u/lord-submissive

Don't drag me y'all I'm asking in good faith please hey

Like my parents retired and wants to move to the village

Like my parents moved from the village to the city for work and wanna move back like don't y'all wanna up yourself in life?

I understand that it's the conservative mindset and we all don't want the same thing but I feel like it's worse rather more in Africa

We had or have resources that build great industrialisations across the globe but we don't want the same for ourselves

Like our new roads barely last a month

May I ask where does this mindset come from

Why does it seems like a country with a certain group or people do well

I understand before colonialism we had thriving communities but why is it not happening now

I hope I don't comments to decolonise my mind but is wanting good for my people a colonised mind?

Let me know with sources if you have any please and thank

Apologies I really don't mean anything in a bad way but wanna know more

Don't drag me y'all I'm asking in good faith please hey

Like my parents retired and wants to move to the village

Like my parents moved from the village to the city for work and wanna move back like don't y'all wanna up yourself in life?

I understand that it's the conservative mindset and we all don't want the same thing but I feel like it's worse rather more in Africa

We had or have resources that build great industrialisations across the globe but we don't want the same for ourselves

Like our new roads barely last a month

May I ask where does this mindset come from

Why does it seems like a country with a certain group or people do well

I understand before colonialism we had thriving communities but why is it not happening now

I hope I don't comments to decolonise my mind but is wanting good for my people a colonised mind?

Let me know with sources if you have any please and thank

Apologies I really don't mean anything in a bad way but wanna know more

There is a Chrome extension but there's a paywall Argh capitalism

Any tips or advise to help me cope during this trying times

of course not by choice, doing it because of the job market in Tshwane.

he is loud he knows everyone and everyone knows him, he was also always at my previous hose so imagine living with him

he talks to every girl, he thinks i'm straight, he'll probably force to get a girl, i'm literally puking thinking about the future what do i do

I'm so not motivated to do anything in life rn

At this point it's pure disrespect. What you gonna do with that money and funny enough that job usually attracts mothers like wtf

The minimum wage has to be at least R15k+ I'd die on that hill

This country has become a playground for companies to exploit people

If you gonna do this job just yell on the rooftop that you a proud slave

Don't allow desperation to allow you to take such

If more people can reject such wages companies would be forced to change their ways but unfortunately conservatives would never amongst us💔

Why does Tshwane have 2 N4s?

Why does the one that goes through Phelinda just abrutly end and looks like an unfinished project?

Why doesn't SANRAL deal with all the roads? BTW are there a private or public organisation beacuse all provincial roads seem a huge mess

The R80 also needs to be expanded because of that huge amounts of traffic, and what's up with that bend? Gosh this country!

Why does Tshwane have 2 N4s?

Why does the one that goes through Phelinda just abrutly end and looks like an unfinished project?

Why doesn't SANRAL deal with all the roads? BTW are there a private or public organisation beacuse all provincial roads seem a huge mess

The R80 also needs to be expanded because of that huge amounts of traffic, and what's up with that bend? Gosh this country!

Firstly, I apologise for having numerous requirements. It's simply a courtesy to minimize the likelihood of being ghosted, although I'm aware it's still a possibility.

Before Sliding into My DMs Blindly!

Read this entire post, not just the heading.

You are not gonna allow my texts to sit for hours let alone days... I understand you may be busy at school or work or whatever... I used to work but still make time for my phone so you have no excuse so rather stay away

I'm looking for gossipmongers and venting partners. Yes, you read that right - I cry and complain every day, you should too and it's ok, fck them "strong" btches!

If you're not going to be supportive when I vent or share my thoughts and feelings, then please don't bother reaching out. I value genuine interactions and effort in our conversations. If you're going to dismiss or ghost me, it's best we part ways. I'll be wholeheartedly present for you if you're willing to do the same, especially when you need to vent or share your emotions. Let's prioritize meaningful connections.

I'm a total whiner right now, been unemployed for a bit, and it's getting to me. I'm a homebody, hardly go out unless I land a job. Honestly, if you can't handle someone who's always venting, then maybe this isn't the convo for you. I'm dealing with a pretty toxic living situation, and to cope, I eat a lot – I'm a total foodie. So, yeah, that's me in a nutshell. If you're cool with the drama, let's chat!

Important Points to Consider Before Reaching Out:

1. I don't want to be ghosted after a while of talking and getting along. So, if you're not serious about having a genuine conversation, please don't bother.
2. I prefer a homebody because they tend to respond quicker.
3. I'd love to connect with a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) because they have empathy and can understand any situation I share.
4. You should be chronically online, like me!
5. When starting our conversation, please don't begin with a casual "hey" or "hi." Be serious and genuine in your approach.
6. Keep our conversation Safe For Work (SFW). No explicit or mature topics, please!

Seeking Gossip Buddies & Venting Partners

If you're looking for a deep conversation or just need someone to vent to, I'm your guy. However, please don't add me if:

• You're not willing to offer emotional support (I cry and complain daily)
• You only want to gossip about yourself (that comes across as narcissistic)
• You're prone to ghosting after a week or so (just walk away, fool!)

A Bit About Me:

• I'm a 21-year-old male
• Currently unemployed
• Always online (but working on responding quicker)
• A bit fruity (if that's not your vibe, no hard feelings!)

Ideal Match:

• Loves texting and chatting online
• Enjoys venting and sharing thoughts
• Open to moving conversations to Snachat if we click

If that's you, let's get this gossip party started!

However, if you're prone to ghosting or aren't looking for a genuine connection, please don't bother.

Feel free to stalk my profile before reaching out.

Can't wait to connect with you, bestie!