The judiciary can fuck you up in ways you hardly realise

I currently have a case going on in the court regarding a discrepancy in my 10th marksheet. The case is being dragged on and on and it is becoming absolutely painful as prospects of getting a job is hindered. Never imagined my life would destroyed like this

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u/mistake13052002 — 11 days ago

Regret over Relationship

I proposed to a my collegemate when I was 21. He was the most admirable person I had come across in that place and he was already in a 6 year relationship by the time I met him. Anyways, we had met in August and his relationship ended in November which his ex ended basically. He started pursuing August next year and in September I confessed about my long time crush on him. But, around 2 months later, when I questioned him on whether he was serious about me, he completedly flinched, citing his six year relationship and how he was completely unsure of me. However, I fully FELT committed as we had interacted for around a year before this period. Understanding his dilemma, I felt heartbroken but I didn't force him so I told him that I might not be able to continue if he feels unsure.... I understood that day that he was still harbouring feelings for his ex.

A month later, he changed completedly, started chasing me, telling me I misunderstood things. I, however, was failed to trust.... because he seemed so hell bent on refusing commitment . I eventually tried to sort things with him around 4 months later but I failed to trust him, as I feared he was lying because then he had no other girl apart from me( to date)

I still feel so regretful about going back.... Thinking things might have changed... I really wanted this person but it just feel so bad...

How can I get over this feeling of regret. I am 24 now!

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u/mistake13052002 — 1 month ago

The pressure of getting a job and a dire situation at home is destroying my mental health

24F

I have been preparing for UPSC since 2024 right from the day I completed my bachelor's. I prepared rigorously and religiously for two years only to flunk my first ever prelims in 2026. My mother is undergoing hemodialysis and honestly our whole household has been turned upside down because of her illness. My father shouts at everybody, all the time, and even scolds if we ask for any extra food. It has become completedly traumatising in my house. On top of that, I now have prepare again, picking up the pieces. The whole process has turned worse because I am lonely and isolated.

I wanted this all this pain of my chest:(

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u/mistake13052002 — 1 month ago

Allow me to vent

Sometimes, I wonder why am I such a worthless loser, like why?

I religiously prepared for upsc but flunked in prelims itself.... All the two years of hardwork went up in flames...

I had a problematic relationship as my ex boyfriend initially flinched when I asked commitment. He later became sure but due to his initial refusal, I failed to trust him again. He is dating someone ( his third girlfriend ) and it just ached when i came to know. i am such a loser.... Why do I just care but I DO care because I am NOT OVER him at all

Nevermind

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u/mistake13052002 — 2 months ago

Traumatic state due to DOB mismatch

Hi

24F

I have been facing huge problems in job prospects due to a dob mismatch in my 10th marksheet and all other documents. So, my DOB, lets assume, is x/y/2002 and this is correct and is displayed in all documents except aadhar but in my 10th marksheet it is x/y/2003. We approached cbse and school but they have been extremely unhelpful. So, we filed a case in court. But, court is delaying the procedings also.

Any help or suggestion is welcome

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u/mistake13052002 — 3 months ago

Traumatic state due to DOB mismatch

Hi

24F

I am currently in a horrible situation due to a mismatch in my DOB in 10th marksheet. Ok, so my DOB, lets assume is 20.04.2004. In all my legal documents, it is correct but in my CBSE 10th marksheet it is 20.04.2005. Since the time 10th got completed, I have been trying relentlessly but everytime CBSE denied my request. Since last year, my school has also stopped responding. With no choice, we moved to High Court and filed a case against Cbse. But, Indian judiciary is so messed up that its taking ages for just a COURT HEARING.

My whole life, my career, everything has been ruined by one mistake.

If anybody has any suggestion, please help 🙏🙏🙏

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u/mistake13052002 — 4 months ago