
i'm getting brain damage
im so confused because im ftm nonbinary + a femboy (not like. the type of femboy that looks like a woman/is indistinguishable from one until they mention gender, i got top surgery + have been on testosterone for a bunch of years. but like, a feminine guy who likes to dress up as a girl occasionally) and i get approached by people who describe themselves like this online a lot
i have no idea what this means, genuinely cannot tell if they just see me as a woman or what. what is femininity? what is masculinity? how masculine am i allowed to be around these people, how much masculinity can they tolerate before they leave me? am i somehow misrepresenting myself???? often i feel like people only talk to me online because they can pretend im a woman while they wait for someone who's actually a girl to respond to their dms lol.
the guy i have a crush on describes himself like this do i just alt+f4 lol