how do you stop consuming?
I think I’m pretty good at being frugal and eco-conscious. I barely buy clothes, for example. I try to be mindful about what I buy and what life it will go on to have. I try to buy local, and not overbuy, and just generally make smart decisions.
I had a huge makeup problem, and in 2020 I just wrote what I could buy and what I couldn’t buy and all of a sudden it stopped (my Sephora points even died). I can usually convince myself not to buy stuff because it saves me money or because it’s bad for the planet.
And yet…
I don’t use Shein or Temu, but I always end up buying stuff on Ali Express—things which feel useful at the time. I have a bunch of hobbies / interests (travel, sewing, embroidery, stationary, cosmetics) and I can go crazy buying accessories which I know I don’t need. The retail high is real. And while I don’t usually regret these purchases, they are often not worth it.
And because I’m usually careful with my consumption, it feels like it’s fine to buy things every once in a while.
So… how do you guys make the feeling stop?