u/kikiweaky

I was getting ready to eat pesto last night and prepped with a lacteeze double strength. Instantly, my tongue itched so bad, then my lips started swelling so off to A&E for me. Turns out a lot of it is made from a mould enzyme which I'm allergic to. I didn't think to think about since I only recently became allergic to mould.

I'm just bummed that life won't let me have a damn slice of cheese. Please take a moment of silence with me.

For the past 2 years I (40f) have been tired every day, I wake up dizzy with headaches. I've done several blood tests everything comes back normal. I did an at home sleep apnea test and they said I was fine.

I just feel like I'm starting to lose it I can't function my memory is going. Some people's face or pictures look blurry to me and I have to look at them so hard to get the image or face to make sense it's like looking at frosted glass. Sometimes I pick up the wrong object for what I'm doing.

On top of it I have a teen kid with adhd/autism who hurts themselves. They fight me on school, cleaning, homework, food, everything.

But I still have to do it all because who else will? My husband offers to help but he can't or forgets. "All I need to do is say something." I've been telling him that I need help with groceries, cooking and cleaning. He says "oh, I didn't know thats what you meant when you said the living room needs cleaned." I ask him not to make himself unwell because I need him and he goes and eats gluten and started his weight loss shots while not altering his diet or he'll just starve. Then he is too unwell and I i have to do all the task after all its not his fault his stomach hurts 😢.

I'm tired bromos and I want to walk into the ocean.

My teen paints me as the worst person to ever exist. Say I hurt them, make them do extreme chores, and control their sleep. I don't do this and never have. I worry about them telling everyone online these lies, what if a stranger shows up thinking they are a hero?

I confronted them about it and they swear its true. I've taken to psychiatrist, doctors and social services to try and figure something out. However, everyone just say support them but what does that mean? I'm not going to say I did something I've never done. These lies are going to cost me everything if they don't stop.

I 39f got a gift of a giant hunting dog! I stopped hunting when I became allergies to just about all trees, grasses, bushes, flowers, farm animals and more. On top of it I developed types 2 narcolepsy so I'm always tired and dizzy.

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He 40m, asked me if I wanted a dog, and I said absolutely not, I can't take care of it I can barely handle our Autism/adhd kid. I did say if you want one I'll take shots but I don't want to walk it, play with it, clean up after it nothing. I do not want a dog but I don't want to say you can't.

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So he gets the dog 1 month in he gives up walking, training, and cleaning up after it. I like a chump do it and I'm overwhelmed the dog is so strong now eats all of shoes, clothes and my expensive medicine. He says he needs me to care for it and he can't do this on his own. This was supposed to be a gift for me to get me back to normal.

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I lost it bromos, I said it was the worse gift ever who give someone something they said they can't handle? You're not thinking of me you think you know better than me about me.

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I told him to give the dog to the training company he went to for help with the dog. My kid 14nb is pissed even though they didn't help at all with the dog. I feel like an asshole about it but I told everyone I literally cannot do it.

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I just feel so guilty for my illnesses, guilty about not saying no firmer, guilt about surrendering the dog.

Growing up there was a lot of violence and yelling in my home. My dad and brother love horror films, ghost, and gore. Ever since I could remember they would jump out of nowhere, hide in my bed, or set up spooky stuff to frighten me. I also couldn't opt out of horror movie night so now I hate those things to the max.

I let everyone know I hate ghost, aliens and horror, please don't include me. I tell my husband all the time that I am not interested in watching that stuff but he ask over and over. He'll asks "what if we watch with the lights on" "what if it has a good story". I told him it ruins my week to watch it and I never will but he still brings it up.

It took me a while to get out daughter to stop scaring, its shot my nerves up. I'm stress with a lot of work lately and cleaning. I started to vacuum and out of nowhere it dies. He is right up behind me and in my ear he says "Did it die?" I lost it, I said "I fucking wish people would stop scaring me!" I drop to the floor crying and I feel stupid, I feel like I'm unworthy of respect and I'm tired of people constantly "trying to understand" just stop scaring me trying to get me to watch scary stuff.