u/mermaid420420

looking to relocate. where do the pagans live?

Just saw my ex bf from when I was 18 y/o on FB lol. Just reminded me, he was so dead set on having kids. "his own kids". His demands got really wild: I have to birth all 4 of his kids, we can't adopt even 1 "it's not the same" and he "wants a mini me". (super rude to adoptees). I'm not allowed an epidural or anything "so it doesn't mess with the baby". I have to work up to the point that I am giving birth, then I have to go back to work after a month, give our infant to someone else to watch during the day. breast feed, so making sure I pump at work. Be the primary care taker and split all the bills 50/50. Like, why would I do that? I told him that sounds miserable, and I'm not being your servant for free. why would we have a child just to give it to someone else to raise, if I have a kid I want to raise my kid, otherwise what's the point? IDK, he was one of those "wants a legacy" narcissistic idiots. But he also didn't like his family that much, so the idea of "continuing a legacy" of people you don't like, and dropping off our baby with a family member, doesn't make sense. He also told me he think a woman should have to get permission from the dude who got her pregnant, to be able to get an abortion. He was a very selfish person.

Why would I sign up for that? are there women who really want to sign up for that?

NSFW part:

The final straw was him hounding me for anal. I was sick of being harassed about my ass hole, so I dumped that ass hole 🤣

Where can I move? The USA is getting more and more insane. I'm looking for somewhere to move that's at least kinda warm, has decent health care, and I don't have to work a lot of hours.

I don't want my taxes to go towards blowing up schools anymore (among other things). The USA is prbly gonna let data centers use all the water, and I don't want to be here for that

I feel like I want to go home, even when I am at home. It doesn't matter where I go, I still feel like I want to go home. Anyone else feel like that? I wanted to get a spiritual perspective on it. I'm not sure where to ask. Why do I feel like I want to go home?

DAE get super personal ads? why are the FB and IG ads I get so intense? I feel like it's been years since I got an ad for any fun. The most recent ones are asking if I've been bitten by a dog, or if I want to prevent animal abuse? I've also gotten ads asking If I have been injured at work, been in a car wreck, hit by a bus, fired unfairly, fired while on disability, fired because I was pregnant, sexually harassed or assaulted at: work, an uber, jail, prison, Juvenile hall, Catholic boarding school, church, college, high school ..... and I think there were a few more ones....
Why don't I get ads about lipstick or something? why is it all so intense? is anyone else having this experience?

why are the FB and IG ads I get so intense? I feel like it's been years since I got an ad for any fun. The most recent ones are asking if I've been bitten by a dog, or if I want to prevent animal abuse? I've also gotten ads asking If I have been injured at work, been in a car wreck, hit by a bus, fired unfairly, fired while on disability, fired because I was pregnant, sexually harassed or assaulted at: work, an uber, jail, prison, Juvenile hall, Catholic boarding school, church, college, high school ..... and I think there were a few more ones....
Why don't I get ads about lipstick or something? why is it all so intense? is anyone else having this experience?

Hi. I want to find my friend from when I was 6 y/o. All the info I have is Her first name was Cami (prbly a nic name/ shortened version of her name. Might be Camile. lmk if you know of any other names that could be short for). I think I know when and where she went to 1st grade or Kindergarten

I asked My parents, and they don't even remember her mom's name, just that she wouldn't let me see her, after my parents told her mom that we were going to move. 😩 They don't have a year book either I guess.

IDK if we would have anything in common anymore, but I'm just curious lol.

I have been taking a multi-vitamin regularly for years, but decided to also take magnesium, because of an incident I had where I got dehydrated and it was one of the things that was recommended to me.

So I bought a big bottle of pills that say that they are calcium, magnesium and Zinc. I wanted to know if I should take this at a different time than my multivitamin, and now some cites are saying that you are not supposed to take zinc and magnesium and calcium together because they can block each others absorption. but they are all in the pill together? Is this even true and what do I do from here? and how does that work when you are eating real food?

Thanks