u/meetmymind

I have nail fungus! It is very frustatiing! Please tell me, is there any natural solution (no pills) that have helped you?

I have heard that bacuchiol serum is like retinol and that it is better since it is natural. Is it true? Does anyone know any more information?

Have you ever seen a dismissive partner change? Start understanding, caring about your feelings and thoughts, being open to listen to you and to process what you say? Generally not minimizing your thoughts, feelings, words and start to value them? Or being more affectionate?

Have you ever seen them change and if yes how? Did you notice any difference in their life or your behavior that might provoked this change?

I changed a bit the text from a previous post cause it was against the purpose of the subredit, so you may read the same story but with different question.

I am in a relationship for 2 years (me 33 and him 40 years old). Whenever i am trying to tell him that something bothers me, disappoints me or makes me inconvenient, i feel bad. He is acting in a way that makes me feel that he does not accept what i am saying, doesn't find it right and rational, underestimates it and in general he is not curious about more information and explanation of my point of view. It makes me feel that my thoughts have no value and that i bother him... He usually says something like 'it was not my intention, so you should stop thinking about it' or 'if we make a thing for this what would we do when something serious happens'. He has never told me something like 'i'm sorry, i understand or could you explain me more... In the end, as we don't find a way to resolve any topic, he acts like nothing happened, perfectly capable to return to everyday life and talking.

we don't have other serious problems, but i feel emotionally sad and empty. I have tried to explain myself so many times so i think explaining again wouldn't make any difference. Please tell me, what would you do to make this behavior change?

Tl;dr : my partner does not accept my feelings for so long. I have been trying to explain that this behavior makes me sad and that it is his reaction that makes us fight and not the original topic. What can i do? I explain myself so much, i cannot anymore..

I am in a relationship for 2 years (me 33 and him 40 years old). Whenever i am trying to tell him that something bothers me, disappoints me or makes me inconvenient, i feel bad. He is acting in a way that makes me feel that he does not accept what i am saying, doesn't find it right and rational, underestimates it and in general he is not curious about more information and explanation of my point of view. It makes me feel that my thoughts have no value and that i bother him... He usually says something like 'it was not my intention, so you should stop thinking about it' or 'if we make a thing for this what would we do when something serious happens'. He has never told me something like 'i'm sorry, i understand or could you explain me more... In the end, as we don't find a way to resolve any topic, he acts like nothing happened, perfectly capable to return to everyday life and talking.

I want to ask, are there people who have the same issue? Do you think that this is a serious problem or not? Cause we don't have other serious problems, but i feel emotionally sad and empty. I have tried to explain myself so many times so i think explaining again wouldn't make any difference. Please tell me, what would you do to make this behavior change?

I am in a relationship for 2 years (me 33, him 40 years old). I feel that when i start a conversation about anything that makes me uncomfortable or sad, he does not understand, accept what i am saying or feel curious about it, asking more. I end up feeling bad for sharing or asking for a different behavior than the one that made me unconfortable.

I was wondering, is this dismissive behavior?

If it is or if it is not, do you find it as a serious problem for the relationship? This problem was there from the begining, but there were not other serious problems, so i didn't pay so much attentions even though i was feeling bad. Right now i feel strange and alone. Am i overthinking?

TL/DR: am i describing dismissive behavior and is it a serious problem in relationships?

Hello!

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I don't know if i am in the correct subreddit but i want to ask something about fussy deodorants.

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I have been using fussy deodorant stick for two months and i had noticed that it leaves something like stains that don't go easily. They aren't seen easily but somehow they have changed the quality of the fabric, like the oily things of the deodorant have passed through the fabric.I have been applying dish detergent to the stained regions before washing them in the washing machine with no big success. But i kept doing it because apart for the stains, i was satisfied from the product.

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Now, during summer, i have another problem! If i wear a black shirt, the deodorant leaves a white very visible stain that again doesn't go away easily! I now feel that i need to stop using fussy, despite of how much i liked it in the begining and how effective it was. Because if not, i will have a problem cleaning my clothes...

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So now i have 2 questions!

First of all, has any of you found an easy way to clean their clothes after using fussy, so i can keep it?

Second, do you have any other deodorant to suggest, aluminium free and maybe roll on that really helps (cause i am now afraid of the oily sticks)?

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Thank you very very much for reading my questions !

Hello! I don't know if i am in the correct subreddit but i want to ask something about fussy deodorants.

​

I have been using fussy deodorant stick for two months and i had noticed that it leaves something like stains that don't go easily. They aren't seen easily but somehow they have changed the quality of the fabric, like the oily things of the deodorant have passed through the fabric.

​

I have been applying dish detergent to the stained regions before washing them in the washing machine with no big success. But i kept doing it because apart for the stains, i was satisfied from the product.

​

Now, during summer, i have another problem! If i wear a black shirt, the deodorant leaves a white very visible stain that again doesn't go away easily! I now feel that i need to stop using fussy, despite of how much i liked it in the begining and how effective it was. Because if not, i will have a problem cleaning my clothes...

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So now i have 2 questions!

1. First of all, has any of you found an easy way to clean their clothes after using fussy, so i can keep it?

2. Second, do you have any other deodorant to suggest, aluminium free and maybe roll on that really helps (cause i am now afraid of the oily sticks)?

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Thank you very much for reading my questions !