Alpha doesn’t come from common knowledge

One of the best things you can steal from great people is their ideas, and the fastest way to get smarter is to read smarter people. While studying their daily rituals, I’ve started believing this line more and more: “Alpha doesn’t come from common knowledge.”

I found this on the Daily Rituals website, but sadly, the site has shut down. It was about Sir Isaac Newton’s routine:

“One of Newton’s assistants noted the physicist’s habits in the 1680s. Newton rarely went to bed before 2:00 or 3:00 a.m., and sometimes not until 5:00 or 6:00 a.m. Yet, “in a morning he seem’d to be as much refresh’d with his few hours’ sleep as though he had taken a whole night’s rest.” During the day, Newton was never seen taking a walk or engaging in recreation. His assistant recalled hearing him laugh only once. Food was also a dispensable luxury. Newton dined sparingly and often forgot to eat at all. If reminded that he hadn’t touched the meal set before him, Newton would reply, “Have I?” and absentmindedly take a few bites before plunging back into his work.”

Stories like these inspire me every time I read about Newton, or any other artist.

I also saw a tweet by a person named Ron where he said:

“Thiel did a fireside chat my freshman year (2014) of college where someone asked: ‘Could the next Zuckerberg be in this room?’

Thiel: ‘He would never show up to an event like this.’

Basically, there is endless advice out there on how to live, think, and act. But the people who actually do bold things don’t always have time to sit around consuming information all day. They do things, get stuck, and figure them out.

That’s why I believe in questioning most advice and walking your own path. People give advice based on their own situations, goals, and perspectives. Your situation is probably very different. They’ll try to fit you into their world, but you probably need to build your own.

There’s a good quote by Jeffrey Pfeffer: “You can’t be normal and expect abnormal returns.”

Imagine if someone had suggested Vinci, Newton, or Tesla avoid extreme routines and maintain active social lives. Would they necessarily have become who they became?

I don’t think their unusual habits were necessarily the reason they became extraordinary. More likely, their unusual habits were a consequence of being unusually obsessed with something.

Here’s another example from Daily Rituals:

“(Francis Bacon’s) idea of dieting,” Mason writes, “was to take large quantities of garlic pills and shun egg yolks, desserts, and coffee, while continuing to guzzle a half-dozen bottles of wine and eat two or more large restaurant meals a day.”

From history to today, every artist who creates something meaningful seems to have unique, and often weird, traits that make them who they are. For me, that’s what makes studying great people so fascinating.

Thank you so much for reading!

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u/learn_tolearn — 2 days ago

Principles I Learned From the Greats

I believe experience is the highest form of knowledge. But I’m still in my early 20s, so there’s no reason to blindly follow the principles of someone who hasn’t lived his life yet.

I’ve studied people I admire, and some of these ideas I’ve experienced myself. I’m writing them down as a note to myself, to remember what I’ve learned so far.

You’re allowed to reject my advice.

1. Believe in spontaneous curiosity.

  • The ability to act in the moment when you feel the urge to do something is hugely underrated. When you’re inspired to do something, do it.
  • Most great things happen spontaneously, as side projects or hobbies, without the aim of making something big. So do more side projects.
  • Don’t be practical. Be delusional.
  • Maximize your serendipity. The more risks you take, the luckier you get.

2. Don’t get attached to the self.

  • Don’t fix your identity. Every human contains multitudes and has the capacity to think any thought ever conceived.
  • Learn to handle the risk of embarrassment, rejection, and failure, and be shameless.
  • The biggest weakness is wanting to be liked.
  • The attention you’re seeking is your own.

3. Learn to think.

  • All learning is about how to think.
  • Math is just a way of thinking, and it teaches you how to think. Physics teaches you what is true. If you want to understand how everything works, study math and physics.
  • Build your foundation: study computer science, math, physics, and engineering. Nature has no boundaries.
  • In this world, we don’t come with innate knowledge. We read books, observe people, and watch movies. As we do, we collect information about the world. Over time, those ideas collide and fuse together to form something new and original.
  • Whatever you’re looking for is already written somewhere. Some people have been in your situation and had thoughts similar to yours, so they’ve written them down. When you find their words, you’ll realize you’re not the only one thinking these things right now.

4. Build something.

  • The best way to prove your value is to build something.
  • The best way to find like-minded people is to do something interesting. Then you’ll have something to offer, and you’ll attract the right people.
  • Pick the immediate direction that will put you in a position to work with the smartest people. That’s probably more important than having a good idea.
  • Most of us look up to a few people who have already achieved the dream we’re trying to achieve. But the real question is: why aren’t you doing what they actually did? Is it ego? Ignorance? It’s obvious you should copy what works, but you don’t.

