i'm getting brain damage

i'm getting brain damage

im so confused because im ftm nonbinary + a femboy (not like. the type of femboy that looks like a woman/is indistinguishable from one until they mention gender, i got top surgery + have been on testosterone for a bunch of years. but like, a feminine guy who likes to dress up as a girl occasionally) and i get approached by people who describe themselves like this online a lot

i have no idea what this means, genuinely cannot tell if they just see me as a woman or what. what is femininity? what is masculinity? how masculine am i allowed to be around these people, how much masculinity can they tolerate before they leave me? am i somehow misrepresenting myself???? often i feel like people only talk to me online because they can pretend im a woman while they wait for someone who's actually a girl to respond to their dms lol.

the guy i have a crush on describes himself like this do i just alt+f4 lol

u/lucatxt — 1 day ago

dog, what do i do about eyebrows....

i was trying to clean up my thick ass eyebrows and they're uneven . i literally look like im hitting 🤨 in selfies. am i going to be hate crimed if i try to find a professional to help... where would i even go.... has anyone gone to a place to get their eyebrows done how do i fix this please help m

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u/lucatxt — 11 days ago

where do you like to hang out online?

im curious what everyone does when it comes to socializing online (if you do)!! i know it's definitely easier for some people than others, so i wanna hear about other people's experiences and the apps/sites/games that they use to connect with people. :D

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u/lucatxt — 22 days ago

how does testosterone hrt impact muscle growth? 🫪

im transmasc nonbinary and i just started strength training, and i have no idea how testosterone will impact my body as i build muscle!?! i'm aiming for a lean build, which has been feeling complicated because i really want to build more arm strength so i can do things like carry a ton of groceries and throw a punch if i need to defend myself, but i don't really want to get big arms (nothing against them and they're hot, it's just not the look im personally going for) which has been making me feel worried about working them... everyone says you can't get big muscles on accident so maybe it sounds like a silly thing to worry about, but im super new and just dont knowww 😭😭😭

more general information about what testosterone hrt does in terms of muscle growth in general would be helpful too if anyone has any, i have no idea how building strength will impact my body cause ive been on T for 8 years and im only just now starting to seriously get into working out...... obviously body composition is a thing, but all of the male biological family members i know of having are seriously overweight (eg. my dad has been roughly 300-400 lbs/140-180 kg my entire life) so i have no idea what id look like and what things i should consider when picking target muscles and stuff @_@

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u/lucatxt — 27 days ago