u/mandy_vet — reddlx

Do women share details about their physical intimacy with their best friends?

I’ve been wondering about this. I recently found out that my girlfriend’s best friend knows certain things about our physical intimacy that I thought were only between us. Honestly, it caught me off guard.

I understand that best friends share almost everything, but I always felt that intimate moments between two people should stay private unless both are comfortable sharing them. So, I wanted to ask girls here, is it normal to discuss these things with your best friends, even specific details? Or does it depend on the person? Just looking to understand a different perspective, not judge anyone.

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u/mandy_vet — 10 days ago

▲ 216 r/trekkingIndia

Did my first long trek as a beginner!!

I was excited going in, but finishing it left me feeling amazed, thrilled and honestly, blessed. I’ve done shorter treks like Sinhagad and Raigad before, but this one was different. It tested my patience, stamina and focus.

Since I run regularly, the physical exhaustion wasn’t as bad as I expected. But the mountains, the views and the whole experience were something else.

I usually spend weekends scrolling social media, watching movies or gaming. Today made me realize how much I’ve been missing by staying indoors.

Really happy for everyone who already treks regularly. And if you’re feeling stuck, lonely, or addicted to social media - try getting outdoors. Start with small. You might discover something you really love.

Definitely not my last trek. 🤞🏼🏔️

Hats off to trekkers who do it with ease✌🏼👑

u/mandy_vet — 16 days ago

▲ 0 r/goatravel

Looking for a 3BHK villa around Panjim for clinic/shop

Hi everyone! I'm looking for a 3BHK independent villa or house around Panjim, Goa to set up a veterinary clinic/pet shop/grooming centre. It should preferably have good road access, parking space, and be suitable for commercial use (or in an area where a clinic is allowed).

If anyone knows of any available properties or reliable brokers, please let me know. Thanks!

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u/mandy_vet — 3 months ago

▲ 124 r/Goa

Don't say you missed today's sunset..

Caught this sunset on a beach in Benaulim today.

The sky slowly shifted from soft pinks and purples to a fiery orange glow along the horizon, while the clouds formed dramatic silhouettes over the Arabian Sea. The reflections on the wet sand made the entire shoreline look like a painting.

No filters, no edits—just one of those evenings that reminds you why Goa sunsets never get old.

u/mandy_vet — 4 months ago

▲ 513 r/recruitinghell

I rejected a 2100 $/month job because of...

So, last month I was trying for a job in the Maldives as a Marine Veterinarian and I ended up rejecting it just because of the clean shave and short hair policy.

Till now in my life, I did clean shave only once and I got skin allergy issues since then I haven't repeated it. Here, in the interview I told the team that I have allergy issues and all.

I'm a Veterinarian by profession and I know the importance of having a clean shave. Here, they didn't consider my request or situation and refused to give me flexibility.

Currently, I'm working and I feel not to go against your will just for a bit of a money.

u/mandy_vet — 4 months ago

▲ 2 r/relationship_advice

28/M and 28/F - 3 years in relationship - 8 months of live-in

I’m 28M, and my partner is 28F. We’ve been together for 3 years and have been living together for the last 7 months.

I work a regular 9-to-5 job and currently pay for all our major expenses, including rent, groceries, utilities, travel, shopping, and most other household costs. I also help with cooking and occasionally with cleaning.

About 18 months ago, she resigned from her job and was unemployed until recently. During that time, I helped cover some of her personal expenses and paid whenever we went out. About a month ago, she started a work-from-home job.

Last week, we had a small disagreement about clothing, which unexpectedly escalated into a serious verbal argument. During the fight, she suddenly brought up several things that caught me off guard. She said things like:

"I want to live my life my own way."

"I don't need your advice."

"I never asked you to pay for my expenses."

"I don't want to live a 9-to-5 life like you."

"You're too practical."

"I don't feel a connection anymore."

For me, this came completely out of nowhere. Until then, I thought things were going well. We had even been planning to get married this December.

Now I’m feeling confused, hurt, and uncertain about the future. I’m trying to understand whether these were just things said in anger or signs of deeper issues that have been building up for a while.

Has anyone been through something similar? How would you approach this situation before making a decision about marriage?

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u/mandy_vet — 4 months ago

▲ 52 r/Goa

Offbeat Goa | Goan Heritage

This temple is revered as the divine mediator who brought peace between Lord Shiva and Lord Vishnu, symbolizing harmony and balance.

One of the architectural masterpiece in Goa.

The temple's god was secretly moved from Quelossim to Kavlem during Portuguese rule, helping preserve one of Goa's most important Hindu traditions.

u/mandy_vet — 4 months ago