is my(F18) relationship with this guy (M21) “problematic”?

i have a friend who i’m kinda involved with (we’re not dating but it’s something along those lines) and i’ve known him since i was 16 and he was 19.

we recently told one of our friends that we are involved with each other and now our friend is calling my “boyfriend” (i’ll just refer to him as that for the sake of this) a pedophile and saying that he cannot talk to my boyfriend anymore because our age gap is morally wrong.

my boyfriend got out of a two year long relationship recently so our friend is basically assuming he groomed me while he was also involved with someone else. also, me and my boyfriend only became a thing with each other months after i turned 18. he completely dismissed me before this.

do you guys think that our friend is right and that this is problematic? i don’t think so… it’s really just 3 years AND my parents know and are okay with it 😭😭

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u/meowmaster111 — 12 hours ago
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how to read oracle/what to know about oracle?

i’m new to oracle cards and i know little to nothing about them. i read tarot so i’m somewhat experienced with this sort of divination. what should i know when starting oracle? how do i read them? does the deck matter? what sort of things can i use it for? please lmk and give me some advice.. thank you!!

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u/meowmaster111 — 2 days ago
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how to buy oracle cards

this isn’t about tarot but how do i buy oracle cards? when i went to find some irl, they all had a different number of cards in them and i really know nothing about oracle cards… how do i buy the right one? can i have some recommendations for decks? preferably from like amazon or something? thank you sm

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u/meowmaster111 — 2 days ago

my friend (20M) basically just confessed to me (19F) and idk what to do

he basically just admitted to me that he’s more or less had a crush on me for the past two years but i don’t feel the same way but ive been in a borderline situationship (not really tho because we’ve just been extremely flirty with each other and that’s about it) with him for months and i wanna tell him i’d never actually date him… i think i make it pretty clear that i have no intentions of actually dating him and he doesn’t seem like he wants to date me, he just told me he likes me, but i want to just make it extremely clear that i don’t plan on dating him in the future…. how do i tell him that i don’t plan on dating him? because i don’t want to hurt his feelings but i want our relationship to remain the same

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u/meowmaster111 — 18 days ago
▲ 3 r/Tarots

is how i read tarot okay?

normally when i do readings, i pull 3-4 cards, then i read each card individually in context to the persons question rather than the cards as a whole. i also don’t like to use spreads often.

for instance, if someone has a relationship question and i pull the lovers and then the devil or something, i’ll be like “yes they like you but it also might be toxic” (not really a good example but i hope you get what i mean)

i read each card on its own and then kinda put it all together as a summary at the end. i know that’s probably not the right way to do it but i do readings for a lot of “non-believers” and at the end they always tell me i was accurate and that was their exact situation so i don’t feel the need to change how i read. i was just wondering if it’s alright to read like this or should i be doing something different?

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u/meowmaster111 — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/Tarots

does doing tarot make you a witch?

this feels a bit like a silly question to ask but do i classify as a “witch” if i do tarot? i don’t do any of the other witchy things tho, just tarot and manifestation

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u/meowmaster111 — 1 month ago
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how to stop feeling so drained after a reading

i just did my first free reading for a few strangers and i feel so drained and tired loll… is there a way to not feel like this after a reading? i’ve felt like this before, even when i’m reading for myself and my friends, so what could i do to prevent this feeling? and is this normal?

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u/meowmaster111 — 1 month ago

anyone want free readings? (first 5 people)

i’m still learning how to do this so i wanna give free readings to the first 5 people… i’m doing a little bit cause i know if i do more i’ll get overwhelmed… if you’re interested, pls DM me your name, birthday and a little bit about yourself and the question >.<

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u/meowmaster111 — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/Tarots

star on back of cards

this is the star of david right? or is there some other thing that it is? some guy at school who’s family practices witchcraft (or something of the sort) was telling me that tarot is demonic and that i’m basically trading my life and soul and i’m calling in demons and it’ll fuck up my life 😭😭 and that the star on the back summons satan….. what…….

u/meowmaster111 — 1 month ago
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how to actually read minor arcana?

i see a lot of people reading them based just off of the suit and the number of the things, but don’t all the cards have their own meanings? so isn’t it better to just learn the entire deck and each meaning for each card? do i get more accurate meanings if im reading based of off the suit and number or the specific meaning for a specific card? does this make sense? i’m seriously so sleep deprived but i’ve been wondering for a while 😭

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u/meowmaster111 — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/Tarots

what’s blocking my manifestations?

my interpretation: i need to stop overthinking it and just relax. i need to trust myself more and be more disciplined. i’m too unorganised. and i need to have more faith and hope in myself and be more devoted

u/meowmaster111 — 1 month ago
▲ 5 r/Tarots

what can i do to make my manifestations come to me faster?

my interpretation: i need to trust my intuition and that i kind of already know what to do. i need to stay determined (i could possibly do this by using robotic affirmations). i need to stop being so anxious over it. and that i just need to stay calm and happy and trust myself

u/meowmaster111 — 2 months ago
▲ 35 r/AskZA

i’m 18 and i’d really like to start doing an online job so i can have some sort of financial independences that my parents don’t know about. does anyone know any sort of online jobs i can do that don’t really require a lot of knowledge or experience? (that doesn’t really sound possible but i’m asking anyways 😭) the pay is important of course, but i’m not asking for a lot, as long as i receive some sort of income. please help me out!! thank you

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u/meowmaster111 — 2 months ago