"The Bell Jar" (Sylvia Plath): Review and Discussion
I just finished "The Bell Jar" and really want to share my thoughts and read everyone else's. Coming into this book, I knew it was about depression and I knew Sylvia Plath took her own life when she was quite young, but I wasn't prepared for all the emotions reading it.
First of all, let me just say that I don't think I've ever related so much to a character as Esther Greenwood, and I do not mean this as a compliment to myself at all. She is complex, she is flawed, she has a lot of work to do. And just like me, she is strong minded, she was a genious in school and then struggled to make friends, she sounded rude when she didn't mean to, she was mean and treated others as inferior without meaning to do it. All this was very relatable to me, a 26yo woman, for the better and for the worse, and this was the first time I saw a character like this.
Now, there are definitely somethings I thankfully don't share with Esther/Sylvia Plath, like the infinite amount of racist remarks, fatphobia, her treatment of other girls (the definition of a "not like the other girls")... While reading the book, I decided to look at this with the silver lining that our society evolved to a point where just reading this makes my blood boil. Racism is definitely not over, but writing things like these nowadays would not be acceptable anywhere, thankfully. I will also add here the insanity that was the medical treatment for depression back in the day, because even though I studied it in history class, it's still insane to read about shock therapy and lobotomies irl (not so fun fact, the inventor of lobotomies was my country's first nobel prize, insane)
I also think it's important to discuss the theme of this book: depression and mental health. This was the most realistic depiction of depression I've ever seen in a book and it was heartbreaking. Knowing Sylvia Plath wrote this book while going through depression and her first suicide attempt (and just before taking her own life) just made it all the more real, reading this book you know the author is describing something she was going through herself. I really like that Esther wasn't just a perfect girl who was then sad and mean; she was flawed the whole book, with good moments and bad moments, and her moments of spiraling were so raw that I had to stop reading often.
Another thing I would like to adress is the feminism in the book. Esther was a feminist in some ways: against being forced to marry a man, against patriarchy, against inequality between men and women. She wanted to be a strong, independent woman and that was pretty cool to read. However, I think it's quite obvious that she wasn't a perfect feminist. As mentioned, she constantly criticizes and feels superior to all the girls in her life. She also has quite a toxic relationship to men in general, which I guess would steam from Plath's difficult relationship with her husband (though the book was written before his affair I think). It's an interesting topic to discuss an imperfect form of feminism.
In general, I liked the book. I didn't love the structure of the book with the back and forths because it got confusing at parts, but I also kind of assumed it's to show how the brain of a mentally ill person works. Im also quite curious to watch the movie coming out in 2027, I do think Billie Eilish fits the character of Esther