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And I’m not talking about her Soul….

Ok y’all I had to drive through Houma and Raceland yesterday to pick up a puppy. It’s been quite a few years since I’ve gone that way to Grand Isle. I had forgotten how much of absolutely NOTHING is out there. Miles and miles of Sugar Cane and it’s literally the middle of no where. The most exciting thing was a large alligator dead on the side of the road. (No offense to any of my fellow Snarkers from this area.)

It’s no wonder The Murderer is chronically online. It looks like the only thing to do is go to Walmart or the Dollar General. I was laughing inside thinking about how a Narcissist Attention Seeking Psychopath must be dying of boredom. I don’t see her getting any kind of validation out in the sticks.

The people we got the puppy from were absolutely lovely. I definitely would enjoy hanging out with them if they were closer. That being said, they seemed excited to have company and we ended up staying for at least an hour. You could tell us being there was a change of pace that they welcomed.

I wanted to let you all know that The Murderer has to be absolutely miserable living there. I just didn’t realize how desolate it was until being in the area. It has to be miserable for her. 🤣

Mine is when Janelle & Andrea put dirt into the other girls’ make up. “My skin and Miami weather don’t mix!”

I’ve been in pain management for over a decade. I’m prescribed 10mg of Percocet 4 times daily. My pills have always been round. I’ve never paid any attention to the manufacturer and my insurance only covers generic.

This month my pharmacy was out of my medication and substituted my regular prescription with generic Endocet that are an oblong shape. The pharmacist explained that it was the same medication just a different brand. Cool.

Honestly it’s been a rough month for me as I don’t seem to be getting the same level of relief. My first sign of withdrawal are horrible cramps in my thighs. (I know WD from having medication stolen before) My back and neck injuries are keeping me awake at night. My legs are aching.

Is this all in my head? Has anyone else experienced a similar experience switching between the two brands? I’m miserable and am having to refrain from taking an extra pill to make it through the day. I don’t want to be short or break any rules. I’d like your perspective because this is a first for me. Thanks in advance. 🙏

So there is a new 2 episode documentary on Hulu that I watched this morning. I believe it’s the only thing I’ve ever seen that touches on the topic of Parental Alienation. If anyone watches it, I’d like to hear your thoughts on it.

I was alienated from my Son at the age of 16. He is now 22 and I haven’t seen him since 2020. I divorced his father when my Son was 2 because he threw me against a wall. As soon as the child support section was ordered my ex quit his job and didn’t work for the next 12 years. I still went by the custody orders despite this.

I had stupidly agreed to a 2/3 split with exchanges at daycare (which I paid for). My ex would purposely make our child sick by feeding him sugar prior to daycare drop off. He would vomit white and I would miss work. It was literally every week! I didn’t realize this until my Son was 3ish and told me, “Daddy feeds me white stuff for breakfast. It’s sweet!”

My ex did everything in his power to make me lose the house I had purchased prior to our marriage. Making child sick so I missed work, roofing nails in my driveway so I had to buy new tires, purposely not paying child support, keeping the new clothes I had bought and sending him to daycare in the old clothes that didn’t fit. He would cut chunks from our Son’s hair and send him to daycare filthy.

When my son was 4, he got a job and the state garnished the second check. My ex immediately quit and went into hiding for 5 months. It caused great distress in our Son because his father was just gone. He had to be put into therapy.

He basically abandoned him until my Son was old enough to be his “buddy” and when he got into a new relationship. I was happy for my son bc he always had wanted his father in his life.

This woman finally made my ex get a job. ( I found out later her house was in the final stages of foreclosure). Everything was good until the first wage garnishment by the state. My ex owed $53,000 in back pay and the state garnished 60% and gave it to me. This infuriated his new girlfriend as she needed him to pay her bills. This is when the alienation began. It was initiated by her.

She took normal teenage angst and told my Son what a horrible mother I was. I’ve seen text messages that she sent to my child telling him to make me miserable when he was with me. Many many other tactics and at 16 he didn’t want to live with me anymore. I let him live with his Dad.

My son had a scholarship to prestigious high school and they told him not to do his work and his scholarship was revoked. He was put into a public school that was more convenient to them. He was immediately put on ADHD medication and became skeletal. He dropped out and did not graduate. Prior to her interference he was a A/B student.

She tried and still to this day, to taunt me on SM by posting with my Son. She claimed she was his Mom, he calls her Mom, he was “the child she earned and deserved”. A lot more but this has been pretty long already.

How many of you parents were alienated when your child was an older age, such as mine? When did you decide to let go? How many of you were alienated not by the other parent but by the Stepparent?