it’s been a battle, financially and emotionally.
Being an aunty is now my purpose, and maybe as I get healthier we will get the opportunity to foster children. Being able to accept where you are at, and know that there are still opportunities no matter your age, to make an impact on a young persons life is pretty miraculous.
Being on the fence is OKAY, changing your plans is OKAY, life making changes that you didn’t anticipate is also OKAY.
Don’t put so much pressure on an outcome you cannot predict. Take life as it comes to you, with or without children, it will be okay.

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u/jussstjen — 2 months ago