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Was let go for “using phone” and wearing tiny bag.

Was let go for “using phone” and wearing tiny bag.

Before you judge, just read first.

I’ve worked for 6 months part-time at a musical theatre playgroup for kids as an assistant. Today, a few hours after work, I was told by my employer that I was let go.

She told me that there were complaints from parents because I was checking my phone during class and wearing my bag near the end of class.

First, I was using my phone BECAUSE the lead teacher had asked my to record her and the class. I would then send the videos to her later.

My bag was tiny and could fill maybe 10L of stuff. I picked it up literally two minutes before class had officially ended and there was nothing left for me to do when I was waiting for the lead teacher to do her thing. And if there was anything to do, the bag would not be a distraction at all since it was tiny.

I asked my boss if I could be let go with a warning this time, she said no and fired me.

Of all the jobs that I was let go from, even the tiny ones, this had by far the worst reason to fire me.

EDIT: When I mean I was let go from other jobs(not ones like this), I mean work with private clients as a sports coach who had no idea what they wanted or decided they were no longer interested. Not every sport needs years of dedication to learn. This was one of the few jobs where I worked at an actual company. The other companies no longer had enough clients to justify keeping me around which was why I was let go for them.

EDIT 2: This was maybe my second time ever carrying a bag and using my phone to record the class. I normally put my small umbrella in it. I had spent the majority of my employment period working during winter, when I carried absolutely nothing except my wallet and my phone in my pockets. Using the phone wasn’t specifically part of the job description. I did it because the lead teacher had asked me to only very recently.

u/RGRahulTheGreat — 20 hours ago
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Finally got hired

After 9 months, I finally got an offer.

Honestly, the 14 rejections after interviews hurt way more than the 169 auto-rejections without interviews.

I’ve been in survival mode for so long that I still can’t fully celebrate. I keep catching myself scrolling LinkedIn and Indeed like I’m still job hunting because part of me still can’t believe this is real.

u/Solid_Evidence8761 — 16 hours ago

"Uh...who are you again?"

"I'm the Chief Strategic Synergy Officer for Future-Ready Stakeholder Alignment and Agile Operational Delivery"

u/AbbreviationsTop2192 — 17 hours ago
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I found a job that pays below federal minimum wage.

as far as I can tell, it’s not a contractor roll, it’s in America and seems to be a call center job.

i applied just to see what would happen.

u/glowshroom12 — 20 hours ago
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Recruiter and hiring manager bash me for leaving an interview after they join 10 minutes late

I had a virtual interview scheduled today at 2pm. I put my little shirt and blazer on and am sitting in the meeting room at 1:57pm. I wait until 2:07, then message the recruiter asking if I have the correct meeting link.

3 minutes later, the hiring manager hops on the call and I see she’s actively on the phone with someone else. She muted herself and holds up 2 fingers asking me to wait 2 minutes. My cameras on so I just keep a neutral face. After 2 minutes I did leave the call and email the recruiter again. “She has joined, but it looks like she is still wrapping up the previous interview. Please let me know if we'd like to schedule or if I can hop back on before 4pm today. Thank you!”

The recruiter calls me and asks what happened and why I left. When I told her I decided to hang up and offer to reschedule after being told to wait past 2 minutes, the recruiter says “uh, I think she meant wait on the call”

I was flabbergasted. I told her yes, I did send you an email just offering to reschedule. She asked me to hop back in the teams room so I did. The manager looks PISSED before she sees me on the call, then says I’m so sorry, I haven’t been feeling well etc and fell behind on this call. I said no worries that’s not a problem.
She asked me twice why I left the call after she said☝️hang on for one minute then ✌️two minutes. I said yes I saw that, but I did message the recruiter offering to reschedule. (I didn’t mention anything about me already waiting 10 minutes past the time)

The manager asks a third time why I left the call, and says “were you confused? I’m just trying to understand why you left after I asked you to wait” and I said i wasn’t confused, I thought you needed to reschedule. And she says 🙃 no I did not need to reschedule

The interview consists of he asking me to tell her about myself, and then she asked if I had any questions. Recruiter texted me this 30 minutes later.
I can’t believe that all just happened

Edit: The recruiter sent me a copy-pasted message recommending that I send the manager a thoughtful thank you note. get outta here

For everyone asking, I left the call because i felt it disrespectful of my time to be 10 minutes late and then not even join ready. I am not desperate for a job right now thank God. I am currently employed

u/Constant-Scheme557 — 1 day ago

I think I watched a startup die in real time

Long time lurker on this sub. I've not really had any job search horror stories besides application purgatory, until now.

