u/kyahikreinab

Everyday I come across men posting 'did i fumble?' or 'how to not fumble her' posts, it's very disheartening to see men of our gen questioning themselves over a mere reply to give a woman which will lure her to go on a date , and when they blame themselves like' shit I fumbled her' bhai kya batau, as long as men won't feel secure about themselves you'll always blame yourself like bhai ladkiyon ke pass itne options rehte hai why are you being so harsh upon yourself ki humesha perfect reply hi dena hai.. manlo yaha se suggestions le bhi lo perfect reply ke then how will you lead the conversation.. the right one will reply even to your 'okay' and the girl who is not interested in you will ignore your 'paras'.. bhai this is the time we stop pedestalizng women so much.. it's very much needed for our gen. Once you see there is any sign of disinterest you move on to the next woman and stop entertaining her and questioning yourself.

I'll go first, a girl told me she was 'disgusted' by me to hurt me in every possible way just because of my mistake for which I apologized.

Bhai fifa ki screening kaha kaha hori koi batado ache wale kaha hore batado.

Yaar I'm feeling sleepy-sleepy all day tumlogo k sath bhi yehi hora h kya? Maybe mausam ka hai idk kya hai ye. Is month pura yehi hua.

fellow men of this sub there is a lingering thought in my mind that being in a relationship in my 20s is ain't worth it people have a lot of emotional baggage nowadays and being in a relationship you have to look out for emotional needs of your partner and yours simultaneously, then what's the point of having a relationship... After being in 3 relationships, I kinda don't want it if there is a pressure of marriage. Then the point is different, but I don't think any woman can add much value to my life ofc physical intimacy will be missed but beyond that I don't think they add any value. It takes a lot of emotional strength to be in one. I only crave physical aspects of a relationship because I'm fulfilled emotionally i don't think a need a relationship for my emotional needs,might go for casual route now they way situation is rn with me because of that.

Yaar voltage down h kya tumhare yaha bhi?