Hello! So last month, I withdrew my enrollment from NU to enroll in another school. I completed all the requirements, and my refund amount, which was originally ₱6,000, became ₱4,000+ after deductions.
I followed their instructions and sent all the required documents through email, but it has been a week and I still haven’t received any response. Is there anything I can do? I’m planning to use the refund to buy my school supplies.
Hello! I’m planning to make a list ng mga need ko na mga gamit or school supplies for my upcoming freshman year. BECED po ang program ko and I want to make sure na makabili ako ng mga magagamit ko at hindi masasayang ang pera
I just want to let go of this feeling because I don’t want to keep thinking about ending it all. Sometimes I hate that I care about other people so much that I do things just to make them happy or constantly think about how they would react. I don’t want to feel like a burden to my family, so I try to help around the house. But when I do something that upsets them, I get threatened with being kicked out or told not to consider them my family anymore. It tears me apart because sometimes I feel so helpless, and I don’t know what to do other than feel guilty and apologize over and over again.
I love my family, but moments like these break my heart because of how hurtful they can be. I understand that they worry when there’s a situation that I come home late. They say it’s dangerous for a girl to be out late, but when it’s my brother, it’s somehow fine. I just turned 18, and sometimes I just want to have fun with other people. I’m always careful about the people I’m with. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I just go out and spend time with friends.
But none of that seems to matter to them. Every time I get home, I’m met with hurtful remarks and accusations that I’m doing something wrong or that I’m being stupid. It makes me wonder if I’m really doing something so wrong for them to react this strongly. I always ask for permission and keep them updated whenever I can.
I love my family, but hearing those hurtful words from them is really upsetting and suffocating because I don’t know what to do or how to handle it when it happens. I just don’t know how to talk to them in a way that won’t make them angry because whenever I express my opinion, they automatically think I see them as the bad guys. Sometimes I wish I didn’t care so much because maybe then I wouldn’t cry all the time or feel this overwhelming guilt. I feel stuck in this situation.
Hello, is anyone here a BECED student or someone who has thoughts about this course? I want to know the pros and cons and what to expect. I hope may sumagot. Thanks!
I’m an upcoming college student, and I’m still unsure about the course that I will take. Tourism used to be my dream before, but I kind of forgot about it until it resurfaced again after I got a scholarship from a university.
BECED, on the other hand, is something I unexpectedly learned to appreciate before I finished Senior High School. I school also accepted me with a BECED course and I’m really grateful for it. I’m torn between these two courses because I want to be practical while also doing something I love (which both of them can give me). But I also want to know which course will benefit me more in the future.
For those who have experience in these fields, what are the things I should consider or look for?
I’m planning to break up with my boyfriend. No arguments or cheating involved pero I just realized na ayoko muna magkaroon ng relationship ngayon. I feel guilty na gagawin ko yan, is my reason valid o angbabaw ng dahilan?
Pansin ko sa mga ibang teenagers ay may mindset sila na gusto nila ng anak o magkaroon ng asawa agad kahit bata pa. Bakit nga ba ayun ang gusto nila instead na i-enjoy ang pagiging teenager?
I’m planning na makakuha ng Blue or white scholarship sa NU Moa but I’m worried if kaya ko ba i-maintain. Gusto ko sana mag tourism and i’m curious if mahirap ba siya.
I'm an incoming college student and my problem is that I'm still unsure which school to choose. I want to make the right decision without becoming a burden to my family.
I have two options: RTU and NU. Sa RTU po, nakapasa na ako sa exam and may interview ako this coming Tuesday. Sa NU naman po, pwede ako mag-apply for scholarship pero unsure pa ako since May 25 pa ang opening ng scholarship. Nakapagpasa na rin po ako ng requirements ko sa NU for admission, pwede ko naman siya kunin just in case mag-decide ako na ituloy sa RTU.
My parents prefer NU since mas malapit ito sa place namin and they want me to wait for the scholarship. But for me, it feels like choosing NU is still a gamble because I might not pass the scholarship and it could be financially hard for my family. At the same time, I'm still hoping na makapasa ako sa NU scholarship.
Hello everyone! I just want to hear some breakup stories dahil curious ako kung paano niyo sinabi sa mga ex-partners niyo and kung ano yung naging outcome.
Back when I was in Grade 12, I had this one classmate na parang linta to the point na dumidikit lang siya sa’yo kapag may kailangan. Kahit simpleng task lang or kapag may tanong siya, lalapit siya sa’yo, and ikaw na yung mapapagod dahil parang endless yung mga tanong niya. Academic achiever ako, and while I wouldn’t say na sobrang talino ko, reliable ako sa iba’t ibang bagay when it comes to academics. Naiinis din yung iba kong classmates dahil ginagawa niya kaming utusan. Ako lagi yung nilalapitan niya para sa mga gawain. Nakakapagod kasi demanding din siya at perfectionist, to the point na pinapaulit niya pa sakin yung ginagawa ko.
You might be wondering why I kept doing it. Well, lagi ko kasi siyang nagiging ka-group, and most of the time naaapektuhan din yung grades ko kapag hindi ko ginawa yung tasks niya. Pinatapos ko na lang talaga hanggang grumaduate para ma-ghost ko siya, pero I heard from some of my classmates na hanggang ngayon ganun pa rin daw siya.
I remember after the school year ended, kinulit ko siya nang kinulit para ibalik yung t-shirt at ibang gamit ko na ginamit niya for a performance. Hindi naman ganun kahalaga sakin yung mga yun, pero gusto ko rin siyang inisin and it felt like my small revenge after months of dealing with her.
I’m entering college now, and I’m curious kung paano maiwasan yung mga ganitong classmates.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 months, and lately I’ve been noticing things that give me the ick. I don’t like that when he gets angry, he throws whatever he sees, and when he’s around, he constantly cusses and screams. Sometimes, I feel embarrassed to be around him because he’s loud in public and doesn’t practice proper hygiene at all.
I’ve tried ways to help him or make him stop, but he seems to continue. I feel like I’m slowly losing feelings for him, and I feel bad because he hasn’t really done anything bad to me. It just feels like we’re not a match, and it bothers me because his relatives know about me since he talks about me all the time.
Honestly, I feel so overwhelmed. Has anyone experienced losing feelings because of incompatibility like this? How did you know whether it was something worth working through or a sign that the relationship wasn’t right for you?