u/lessbeanzzz

Let’s Talk About: social media standards in the wlw community
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Let’s Talk About: social media standards in the wlw community

With all the requirements i see, especially in r4r here in the philippines… sometimes it feels like you have to fit a certain “type” just to be considered attractive or dateable.

I get that everyone has preferences, but social media can really make you feel like you’re not enough if you don’t fit the usual beauty standards. 😭

As someone who doesn’t really fit those standards, I sometimes wonder if i’ll ever manage to attract anyone lol.

u/lessbeanzzz — 8 days ago
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how do you put yourself out there?

Problem/goal: how do you put yourself out there?

Context: like!!! 😔 I’m having a hard time navigating the gays. I don’t want to party anymore since I’m retired from that era. I’m focusing on self-care right now, and I already have hobbies, but yeah… I’ll most likely end up meeting straights. 😔

I’m also struggling to talk to girls at the moment, but I’m trying to build my confidence. As a masc, I’m always scared of making girls uncomfortable, so I tend to overthink before approaching anyone.

Also, how do you transition from just casually meeting someone to actually dating if you end up liking a girl you met offline?

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u/lessbeanzzz — 23 days ago

23 [F4F] looking for kasama kumain sa mcdo for spiderman brand new day toy

libre ko! hahaha syempre ako nag aya.

around manila sana. meet tayo this lunch time. gusto ko makuha pls 🥹

about me: masc gay girlie, gym goer
about you: female coz guys creep me out

we can be friends naman :) lets just talk when we meet!

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u/lessbeanzzz — 29 days ago
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ang hirap magyearn at this hour

HUHU RANT LANG!!

ang hirap magyearn at this hour 😭 as an ngsb. i dont want to rush relationships kasi that may lead toxic or whatsoever. hirap magyearn!!! gusto ko lang naman na mabait na femme gf na around my age pero wala talaga ako nammeet so far 😔 ayoko naman umasa dito sa reddit kasi iba daw ugali ng mga tao dito huhu. my trust issues would never 😭

yun lang naman thanks for listening to my tedtalk LOL

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u/lessbeanzzz — 1 month ago