5. Learn from the greats, but become yourself.

  • I can’t be the next Newton or Elon Musk. Even if Elon guided me personally, I can’t be him. But certainly, I can be myself. I can learn from great people, study the patterns in their lives, and copy what works. But in the end, I have to experience and figure it all out by myself.
  • You don’t lose what you don’t have.
  • The top three most important decisions in life are what you do, where you live, and who you’re with.
  • Write for yourself. Write to remember.
  • Writing is basically talking to yourself.
  • Live an unscheduled life.
  • Agency > courage > intelligence.

And, above all:

Reject most advice.

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u/learn_tolearn — 7 days ago
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Regarding UI/UX Design path

UI/UX Design is in my current semester; I genuinely love this subject. I've almost understood all the theory, and it's so fun to hear what my teacher says in my classroom.

And I know Design is about taste and judgment; more than anything, I think I have that thing that is needed in design, so I truly want to explore this field

Since I've understood the theory part, I want to do projects and actual design. Any course or resources, or advice on how to move on with this?

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u/learn_tolearn — 11 days ago

Regarding UI/UX Design

UI/UX Design is in my current semester; I genuinely love this subject. I've almost understood all the theory, and it's so fun to hear what my teacher says in my classroom.

And I know Design is about taste and judgment; more than anything, I think I have that thing that is needed in design, so I truly want to explore this field

Since I've understood the theory part, I want to do projects and actual design. Any course or resources, or advice on how to move on with this?

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u/learn_tolearn — 11 days ago

Obsession movie free screening

Obsession movie ko free screening lairako raixa katai, I just wanted to go watch, refreshment pani hunthiyo, but I got no buddies 🥲

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u/learn_tolearn — 13 days ago

I think I'm doing dumb things again and again, but here's my story

Except for my family and close relatives, no one knows about this side of the story.

After 12th, I came to KTM. I was an average student but an introvert, shy, disciplined one, so everyone thought I was actually smart, which isn't true. My parents aren't educated, and there's no one for me to guide, so I joined a foreign degree course, then after a year dropout. Wasted money and time... then started applying for the USA, couldn't get a visa, wasted 2 yrs, money, parents hope, and everything. After 12th, in those 3 yrs I wasted so much time on random things; I was naive.

After my USA Visa rejection, it's been more than 1 years I haven't gone home. Then I immediately started working as a waiter in a restaurant. This was my first job. Ma thorai bolne manxe sabaile hepthiye, kaha ma USA jana lageko manxe arkai duniya ma ayeko jasto feel hunthiyo.

Initially, I used to work from 10am to 10pm; first din naii khutta, backbone dukhera marna ateko thiye. Khutta ma ghauu haru bhako thiyo, but ma sanga paisa Pani thiyena so tehi restaurant bata paisa magera new shoes purchase gare.

5/6 Jana workers eutai room ma sutnu parthiyo, fohor atti thiyo, washroom thik thiyena, uduss ayera sutna didaina thiyo. I can't even explain with words, 6 months restaurant ma kaam garda Mero face ko color nai change bhako thiyo. Kasto innocent manxe thiye, bistrai realized bhayo then afulai changed gardai gaye. Restaurant ma hepthiye then slowly ma pani hawa kura garera tharkauna sike. kahilai na rune manxe ma, kati choti assuu bagthiyo mero. Gharma bolna pani laaj lagthiyo. tyo 6 months ma k k bhayo, kasailai thaha xaina, bhaneko pani xaina. Everyday mero thoughts yehi hunthyo "yo situation bata kasari bahira niskine" tyo time ma mostly chatgpt sanga advice, suggestions lirako hunthiye about different things.

Atti bhayera working ma bhaye pani Japan Korea Jana bhandai hunuhunthyo Ghar bata but malai padhna maan thiyo then I started preparing for entrance exam. Then I left a job ani room ma basna Lage, Mero Khana k hunthiyo thaha xa? Simi sasto parthiyo ani ekchoti 1 pauu liyera 3 din jati hunthiyo tyo sangai aluu mixed garthe ani jhol banayera khanthiye. Diet atti khattam thiyo, but I was way happier than before. Bistrai Mero anuhar ma muskan audai thiyo.

Then I gave an entrance exam, chose a college and now I'm studying. I'm studying and wearing that college dress after so many years. And I look great with those dress haha, I feel so confident nowadays. I'm a completely different person now. Mero bolne way ra hidne way pani change bhayo. I feel so great looking back. tyo din haru samjhida afailai achamma, lagxa kasari kataye hola, but I think tyo sabai necessary thiyo.

I learned a lot of lessons about life and people. So I'm writing this just to remind myself that I can be in that place once again if I don't work hard to take advantage of my current privilege.

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u/learn_tolearn — 15 days ago

Girls, what do you think about boys who have never been in a relationship?

Obviously, they may have fallen in love, but they haven't gotten into a relationship, dating or even a hug from a girl and they are in their early 20s. What are your thoughts on these kinds of guys or will you get surprised by "oh yesto kta pani hunxan ra ajkal"

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u/learn_tolearn — 22 days ago
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Girls, what do you think about boys who have never been in a relati'on*ship?

