u/matchaandadventures

27 [F4M] Somewhere between “I’m okay alone” and “it would be nice to have someone”

Trying this again because apparently the universe won’t send a husband through GrabFood.

About me:

- Based in Makati
- Corpo girlie trying not to let Outlook consume her soul
- Currently spending too much money on fun fitness classes I initially said I’d only “try once”
- Big fan of solo cafe dates, long walks and romanticizing small things
- Mother of a boy cat who act like a tiny unemployed dictator HAHA
- Building a life that feels full even without a relationship

I’m not into rushing labels or forcing connections. I like it when things unfold naturally—when conversations feel easy and you both actually want to be there.

I appreciate people who can be funny and emotionally aware. Yung kaya makipagkulitan but can also communicate properly. Rare combo these days 😭

About you:

- Has work, not allergic to cats
- Can carry a conversation without giving “haha ikaw?” energy
- Has passions/hobbies/a life outside dating apps
- Self-aware and kind
- Intentional, even if you’re still figuring things out

Not looking for perfection. Just someone genuine enough that talking to them feels like peace, not performance.

If you message me, skip the “hi, kumusta?” template pls 😭
Tell me your current hyperfixation, a controversial food opinion, or the most unhinged thing that happened to you this week.

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u/matchaandadventures — 1 day ago

27 [F4M] Somewhere between “I’m okay alone” and “it would be nice to have someone”

Trying this again because apparently the universe won’t send a husband through GrabFood.

About me:

- Based in Makati
- Corpo girlie trying not to let Outlook consume her soul
- Currently spending too much money on fun fitness classes I initially said I’d only “try once”
- Big fan of solo cafe dates, long walks and romanticizing small things
- Mother of a boy cat who act like a tiny unemployed dictator HAHA
- Building a life that feels full even without a relationship

I’m not into rushing labels or forcing connections. I like it when things unfold naturally—when conversations feel easy and you both actually want to be there.

I appreciate people who can be funny and emotionally aware. Yung kaya makipagkulitan but can also communicate properly. Rare combo these days 😭

About you:

- Has work, not allergic to cats
- Can carry a conversation without giving “haha ikaw?” energy
- Has passions/hobbies/a life outside dating apps
- Self-aware and kind
- Intentional, even if you’re still figuring things out

Not looking for perfection. Just someone genuine enough that talking to them feels like peace, not performance.

If you message me, skip the “hi, kumusta?” template pls 😭
Tell me your current hyperfixation, a controversial food opinion, or the most unhinged thing that happened to you this week.

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u/matchaandadventures — 1 day ago

TIL may makeup/skincare line pala sa Aivee

Saw their pop up sa Forbestown. First time ko nalaman na may make up and skincare pala ang Aivee. I swatched their sunscreen and it felt heavy sa skin plus may onting white cast hehehe

Have you guys tried any of their products? How was it for you?

u/matchaandadventures — 9 days ago
▲ 317 r/OnlyPusa

Super clingy ng cat ko, curious ako kung na ssepanx siya kung umaalis ako? For context, hybrid setup kasi work ko. Everytime umaalis ako for work or lakad, tumatakbo sya papunta sa bag nya at umiiyak sya (na para bang gusto nya sumama 😭). Pag nasa bahay naman ako nag wwork, naka kandong lang sya sakin 80% of the time. Minsan gusto nya pa nakahiga ako para tatabi sya sa may unan banda. Ang hirap tuloy mag work sa bahay kasi super clingy nya. Pero pag umaalis rin ako, naiisip ko baka sad sya 🥲

u/matchaandadventures — 15 days ago

So I tried a colon cleanse for the first time because I had a gift certificate and curiosity won. That is literally it. No deep wellness journey, just “sige na nga gamitin ko na.”

Going in, I thought it would be like mildly uncomfortable spa-ish detox vibes.

NO.

First of all, there is a catheter situation involved 😭 like they actually insert it (yes, there) and I was just lying there thinking “so this is my life now.”

Then there is a coffee enema part. Apparently it is supposed to help with “detox” but my brain fully short-circuited at the concept of coffee going where it went.

The whole time I was just oscillating between
“this is interesting”
“why is this happening”
“I want to leave my body”

Afterwards I felt lighter-ish but also deeply humbled by my own decisions.

To be fair, the service of the place was really nice. Ate was so gentle and calming the whole time 😭 it is just the entire process that was… HUHU

Honestly would NOT do it again. Kahit libre pa. HAHAHA. I would rather do a 3-day fast than repeat that experience lol

All I will say is I now understand why people say it is something people with gut issues go for. I just went in blind out of curiosity 💀

u/matchaandadventures — 18 days ago