Fiancé addicted to weed
My partner of three years admitted he is addicted to weed 6 months ago. He admitted to his family for the first time at his addiction for four years as well just recently. I thought it was just at social gatherings since I knew he dabbled in it a bit but I was wrong. It’s been six months he has been improving and went from sometimes daily to weekends. He has his rough spots just like last week he smoked for a week straight while I was gone to visit family. He got stressed he was gonna cave in to the point he got stressed he reached for weed. It’s been six months and I honestly don’t know how much to wait since weed is a dealbreaker. I am desperate to suggest him new things to try to see if it would work. Cause we both know if he doesn’t quit this relationship won’t work which unfortunately probably doesn’t help with him quitting. But when he smokes at work, driving, and hides it I can only put up with so much, I am not willing to get married until it gets solved. I’m torn cause I get mad at times when he smokes and hides it but I am slowly getting better at being supportive. He tried therapy but complains it’s all talking about the same emotion thing over and over again then he’s left with nothing, no steps to take, he feels directionless after. He is going to see a psychiatrist to see if there is something more to this that he doesn’t know. For those that have stopped their weed addictions what are things that helped? Is weed a thing that people quit but often relapse and do again with it being literally everywhere you go? Those that are supporting partners struggling with this how long did u give them? Did they ever succeed in quitting? I’m feeling clueless on how much time to give him to get better obviously id want to give him eternity but unfortunately i know i cant be with someone who smokes 24/7 and have to move on with life. Any recommendations or advice would mean the world to me :)