is my(F18) relationship with this guy (M21) “problematic”?
i have a friend who i’m kinda involved with (we’re not dating but it’s something along those lines) and i’ve known him since i was 16 and he was 19.
we recently told one of our friends that we are involved with each other and now our friend is calling my “boyfriend” (i’ll just refer to him as that for the sake of this) a pedophile and saying that he cannot talk to my boyfriend anymore because our age gap is morally wrong.
my boyfriend got out of a two year long relationship recently so our friend is basically assuming he groomed me while he was also involved with someone else. also, me and my boyfriend only became a thing with each other months after i turned 18. he completely dismissed me before this.
do you guys think that our friend is right and that this is problematic? i don’t think so… it’s really just 3 years AND my parents know and are okay with it 😭😭