A friend referred me to a startup for a contract developer gig. I'm going to present my experience as a series of red flags:

  1. The app is not marketable. It's basically a job board for a referral-based industry. Whatever though, not my problem.

  2. They shared their entire Github repo and a project brief that someone clearly wrote with AI. I don't think they reviewed it because it contained embarrassing financial information (*cough* five-figure revenue after 5 years). The brief also mentioned a delivery date that had already passed, but it's a short term gig so I brushed it off.

  3. The founder cancelled our interview last minute and when we finally did meet, she made a passive-aggressive comment about me being hard to schedule with. I gave my intro while they stared at the camera like this:

https://preview.redd.it/o6jkzuvend2h1.png?width=736&format=png&auto=webp&s=f47c1c93546cd5bbd519e9ac5df34d4f602b4181

I didn't even really have time to process this one before...

  1. They told me the timeline I had proposed over a week prior was unacceptable and started discussing hiring someone else to "just vibe-code it" in front of me. I said "I don't think you need me here for this discussion" and left the call.

I think they're under pressure to pivot to something marketable and were banking on this project to turn things around. The founder's Instagram looks like she's been on vacation her entire adult life, so my theory is she got an angry investor email recently and is in panic mode trying to prove she didn't burn millions on hot garbage. All the press is PR fluff from two years ago. Bullet dodged, I guess.

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u/equisetidae — 1 day ago

I am never getting hired again

27m, I don't think I am ever getting hired again. Ive applied everywhere. Mcdonalds, walmart, target, dunkin, schools, janitorial, navy(failed the test) Ive applied to over 800+ jobs in my area and got one interview. I genuinely am lost at this point. Ive tried blue collar and I cant handle the pressure and got screamed at everyday. I feel like im just not gonna get hired at all anymore. I call and its a game of cat and mouse with the hiring manager for 3 weeks just to get a rejection. Im just done and I give up. I do not know what to do. I cant drive because I Dont have the money to afford a license a car and car insurance and nobody available to teach me. I Dont qualify for unemployment or disability. I have -40$ in my bank account. My parents say im acting too desprate but that is because I am. I call adn they tell me to apply online and I tell them I can work tomorrow can i set up and interview "it doesent work like that" im just done.

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u/Zooted276 — 23 hours ago

I am about to lose my sh*t

I have been out of college for the last year and a half with a degree in Computer Systems Tech. I can't find a damn job in my city. When I finally do get an interview, I immediately get emails just like these. I am snooping myself as low as applying to Best Buy, even though I should be working for some tech department. I am so sick of this job market.

Not only that, but I really have no f*cking clue what I should do anymore.

u/JustANerd420 — 1 day ago

War is over

6 months of aggressive searching, having transferable skills in mind, and reaching out to build confidence.

Inb4 “that’s like 5 jobs”, the job market is incredibly small in NZ. Lots of remote ai nonsense to block out.

u/JimmyJazz548 — 1 day ago

This just pissed me off

While I agree with the rest of the post, saying your best candidates are employed already is extremely unfair and shortsighted. So many of us are unemployed through no fault of our own. For example, the 8,000 Meta employees laid off this morning because, "ai"

u/AdFirst160 — 1 day ago

Apparently Teachers Need to Schedule Babies for Summer Break

My wife and I are newly married, and she recently moved to my state. She’s a primary school teacher with years of experience, including working at one of the top-ranked schools in the state she used to live in.

I helped her prepare her CV and application materials, and she landed an interview with a really good private school.

According to her, the interview went amazingly well. They told her almost immediately that she’d basically been accepted because of her experience and background.

But then came the last question.

The recruiter, who was also the school principal said:

“I know you’re newly married and will probably have a child in the future. Can you plan the birth around June? Because if you give birth in July, you might not be ready for the next school year, which starts in late August. And of course, if you give birth during the school year, it’s really annoying to find a temporary replacement.

My wife was completely stunned and just laughed it off, she didnt reply to the question and dissmiss it and accepted the job lol

EDIT : For people asking, we're from Tunisia, a north african country, and No, there's no law making the question illegal. we just laughed it off because the only thing my wife could've done is deny the job but she didnt care much and accepeted it because it's a good school.

I told her that she could try this year and if she didn't like the job we could start looking for a new one, she's an amazing teacher with a lot of experience and she could find another job easily

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u/Cheatsheet420 — 1 day ago

This is worse than a generic rejection email

I started a new job 4 months ago and stopped applying end of November last year. I don’t remember applying to this job. Who tf thinks being rejected by a spoken-word poetry bot would make getting rejected a better experience ??

What am I doing wrong.

13+ years experience in my field, applied for Junior, Mid and Senior..

My rejection ratio is insane right now 😅😩

u/mrsblondearab — 1 day ago