u/mimka_filliika

I have a close friend that recently has started taking mdma almost weekly.

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For about an year I knew that she had a problem with smoking weed. I had mentioned that I didn't like it when we hang out and she's high to which she replied positively and tried to not to smoke when we go out(mind you she smokes almost every day a few times). It had gotten so bad that she had to throw up before school a couple of times because of that. It had been going on for so long that I was becoming used to the fact that she can't function without weed. I tried to talk to her about it even my boyfriend tried to reason with her and tell her that she does not need to smoke everyday but she just said that she's not really addicted and can stop at any time. I decided to not push her further.(i also smoke but not nearly as often as her)Two months ago she tried cocane and then mdma(or molly) for the first time. She told me everything and I genuinely believed her that she just wanted to experience it. She even told me that she's not going to take another one for at least 2 months even tho she had afterglow and not a bad comedown. Not 2 weeks later she had taken another one. I found that out through another very close friend of mine and a mutual friend of us both. When she told me and i asked her why she did it she said that she doesn't get any nasty comedowns after that which was then her main reason of doing it. After a week or so she took another one. I genuinely couldn't feel any worry about her. She and two more of my friends have started going out with some questionable people. They are from an umderground rap band and are around 20-22 years old(all male).

I don't know if she started doing drugs because of them or anything. I know that they won't do anything bad to her(like SA or anything) but still I feel like they are a bad influence on her. She has also started to have a fling with one of them (making out and other stuff all consensual). I know he is a junky.

A week ago one of our mutual friends, that is very disappointed in her, told me that she's using to loose weight. She has lost around 10-15 kilos or around 22-30 pounds.

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What should I do??? I know that our other mutual friend(2 other girls) have tried talking to her but more in an angry judgemental way rather than a concerned way. Maybe she will listen to me?

Edit: I know the people she's hanging out with. They aren't fond of her and have been telling her that she's just doing that to impress them. They do not use hard drugs only smoke weed. They only hang out with her because of her other friend who they like (she is a lot older than her and has known them for around 3 years). That's what I mean by they won't do anything bad to her. The dude she's having a fling with from what I know isn't in the original group. He's the cousin of another dude from the group and is the same age as her.

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This is kinda long but I just need to share it with someone cuz I feel like im going insane

I am in high-school and I have two sisters in my class. First year of high-school they were pretty antisocial and we bearly spoke but last year I managed to befriend them more. I'll call them Ina and Kiki. For the last around 5 months I've noticed Kiki acting very strange.

At first it was just not speaking much in the mornings which everyone found somewhat normal since she gets around 4-6 hours of sleep a day. Then it was small comments which I found rude but didn't make a fuss about it since no-one cared. It was stuff like "Ohh the exam was so easy how can someone find it hard they must be an idiot" after someone mentions that they cheated or making small remark about stuff and how other's are wrong even if the question is opinion based.

There are classes where we sit together. She has started making small comments about her interests but I feel like the comments are more to show off rather than to share. She has also started randomly telling me how much she weighs which I find very strange. Yes she has lost weight since 2/3 years ago but I hadn't mentioned it since she was never fat to begin with. The first time she started talking about how important it is for ppl to take their protine and mentioned that she weighs around 51 kilos. I didn't make a remark just said that I am around the same weigh. After a week she said almost the exact same thing I still didn't react in any way. Then after some time she just randomly told me how much she weighs and that she's lost around 1/2 kilos. Again I reacted in the most neutral way possible. Mind you she is very skinny but so is her sister and their mother so maybe it's in their genes. But still I find it a bit like seeking for approval. She has told these stuff only to me and in a way to i guess flex rather than share. Same with how easy school is for her even though she cheats on almost every exam like all of us.

Recently she has started walking very very slow every break between classes. We don't have a very big break it's around 20 minutes and the queue is pretty long at every store so we just walk ahead. A week ago she asked all of us (or that's what she said, I think she told just me and her sister) that she feels bad when we leave her behind. I understand that but we've asked her to walk faster. She walks extremely slow like painfully slow. She has also been complaining about how cold she is all the time. Just some small comments like "why is it soo cold" when outside is around 15° Celsius and she's wearing either a long sleeve and a jacket or a sweatshirt.(I've seen her sweat stains under her arms btw😓).

Everything doesn't seem like a big deal but combining it all and knowing how she acts around me and everyone else it just feels like she's seeking for attention but I feel like im overthinking it and maybe it's a cry for help. Someone help me out please (I can give more details if needed)

This is kinda long but I just need to share it with someone cuz I feel like im going insane

I am in high-school and I have two sisters in my class. First year of high-school they were pretty antisocial and we bearly spoke but last year I managed to befriend them more. I'll call them Ina and Kiki. For the last around 5 months I've noticed Kiki acting very strange.

At first it was just not speaking much in the mornings which everyone found somewhat normal since she gets around 4-6 hours of sleep a day. Then it was small comments which I found rude but didn't make a fuss about it since no-one cared. It was stuff like "Ohh the exam was so easy how can someone find it hard they must be an idiot" after someone mentions that they cheated or making small remark about stuff and how other's are wrong even if the question is opinion based.

There are classes where we sit together. She has started making small comments about her interests but I feel like the comments are more to show off rather than to share. She has also started randomly telling me how much she weighs which I find very strange. Yes she has lost weight since 2/3 years ago but I hadn't mentioned it since she was never fat to begin with. The first time she started talking about how important it is for ppl to take their protine and mentioned that she weighs around 51 kilos. I didn't make a remark just said that I am around the same weigh. After a week she said almost the exact same thing I still didn't react in any way. Then after some time she just randomly told me how much she weighs and that she's lost around 1/2 kilos. Again I reacted in the most neutral way possible. Mind you she is very skinny but so is her sister and their mother so maybe it's in their genes. But still I find it a bit like seeking for approval. She has told these stuff only to me and in a way to i guess flex rather than share. Same with how easy school is for her even though she cheats on almost every exam like all of us.

Recently she has started walking very very slow every break between classes. We don't have a very big break it's around 20 minutes and the queue is pretty long at every store so we just walk ahead. A week ago she asked all of us (or that's what she said, I think she told just me and her sister) that she feels bad when we leave her behind. I understand that but we've asked her to walk faster. She walks extremely slow like painfully slow. She has also been complaining about how cold she is all the time. Just some small comments like "why is it soo cold" when outside is around 15° Celsius and she's wearing either a long sleeve and a jacket or a sweatshirt.(I've seen her sweat stains under her arms btw😓).

Everything doesn't seem like a big deal but combining it all and knowing how she acts around me and everyone else it just feels like she's seeking for attention but I feel like im overthinking it and maybe it's a cry for help. Someone help me out please (I can give more details if needed)