▲ 252 r/cary+2 crossposts

Looking for ways to celebrate still having my life in the triangle next week

So without going too far into it, last year I tried to take my life.

Monday will be the year anniversary and I want to do something to celebrate still being here and all the work I’ve done to stay here every day.

I don’t have much money to spend on doing activities. I’d be able to spend around 100 dollars.

Would anyone be able to give me some recommendations on things I could do to celebrate?

I thought about going out to eno. I also was looking for things like bungee jumping or cliff diving but couldn’t find much.

I love outdoors stuff, art shows, concerts, and just exploring old towns and the history of small towns in nc.

Edit

Thanks to everyone for being so kind and all the suggestions. I’ve been afraid to post about this because I find sometimes people react poorly to this kind of thing understandable.

Yall warm my heart to no end

Edit two

Yall have blown me away.
Through reply’s here, DMs, and even reaching out via Venmo, you all have shared your own struggles, wins, and encouragements.

I absolutely love seeing what everyone likes to go out and do and see how these places matter to all of you.

This last year has felt kind of lonely with me trying so hard to “be ok” for people around me or hiding this major part of myself and my life so people don’t get uncomfortable.

You all have given me so much love and support that it’s short circuited my brain in the best way.

I’ll be responding to every single one of you on whatever platform you reached out to me on.

My dog and I are going to have a truly incredible anniversary thanks to all of you. I’ll post pictures so yall can enjoy the day with my pup and I.

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u/mjjackson12 — 9 days ago
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Palemedes is no longer a singleton! Meet Camilla!

Palemedes was the DoorDash bird from last year that I was instructed to “just throw out”.

I finally upgraded Pal’s cage to a proper flight cage that takes up half the wall.

I have the new baby Camilla in Pal’s old cage for quarantine.

Any advice for the best ways to get them used to each other?

She’s started playing with a toy and started grooming herself.

I’ve read 30 days is a good start for quarantining a new budgie.

I also feel so bad. The shop had clipped her wings.

Palemedes is already obsessed with watching her and keeps singing to her.

u/mjjackson12 — 18 days ago

[offer] Be part of a three way call and confirm five questions for me. $15

So sorry if this isn’t allowed on here. This is my first time on the sub.

So anxiety is awful and I would like to hire someone that I’ll loop in a three way call to answer questions that are all yes about a roof estimate I want to get done.

They’ll ask if you’re the home owner, if the address, phone number, name, and time is correct.

My roof needs to get inspected and estimated but they won’t confirm over text for the free estimate.

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u/mjjackson12 — 3 months ago