Am i overreacting?

My grandma and cousin were planning on taking a trip down to the beach and my cousin offered to pick me up to hang out with them. My cousin lives about 4hrs away from my grandma and my grandma is about 6 hrs away from me plus the drive to the beach is maybe 2 hrs from me. The beach is a straight 9 hrs from my grandma so where im living is on the path to getting to the beach.

My cousin told me on monday she will be going down to my grandmas and spending the night. Tuesday morning she was supposed to come get me. Mind you i did not ask her to pick me up she offered. Because of the fact i was going to buy a car but ended up having to return it. I had told them i wont be able to make it. She stepped up and said i can pick you up and drive you back home.

So i get all my things ready and cancel a trip with my boyfriend who i live with because i havent seen them in about 2 years, Tuesday rolls around and i dont get any texts until about 9am which i am fully ready at this point.

My cousin texts me shes about 5 hrs away so i relaxed a bit because i got ready a little bit too early. 1pm rolls around and she texts me “please be ready when we get there so we can leave quickly” which i respond with “im ready just need to put my shoes on”. Another roll by no texts or updates. My grandmas phone does not work without wifi so she didnt respond to my good morning text.

My cousin texted me that she is tired, and i asked if she slept that night and she said not really. I responded with oh and a 😔 . Its now 5pm i have no updates or anything. I am waiting at the door at this point because they should be here soon and i see a black suv drive up and then turn the corner (my house is right on a corner) so i assume she missed the turn because i saw that it was her through the car window. I texted asking if they were in a black SUV.

I dont get a response for another hour and she finally texts me at 6pm saying how did i know, i then told her i saw them. No texts for another hour but she is active. Mind you as well she has been active all day as well during the time i was not getting any replies. She then tells me she was too tired to make it down here. I just said oh okay. And left it at that.

It hurt me because i have alot of issues in the family not fighting or anything just they never reach out to me and at this point in my life i only have my boyfriends family. No mom no dad no aunts i can reach out to. I was really excited to see my grandma and spend time with them. I never got anymore texts after wards and i assumed that she was going to get a hotel and pick me up on Wednesday. I still havent gotten any texts and its now Thursday. I ended up just unpacking my things and cried to my boyfriend about it. He told me that family dosent just ghost you like that. And i shouldnt let them make me feel bad.

I had a feeling that this was going to happen. I find myself being let down alot by my own blood family.

Am i overreacting? I feel like she could have told me or she could have just not offered to pick me up if she wasnt going to go through with it. And im still hung up on the fact i saw her pass by and ignore my texts. Im 100% sure it was her and her saying how did i know they were in a black SUV just confirmed it.

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u/kitty333-22 — 14 days ago
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Knee pain

I get alot of knee pain in some poses where you need to have knees to the floor. Any suggestions?

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