u/littlemissdollette

WHY did i get literally INSTANT results on the first sub i listened to, then some results here and there for the next few weeks, then NEVER AGAIN?? i know for sure they work because my first sub results were drastic, i know that i can do it because i have, but how do i do it again? btw, i have tried the same sub again, and tried reenacting the entire situation, but nothing! what happened to my mindset?? for context, it was about 3 years ago, it was a kapelsu weight loss sub, and my mindset was sort of "open to anything", i was just curious whether it would actually work.

not sure if this belongs in this sub but i want to have my first relationship so bad. pls bear with my to try to understand my rant lol:

i go to school in a very white-dominated place. most girls, if ykwim, are copy and paste, and most of them are mean and popular. and most guys are the same, and a lot of them date the girls. i am latina, so i don't pertain to the group of popular girls, but i also don't pertain to the group of latinas because i don't look like a latina. i don't belong to any group so that makes it harder to make friends and get a bf, because the groups heavily define who talks to who at my school.

i've only ever had a semi-talking stage and i didn't even really like the guy. i've liked only a few others, but nothing happened and i got over it. guys have liked me but they're the ones i def don't wanttt. it also makes it harder that idek who to like. one second it's white boy, next it's mexican boy. (HELP). but also keep in mind that only the hispanics have liked me.

all my friends either have or had a bf, i just want to be next for once. ik that he'll come when the time is right, but i really want the time to be right already LMAO

i just truly don't understand what i'm doing wrong. i care about my appearance and i don't personally think i'm ugly. i mean i have a few insecurities but i wouldn't call myself an insecure person. even the guys who have liked me have complimented my looks. i'm kind and funny, and i actually often make people laugh. i'm a little awkward tho and maybe that's the problem. but in my opinion awkwardness is attractive. 👀

anyway currently there's a white guy i sort of like. he's very different from his peers and similar to me: academically focused (like me), Christian (like me), hes respectful to teachers (youd be surprised at how some guys treat teachers), he's just overall great. he was sending some signals when school was still on, (greeting me whenever he saw me, eye contact, talking to me a lot, going out of his way to talk to me) but summer break started so i forgot abt him. until i saw him in a store and he said hi. so now i'm just thinking again. i've grown used to popular white guys not going for me, but again, he is very different from the rest. anyway i hoped you all enjoyed this rant and leave thoughts below.

hi i've been a pink fan for a while now but i'm just learning that she posts songs to other accounts? does anyone have the full list of this music for me because i'm pretty behind. i've been waiting for her to drop for forever and she has been dropping this whole time 🤦‍♀️

so i rewatched DA and i have so many new feelings. first of all, i'm so mad that the production made the original group train for a YEAR just to tell them that the whole thing would end in a survival show. they all were told it was just training and development, and the producers in their interviews would constantly say "yeah we're keeping it a secret from them." like HELLO? that's so unethical.

then when they made the girls vote for who they would want in their group, they were told it wouldn't be shown to anyone. and then they literally showed everyone. on top of that, one of the producers said "yeah ik some people didn't like it, but the views went up!" are we serious??

and don't even get me started on the fact that they couldn't even get a person to eliminate them. they had to use an AI voice?? actual ragebait.

and finally, missy and her sister (i forgot her name) genuinely just make me livid. mostly missy, was constantly treating the girls as if they were children. "i'm extremely disappointed in you all, you all need to be better, do this, do that..." also she was just plain rude and passive aggressive a lot. being a producer does not give you the right to treat anyone how you want. i can't even imagine what went on off camera.

anyway idk what subreddit this rant belongs to but i really needed to air this out and want to know y'all's thoughts.

hii so i'm making a clear skin sub. is it bad to use "i don't have any pimples?" if not, what are alternatives? does "i have pimple-free skin" work?

manon's blackness this, lara's indian representation that, "can lara even speak hindi," "manon doesn't represent black people," "daniela isn't latina," blah blah blah. can we find something else to snark on? maybe..their supposed "actions?" or is it because they haven't even done anything and race is the only thing to talk about. race and ethnicity is a beautiful thing. it's diversity, it's representation, it's humanity. i love my ethnicity, and i would hate for someone who doesn't even know me to say that i don't represent it. nobody gets to say who represents what. let people represent their ethnicities, let the diversity be beautiful and uniting. is it that hard?

hi girlies, wonyoung's mindset is not talked about enough, so let's talk about how you can live your best life by using it !!

1. you are you, i am me. this means that nobody exerts any control over you. their opinion on you shouldn't change you. "you're weird, different, a loser..." ok, i don't care. you are you, i am me !

2. unbothered. NEVER care what anyone thinks of you. it is always simply a display of their jealousy. they laugh at your clothes, but deep down, they're jealous that you have the confidence to wear a unique style. keep that confidence and never let anyone take it from you !!

3. yolo. this is my own tip. a lot of people think twice before wearing that top, or going to that party, or talking to that person. what is there to be embarrassed about? my opinion is that we often overlook that we only live once. make bold outfit choices, go to those parties, make a move on that guy, do what your heart desires. as long as you're making your life better by doing it, do it. you have nothing to lose. if other people laugh, so what? jealous people also live once. live by yolo and you'll realize embarrassment is simply a social construct. have fun !!