u/lilithserve_kitty13

Hello, I think I need some advice. I’m 25, pregnant with my first child, and got married in the spring to the love of my life. We’d been dating over a year when we got married, and I’m literally about to pop. We live together, have two cats, etc etc.

I found out recently, after we got married/pregnant; that he’d cheated on his ex. A lot. And he’d lied about it to me. I have no evidence that he cheated on me, but I still feel like I’ve been stripped of my autonomy. Like he stole the choice from me by with holding information.

I found out yesterday, that a month into us officially seeing each other he was using dating apps. No messaging, no meeting, just for sexual gratification. That being said, it crosses my boundaries and I consider this cheating. Again, i was stripped of my autonomy.

He’s been very apologetic, understanding (bare minimum I know) and has made me feel seen, heard, reassured me he’s not that person anymore… but how can I trust him?

I’d like some genuine, useful advice on what to do. Thank you

Hello! Currently 33+6. I’ve never had insomnia like this, so I’d appreciate some advice. I’ll be super tired, ready for bed, and then hit with the strongest urge to squeeze/tense all of my muscles or shake them, and my imagination runs wild, with nervous vocal tics. I CANNOT get to sleep. I’m trying to just get out of the room and do something (my body literally wants me to go for a run) but because of the heat in the UK right now, it’s very difficult as the bedroom is the coolest room. Any tips/similar stories?

I (25F) am 22 weeks pregnant and my husband (24M) are due to travel from London to Tenerife (yep, South) at the end of the month for our honey/babymoon but aren’t sure of the risks. Of course I’ve been doing lots of legitimate research, but I just want to know a bit of netizen opinion in addition.

Hello - my husband loves this series and also loves warhammer. I know he wants a set for his upcoming birthday, and I wondered what I could get him that’s not too dissimilar from the world of stormlight. As you can tell, I know nothing. Many thanks!