Will we talk about our emotions someday soon ?
We broke up 1.5 years ago and since then have avoided speaking about our emotions to each other. I can’t guess what leftover emotions he have for me, probably none men move on faster in this race. In my quest to keep my distance from him, I also don’t try anymore to share my emotions to him.
But, in this chaos, I want to ask - will we talk about our emotions someday soon ? What sort of emotions he currently holds for me.
Me = Saturn (ruler of Capricorn), at 10° Aries in the 3th house. Him = Moon (ruler of Cancer on the 7th), at 9° Gemini in the 5th house. His thoughts/communication = Mercury (ruler of the 3rd from him), at 0° Gemini.
Mercury in its own sign Gemini placed in the 5th (the house of romance, affection, pleasure) means his thoughts about me are clear, articulate, and tinged with romantic feeling, not cold or dismissive. His ruler the Moon sitting in that same 5th house reinforces that emotionally he’s still oriented towards me in a tender, playful way.
Mercury in Gemini is mutable and chatty, he thinks about me, but his mind moves around, so he may not act on it consistently.
The chart leans toward yes. The Moon (him) is applying by sextile to Saturn (me) at a perfecting harmonious aspect, which in horary is the classic signature of contact being made. Right after that, the Moon goes on to conjoin Venus in Gemini, suggesting the conversation, when it comes, carries affection.
5th cusp is 26 Taurus, so Venus is the matter of romance itself. Venus at 28 Gemini sits in my 6th (btw we are at the same workplace but we barely talk. Even if we talk, it’s about work only now) but the key here is that the 6th radix is the 12th from the 7th, which is his 12th house. So the love-significator is hidden/buried in his “self-undoing, secrets, sorrows” and my work sector.
Venus is also peregrine in Gemini with no essential dignity so the feelings are wandering, unanchored, not fixed in any structured commitment yet. And the Moon (him) is moving toward conjunction with Venus after sextiling Saturn suggesting hidden feelings surface after the initial contact, not before.
Receptions are the weakest spot here. Saturn in Aries is ruled by Mars, exalted by Sun, term of Venus at 10°. Moon is in none of these. Moon in Gemini is ruled by Mercury, Jupiter terms/face, Saturn has only minor air-triplicity (and we’re in a night chart, where Mercury rules air triplicity, not Saturn). So no mutual reception between us; not by rulership, not meaningfully by minor dignities.
Mercury (his thoughts) does receive Saturn faintly by participating triplicity in Gemini , it shows I have a weak holding in his mind.
Jupiter is in its exaltation in Cancer, sitting right in the house that describes him. He’s in a genuinely expansive, generous, emotionally mature state. Cancer is the sign of feeling and home, and Jupiter dignified there says he’s coming from warmth, not bitterness. He’s grown.
Jupiter also rules my 3rd house cusp (Pisces, 29°) my house of communication naturally is exalted and placed in his 1st. This strongly indicates that when communication happens, it flows from his side, carrying generosity and good feeling. He’s the more likely the initiator.