u/melody5697

Just thought I'd introduce myself. :) I'm melody5697 and I volunteered to help keep this place clean. I have some prior experience with moderation, including using automoderator and keeping inappropriate content out of a fashion sub. I've set up additional safeguards and re-enabled image posts. I look forward to helping this sub be a place where users can share their enthusiasm for socks without having to see inappropriate content! :)

Welcome to r/ESFJ's monthly discussion thread! This is posted on the first day of each month as a place to chat with other members of the subreddit about whatever you want. Have something on your mind? Got exciting plans for the week? Need a place to vent? Just wanna chat? Whatever you want to talk about, this is the place!

Welcome to r/ESFJ's monthly discussion thread! This is posted on the first day of each month as a place to chat with other members of the subreddit about whatever you want. Have something on your mind? Got exciting plans for the week? Need a place to vent? Just wanna chat? Whatever you want to talk about, this is the place!

I'm very frustrated. The semester is over. I don't know when I'll lose access to the course in Canvas. I just want to know how I did on the final essay in my writing class, but I can't see the grade or the feedback on my end. Canvas says my professor hasn't graded it yet, but he says he graded it on Tuesday.

UPDATE: Contacted tech support. They looked into it. My professor did not, in fact, grade the assignments. (Well, he didn't ENTER the grades.)

UPDATE 2: He entered them but he didn't POST them. (Didn't realize those were different things.) I now have my grades.

So I did something stupid. Today after an event in the morning/early afternoon, there was an event I wanted to go to in the same area a few hours later. But I was quite a long distance from home, so I didn't want to drive home and then drive back later. For various reasons, I couldn't, like, hang out at a coffee shop or something. I now realize that what I should've done was hang out at a park. But instead, I said to a new friend who I just met last week that I needed to figure out where I was gonna go until then, hoping that she would invite me over. She did invite me to her in-laws' house. (Her in-laws are okay with her inviting people over.) But... she quickly became disengaged because of her kid going and peeing on the floor and then running off without any pants on and locking himself in a room. When this wasn't quickly resolved, I realized that I really shouldn't be there. But I also had nowhere to go, since I don't actually know how to get to the park. I don't know my way around the neighborhood. Using my phone was not an option. So I awkwardly sat around until it was time to go to the event I wanted to go to. I feel really bad now. This was obviously inappropriate. And now I'm not sure how I should handle it when I see this person next week. Should I apologize to her? Should I even approach her at all, or let her come to me? If I do approach her, how do I tell if she still likes me or not? I mean, if she quickly finds an excuse to leave, that's a sign she doesn't like me, and I would think that, if she starts chatting, that's a sign that she does still like me... But what if she's just trying to be polite and avoid awkwardness by going ahead and talking to me because I'm there even if she doesn't like me? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

ETA: I do not have her phone number. The not having my phone thing is a religious thing. She doesn't have her phone on Saturdays, either. (I only didn't have my phone from the time I arrived at our place of worship to the time I went home, but she does not use her phone at all from sundown Friday to an hour after sundown Saturday.) We also couldn't write anything down. She became a full member of our place of worship since the last directory was emailed out, and I'm not a member at all, so we can't look up each other's phone numbers. She told me last week that I could text her mother-in-law to get her phone number, but her mother-in-law somehow missed my message, apparently.

ETA: I’m not embarrassed by my core, but the stuff that I attribute to my line of connection to 3 is SUPER embarrassing.