u/milku_manitha

Basics: 31M • Bengaluru • 60 LPA • Software Engineer • Tamizh • Divorced (2023 - Year of Divorce) • 6 ft • 75.8 KGs • From Middle Class Family • Hindu • Dusky in Colour (Skin Tone Hex Code: #aa7b67) • Non Smoker • Non Drinker

Known Languages : Tamil, Kannada, Hindi, English, C++ • Python 3.x • Go • Java

Trying this subreddit - the second time, before registering in official matrimonial websites.

Enjoys ad-hoc travelling • have composed music for 2-3 songs and 1 short film • lowkey flex: Won Mehndi Competition - a hobby developed over time - not a pro • Loves Trekking and Photography • Enjoys D Mart shopping

Was spending a lot for travel, food and everything. Started saving very recently :)

Not a workout freak. I am an eggitarian (was vegetarian, recently eggitarian) - but open with anyone - veg, non veg. When I said I am comfortable with Non Veg, I meant chicken, mutton, crab, prawn etc. If your favourite dishes involves bat or crocodile or something of that sort, then I’m not comfortable 😬👹

I understand boundaries and looking for someone who understands boundaries as well :) Don’t worry. I understand - no means no.

Health Aspects:
Past relationships before marriage : 0
Relationship post divorce : 0
STD Medical Checkup : 17-May-2026 (Reports available and would share once connected).
Considering the posts from multiple subreddits, i feel this should be clarified at this moment : I am neither in relationship with anyone, Nor married to anyone.

Took medical test as it is mandatory for divorcee matrimonial registration in our area :) and hence took it. Also, it is good to take this pre marriage search.

HPV Vaccinated.
Hepatitis vaccination to be done.

Intent / Goal : A Peaceful Marriage.
No Pressure on Timelines.
Kids: i have No kids, but want in future.
Native: Madurai / Chettinad Region
Education: Bengaluru

I am little cautious due to my past traumas and I would take a little time (5-6 days) to move out of reddit to other applications and hence, patience is expected.

To all those in this subReddit, may you find your better half much sooner ❤️

Lokah Samastha Sukhino Bhavanthu.
And Ee sala, Next Saala, next to next sala and upcoming all saala cup namdhe - RCB Fan ❤️

Not looking to connect:
• if you are looking for ONS or casual relationships or friendships. It’s very okay if you say no after analysing. But not looking to start without any intent of getting to know the compatibility.
• if you hate RCB or ManUnited. 😅
• if you cannot withstand me calling you “sock see” (refer Rajpriyan or LungiBoys for more information). Advantage : if your name itself is sakshi.
• If your family has 10-15 tata-sumos💀 or thars☠️ to chase, and create action blocks or action sequences in case if there is a misalignment in marriage related events. I don’t want any action blocks or action sequences in marriage or pre marriage or post marriage. 😭

Problems:

• I cannot log out of all devices from my account and instagram always says "we can't let you make changes at this moment as this is new device". What if I log into new device, to log out of the account from other device - which is stolen or what?
• 2FA code never arrives at all.
• Even codes to email never arrives when asking from new device.
• Password reset has been the biggest headache ever. I have the email / phonenumber yet, 2FA code never arrives and instagram can never verify the ownership.

Bengaluru • Cybersecurity Company • Divorced @ 2023 • No Kids • Tamizh Origin • Knows Hindi, Kannada, Tamil, English

1. not looking for short term or ons. Looking for marriage
2. no past relationships. Took time to heal and now looking for a partner.
3. marriage is the end goal

And to everyone reading this, may god bless you a beautiful lovely life.

Thanks, M.
❤️

There used to be a very crowded famous dosa shop near HSR. It is called John dosa cart. Food there used to be cheap, tasty and hygienic. For some reason, it is not at all open now.

Does anyone know what happened to them or did they change the location to somewhere near?