Obviously, they may have fallen in love, but they haven't gotten into a relat"ion*ship, dati*ng or even a hug from a girl and they are in their early 20s. What are your thoughts on these kinds of guys or will you get surprised by "oh yesto kta pani hunxan ra ajkal"

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u/learn_tolearn — 22 days ago
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Where can I find smart people in Nepal who are studying engineering, physics, IT or doing cool things in life?

I want my surroundings to be filled with passionate, energetic and smart people who are into fields like engineering, physics, IT or even creative fields like art. I'm not saying people from other fields aren't smart, it's just that my interests and goals are aligned with these areas, so I want to intentionally curate my environment.

I'm tired of being surrounded by the attention seeking game of life; influencers, social media validation and all of that. I want to step away from that game and play a completely different one.

I want to learn as much as I can and my long term goal is to build my own startup in the future. Basically, I just want to do meaningful things.

Although, I'm not that smart yet, I think I'm curious enough, so I would genuinely love to connect with those kinds of people.

And my intuition tells me that they might be rare to find because they are probably playing a completely different game, the one I'm thinking of playing.

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u/learn_tolearn — 22 days ago
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My life is so monotonous, I can't keep going anymore

God, I don't even have a love life. I've never dated anyone. I'm financially weak. My circumstances are a mess. I don't have a social life. I don't have close people or loved ones. I don't even have an emotional connection with anyone, not even with my family. Then what am I doing all of this for? Even if I achieve great things, if I still end up like this, what's the meaning? Or does everything change if I become rich? My life is so monotonous. So dry. Nothing special. Nothing exciting. All these years, what have I been trying to achieve? Why am I not achieving it? When will I? Or will it remain like this forever? Oh God, what's the meaning of all this? Where am I going? So tired of whatever this is

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u/learn_tolearn — 24 days ago
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I'm in my early 20s and I've never dated anyone

I'm in my early 20s and I've never been in a relati*on'ship. I've never dated anyone, never kissed anyone or done anything like that, not even hugged someone romantically. I don't think I'm bad looking, either. I just don't talk to people much.

But recently, I've been getting this strong urge to have someone in my life. I want to love someone. I want to have someone in my life.

I know it's not good to search for love, but at the end of the day, I'm human too and I have emotions as well, no matter how hard I've tried to be cold. I have this constant FOMO.

Sometimes I feel like I should avoid all this and focus on my career. But for how long? I'm really tired of this.

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u/learn_tolearn — 28 days ago

I found better and little cheaper options

Mero lagi ek jodi kohi suggest gardeu na. Malai sadhai regret lagxa afno choice

Sorry for posting 3 times for the same thing. Jabo chappal ho huna ta

u/learn_tolearn — 1 month ago
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Have you ever skipped your college to go to the library or to just self study?

Have you ever skipped your college to go to the library or to just self study?

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u/learn_tolearn — 1 month ago
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Has anyone ever been to the Nepal Bharat library?

Has anyone ever been to the Nepal Bharat library? Has anyone ever been to the Nepal Bharat library?

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u/learn_tolearn — 1 month ago

Should I go college regularly as an IT student?

How do I utilize my time? Mero college around 12pm samma hunxa. So Khana khada 1pm hunxa. Then ekxin nap liyo bhane 3pm hunxa. Yesari nai time gako thaha naii hudaina

Few questions:

- Do you guys go to college daily or use that time to do self study by skipping college?

- Should I go to college regularly or not?

Ma chahi college regularly janxu but sometimes time waste jasto lagxa

I just want to use my maximum time to learn skills but I don't kata k wrong bhairako xa

Need suggestions;

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u/learn_tolearn — 1 month ago
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Should I go college regularly as an IT student?

How do I utilize my time? Mero college around 12pm samma hunxa. So Khana khada 1pm hunxa. Then ekxin nap liyo bhane 3pm hunxa. Yesari nai time gako thaha naii hudaina

Few questions:

- Do you guys go to college daily or use that time to do self study by skipping college?

- Should I go to college regularly or not?

Ma chahi college regularly janxu but sometimes time waste jasto lagxa

I just want to use my maximum time to learn skills but I don't kata k wrong bhairako xa

Need suggestions;

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u/learn_tolearn — 1 month ago

Should I go college regularly as an IT student?

How do I utilize my time? Mero college around 12pm samma hunxa. So Khana khada 1pm hunxa. Then ekxin nap liyo bhane 3pm hunxa. Yesari nai time gako thaha naii hudaina

Few questions:

- Do you guys go to college daily or use that time to do self study by skipping college?

- Should I go to college regularly or not?

Ma chahi college regularly janxu but sometimes time waste jasto lagxa

I just want to use my maximum time to learn skills but I don't kata k wrong bhairako xa

Need suggestions;

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u/learn_tolearn — 1 month ago