u/musicplay313

We are in the same office but I had to move to our another office location for 10 months. It’s been 6 months now since we have seen each other. What does ex boyfriend think about me during all this time? I occasionally text him with group chats for work, no other personal messages. We both are awfully quiet about each other.

The Knight of Cups might be showing his interest someone else. Both Queen and King are opposite to each other he feels powerless, but sees me as an emotionally solid woman. 2 of wands in reverse shows no future together. I think he values my emotions but he has put it in the back seat, moving forward towards someone else in his life with a romantic interest?

Do we have a love-hate relationship?

My last conversation to him was in January. None of us tried to reach out. I broke no contact to wish him happy birthday about 12 hours ago. He said it’s a regular day but thank you. I shouldn’t build any hopes around it. His neutral reply made me to end the conversation there.

Did this event make any impact on him ? It already shows he doesn’t want my presence but I was brave and I tried. My bday was in May and he didn’t wish me. If there was no impact I will try much better and be stricter with myself to continue the no contact effort.

The chart shows myself as L1 Mars and him as L7 Venus.
Mars in detriment in Taurus in L7. Venus is in Cancer in L9. The most striking placement is Mars in L7 - I haven’t moved on and I reached out to him with a soft energy.

Venus in Cancer in L9 shows he is distant - he is actually distant from me, I am visiting my family away in an another country. But it also shows that he is enjoying distant as well. Perhaps Venus being in Cancer bought nostalgia at the max.

He is living his own life, my wish didn’t have any impact on him (no aspect between Venus and Mars) . Venus is also going to conjunct Jupiter, his focus is on growing big in his life. So, it shows he has completely moved on and my wish didn’t matter , would have been fine if I hadn’t wished at all.

There is Pluto rx in 3rd/4th house and Saturn in Aries in 6th house. Saturn shows cold behavior and his walls being high up. Moon in 5th house in Pisces shows my emotions, Moon conjunct Venus in applying aspect shows he is aware of my emotions towards him but he is choosing to be quiet due to no aspect between L1/L7. Chart shows dead end. I should actually try no contact better.

We broke up 1.5 years ago and since then have avoided speaking about our emotions to each other. I can’t guess what leftover emotions he have for me, probably none men move on faster in this race. In my quest to keep my distance from him, I also don’t try anymore to share my emotions to him.

But, in this chaos, I want to ask - will we talk about our emotions someday soon ? What sort of emotions he currently holds for me.

Me = Saturn (ruler of Capricorn), at 10° Aries in the 3th house. Him = Moon (ruler of Cancer on the 7th), at 9° Gemini in the 5th house. His thoughts/communication = Mercury (ruler of the 3rd from him), at 0° Gemini.

Mercury in its own sign Gemini placed in the 5th (the house of romance, affection, pleasure) means his thoughts about me are clear, articulate, and tinged with romantic feeling, not cold or dismissive. His ruler the Moon sitting in that same 5th house reinforces that emotionally he’s still oriented towards me in a tender, playful way.

Mercury in Gemini is mutable and chatty, he thinks about me, but his mind moves around, so he may not act on it consistently.

The chart leans toward yes. The Moon (him) is applying by sextile to Saturn (me) at a perfecting harmonious aspect, which in horary is the classic signature of contact being made. Right after that, the Moon goes on to conjoin Venus in Gemini, suggesting the conversation, when it comes, carries affection.

5th cusp is 26 Taurus, so Venus is the matter of romance itself. Venus at 28 Gemini sits in my 6th (btw we are at the same workplace but we barely talk. Even if we talk, it’s about work only now) but the key here is that the 6th radix is the 12th from the 7th, which is his 12th house. So the love-significator is hidden/buried in his “self-undoing, secrets, sorrows” and my work sector.

Venus is also peregrine in Gemini with no essential dignity so the feelings are wandering, unanchored, not fixed in any structured commitment yet. And the Moon (him) is moving toward conjunction with Venus after sextiling Saturn suggesting hidden feelings surface after the initial contact, not before.

Receptions are the weakest spot here. Saturn in Aries is ruled by Mars, exalted by Sun, term of Venus at 10°. Moon is in none of these. Moon in Gemini is ruled by Mercury, Jupiter terms/face, Saturn has only minor air-triplicity (and we’re in a night chart, where Mercury rules air triplicity, not Saturn). So no mutual reception between us; not by rulership, not meaningfully by minor dignities.

Mercury (his thoughts) does receive Saturn faintly by participating triplicity in Gemini , it shows I have a weak holding in his mind.

Jupiter is in its exaltation in Cancer, sitting right in the house that describes him. He’s in a genuinely expansive, generous, emotionally mature state. Cancer is the sign of feeling and home, and Jupiter dignified there says he’s coming from warmth, not bitterness. He’s grown.

Jupiter also rules my 3rd house cusp (Pisces, 29°) my house of communication naturally is exalted and placed in his 1st. This strongly indicates that when communication happens, it flows from his side, carrying generosity and good feeling. He’s the more likely the initiator.

There’s no work left to do at current workplace, they sold their business. In addition, they are promoting illiterates to be in management who don’t know what they are doing. This is a sinking ship, i want to work at a better place where I am valued and paid for what I deserve. My employment is in the US.

I am frustrated, feeling stuck with my career. Please help. Thank you!!

My ASC is at 0’27. Birth time 17:40 as what we were told by the hospital.

It’s been 1.5 years of facing highly complex immigration problems due to employment. My determination to win it is getting tired. I solve a problem and other one arrives. My hope to eventually solve the immigration problem and win it is diminishing. Please help.

L1 is Venus in 9H, in Gemini. Situation is Moon in Libra in 1H. Immigration is Mercury L9, in Mars in 7H. Hidden obstacles is L12, Mercury again. Suffering and hardships is L6, Jupiter in 10H, Cancer.

Venus has no dignity in Gemini - I am powerless but all my self is deeply invested in immigration matters.

Mercury in Aries is detriment, severely weakened + 7H hence authority in opposition.

Moon conjunct AC applying, this stress is going to increase. Jupiter is exalted in Cancer, a powerful entity has power to solve it. (Dunno who)

Moon is opposing every planet in Aries. Only hope is Mercury changing signs to Taurus. All I could decipher is that my fight is going to be difficult more than before because of multiple strong opposition planets. It is possible that I will not win it.