Getting divorce, need advice/support

I’m 34, getting divorced after a decade together. We have two kids (5 and 1). The last few years, I felt empty—slept on the couch for 5 years because my wife preferred sleeping with our youngest. I worked tirelessly to support us, but emotionally, I was broken. I asked for a divorce earlier this year, but she convinced me to stay. Two months later, she filed.

Now I’ve left our home, my kids, and I’m paying for everything—rent, bills, you name it. Financially, I’m stretched thin, but I have a solid job. Mentally? I’m a mess. Some days I’m numb, others I just want to cry. I know it’ll get better, but right now, it’s brutal.

The worst part? She’s making it impossible to see my kids until the judge rules. She’s blocked me, ignores calls, and barely responds to emails. I’m just trying to survive until then.

No legal advice needed (I’m in Europe), but any words of support or wisdom would mean a lot. Thanks, internet strangers.

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u/kiraitachi — 8 days ago

What is your take on Infomaniak Kdrive?

Hey, im moving out of onedrive. Been a solid customer for 10 years, but im getting divorced and need to lower my budget.

I tried kdrive 30 days so far and it looks nice with the ksuite plan.

Also european solution and sweedish. So quite happy to be digitally sovereign.

What is your opinion? Vs others like pcloud, internext, proton, etc?

So far I like it very much 20€ aprox for 1TB + email + only office web.

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u/kiraitachi — 8 days ago

Kdrive integration in onlyoffice android doesnt work

I tried creating a CDM application password and still integration doesnt work. Im using android onlyoffice and have ksuite plan + paid.

Cheers!

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u/kiraitachi — 8 days ago

Kdrive integration in onlyoffice android doesnt work

I tried creating a CDM application password and still integration doesnt work. Im using android onlyoffice and have ksuite plan + paid.

Cheers!

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u/kiraitachi — 9 days ago

Book Tracker Warhammer 40k books - Librarium Imperiales

Hey everyone,

I’ve been diving deep into the madness of Warhammer 40,000 lore and got tired of jumping between spreadsheets, wikis, and random lists trying to keep track of what I’ve read… so I built my own tracker.

https://librarium-imperialis.vercel.app/

It’s a clean, local HTML tool (no install, just open in your browser) that includes:

  • 📚 Full timeline from Horus Heresy → Modern 40K
  • 🧭 Organized by eras and series
  • ✅ Track read / reading / unread progress
  • 🔎 Search and filtering
  • 📊 Progress stats per era

I also made a design choice to flatten everything into actual books only (no nested audio drama parts or sub-entries cluttering the list), so every entry is something you can genuinely track as a “read”.

I’d love feedback from other lore addicts:

  • Am I missing any important books or series?
  • Would you prefer audio dramas split or grouped?
  • Any UI/UX improvements you’d suggest?
  • Is the ordering intuitive for you?

If there’s interest, I can keep updating it and maybe even turn it into a proper hosted tool.

For the Emperor ✊

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Thanks for the feedback i really appreciate the constructive feedback and letting me know what Im missing.

If you can provide me some links to where i can find all the books well organized i will use it to update the tracker with the correct information.

Thanks again!

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u/kiraitachi — 2 months ago