u/myfriendgooo

I’ve been single from a 7 year relationship for about a year and have been on the apps trying to find someone to talk to. I haven’t had any luck yet, but I’m so nervous of what’ll happen if I do manage to find a date. I don’t make plans with friends/family until last minute, because who knows if I’ll feel up to anything until the day of. Even then, if I feel my best, that’s still pretty bad right now. How do you make a nice first presentation and seem like a fun person to be around when you feel so miserable and you’re too tired to exist? Is it best to put disabled/chronically ill on my profile? I can’t decide if it’s better to ease into that talk to put it out there first thing.