u/mia9801

Hi I am (21) female dating a (22) male. We have had sex frequently for the past year and have been dating for a year. We have dated twice now, once for 5 months and this second time for a year. He has been with many partners previously, while he is the first person I’ve had sex with.

Today we were talking and I told him that I needed more words of affection as well as for him to initiate sex. He started to cry, I’ve never seen him cry, and said that he has zero sex drive. He says that he has had no sex drive for the past year and instead would rather sleep but he doesn’t know why. He says that he’s still attracted to me, and tells me that I am way out of his league.
But maintains that the only reason he had sex with me is because I initiated it. I asked if he wants to see a doctor but that made him break down again saying he doesn’t want to be on a pill for the rest of his life.

I’ve never really had this issue before with men, but instead the opposite where men can’t get enough of me, so needing some assistance on this.

I’m not sure really how to feel, is this typical? Do we get him checked for the doctor? Is there anything I can do? Any help appreciated!!

Hi I am (21) female dating a (22) male. We have had sex frequently for the past year and have been dating for a year. We have dated twice now, once for 5 months and this second time for a year. He has been with many partners previously, while he is the first person I’ve had sex with.

Today we were talking and I told him that I needed more words of affection as well as for him to initiate sex. He started to cry, I’ve never seen him cry, and said that he has zero sex drive. He says that he has had no sex drive for the past year and instead would rather sleep but he doesn’t know why. He says that he’s still attracted to me, and tells me that I am way out of his league.
But maintains that the only reason he had sex with me is because I initiated it. I asked if he wants to see a doctor but that made him break down again saying he doesn’t want to be on a pill for the rest of his life.

I’ve never really had this issue before with men, but instead the opposite where men can’t get enough of me, so needing some assistance on this.

I’m not sure really how to feel, but should I be worried? Should we get him checked for the doctor? Is there anything I can do? Any help appreciated!!

Hi I am (21) female dating a (22) male. We have had sex frequently for the past year and have been dating for a year. We have dated twice now, once for 5 months and this second time for a year. He has been with many partners previously, while he is the first person I’ve had sex with.

Today we were talking and I told him that I needed more words of affection as well as for him to initiate sex. He started to cry, I’ve never seen him cry, and said that he has zero sex drive. He says that he has had no sex drive for the past year and instead would rather sleep but he doesn’t know why. He says that he’s still attracted to me, and tells me that I am way out of his league.
But maintains that the only reason he had sex with me is because I initiated it. I asked if he wants to see a doctor but that made him break down again saying he doesn’t want to be on a pill for the rest of his life.

I’ve never really had this issue before with men, but instead the opposite where men can’t get enough of me, so needing some assistance on this.

I’m not sure really how to feel, is this typical? Do we get him checked for the doctor? Is there anything I can do? Any help appreciated!!

Hi I am (21) female dating a (22) male. We have had sex frequently for the past year and have been dating for a year. We have dated twice now, once for 5 months and this second time for a year. He has been with many partners previously, while he is the first person I’ve had sex with.

Today we were talking and I told him that I needed more words of affection as well as for him to initiate sex. He started to cry, I’ve never seen him cry, and said that he has zero sex drive. He says that he has had no sex drive for the past year and instead would rather sleep but he doesn’t know why. He says that he’s still attracted to me, and tells me that I am way out of his league.
But maintains that the only reason he had sex with me is because I initiated it. I asked if he wants to see a doctor but that made him break down again saying he doesn’t want to be on a pill for the rest of his life.

I’ve never really had this issue before with men, but instead the opposite where men can’t get enough of me, so needing some assistance on this.

I’m not sure really how to feel, but should I be worried? Should we get him checked for the doctor? Is there anything I can do? Any help appreciated!!