u/kingofpiratessss

A little over a month ago, my friend broke up with her boyfriend and I offered to let her stay with me while she got back on her feet.

The first week I noticed she started completely changing her style. Every time I bought something new and showed it to her, she'd go out and buy the exact same thing. She changed her makeup to match mine, styled her hair like mine, started wearing my clothes and makeup without asking. When I confronted her, she said she was "like a chameleon" and absorbed the style of the people around her because of “new city life” She also told me my clothes fit her better and looked nicer on her.

I started noticing that whenever I mentioned I was meeting someone or going somewhere, she would "accidentally" show up at the same place and then somehow came back home at the same time as me.

She began acting like she owned everything and like she was the boss of me. Within the first few days, she asked me to get rid of my cat because her cat needed a calmer place. She wanted to throw away the furniture and throw away things she didn't like, even though I rent the apartment.

She refuses to look for a job and doesn’t want to pay for anything. When I bring up paying rent or expenses, she says she'll eventually find a rich man and that "other people" can pay for things instead.

She refuses to go to work and she spends most days shopping or partying. She said that i don’t know how to live a life because i prioritise work over fucking with random men in club bathrooms. We fight alot because I don't want to go partying with her.
She also downloaded Tinder and now regularly invites different men back to the apartment to spend the night.

Couple of times when we have gone out she puts me in situations where I just have to pay for things.

I no longer want her living with me. Although she has promised she'll find money for rent, she refuses to move out because she says she doesn't see that she's done anything wrong. I just want her gone.