u/maggie_mae_22

I am a 21F living in an apartment complex and I saw a girl around my age crying in the hallway. I wanted to ask her if she was okay, but she was wearing headphones and I didn’t want to pry. I had some feelings of regret not saying anything, but I have no way of checking in on her to see if she needs anything. I’ve lived at different apartment complexes over the years and never got to know any of the people living at any of them. Is it proper to introduce yourself to your neighbors? I plan on staying at this place for a while so maybe it’s a good idea? I’m not on Reddit often so I don’t even know if this is the right place for this post so please go easy on me if this isn’t the correct use.

It’s been about five months now since I called it off with my situation-ship. I found out late January that he had been secretly hooking up with a girl who he knew had sexually assaulted me in the past. I was devastated to say the least. I thought it would be easy to move past the entire thing considering what he had done, but I still can’t get over it. He was the only person I ever saw a future with. Not to mention the fact he had taken my v-card… he has a new girlfriend now that everyone is telling me is an obvious downgrade. I just want closure so bad. We have been no contact this entire time, but he is my coworker. I know never date your coworkers, but I never knew it would turn out this bad. Hindsight is 20/20 after all… I just need to know if it is the worst idea to seek closure especially since he has a new girlfriend. I don’t want to come off as a home-wrecker, but I can’t keep living like this. I’m looking for any form of advice. Am I insane?

It’s been about five months now since I called it off with my situation-ship. I found out late January that he had been secretly hooking up with a girl who he knew had sexually assaulted me in the past. I was devastated to say the least. I thought it would be easy to move past the entire thing considering what he had done, but I still can’t get over it. He was the only person I ever saw a future with. Not to mention the fact he had taken my v-card… he has a new girlfriend now that everyone is telling me is an obvious downgrade. I just want closure so bad. We have been no contact this entire time, but he is my coworker. I know never date your coworkers, but I never knew it would turn out this bad. Hindsight is 20/20 after all… I just need to know if it is the worst idea to seek closure especially since he has a new girlfriend. I don’t want to come off as a home-wrecker, but I can’t keep living like this. I’m looking for any form of advice. Am I insane?