u/ninerowik

when im on a date with a man i like i ALWAYS have the urge to compliment other women on street like “omg she was so pretty” i love her hair” etc.

no, im not doing it so the man has to say “you are even prettier”

i think that many men find that weird but i think thats because they bring out the cutie girls girl side of me. or im just trying to seem warm and secure.

i even used to sent guys tiktoks of edits of other women and be like omg she is beautiful.

idk does anyone have any experience with this? i hope im not alone in this hahah

hey! im a young women ( a teenager ) and im wondering if someone else has such ups and downs as me.

during my downs i compare myself a lot, remove myself from social interactions (like going clubbing with my friends because i feel like they would get more hit on then me) and anything just to cry my heart out with my bsf next to me haha.

during my ups i feel fine, really confident and pretty looking but i noticed that my ups are mostly when im talking to some guy.

rn i took a break with talking to guys and hey im in my down.

i just hope it gets better because before i had really big self esteem issues ( i couldnt even look at myself in the mirror) and i think im not as healed as i thought im haha.

does anybody else feel like this? or does anyone know what to do with this?

hey so im soon 17 and never had a bf and idk whats the issue. some of my friends have 2 bf a year and i cannot even find one hahah. its not that i dont talk to guys, im not avodiant, im usually really smiley and talkative during some social event. i dont think that im THAT unattractive (i have had intimacy with guys, but usually in clubs) im skinny and have cutie patootie face (from what guys have been saying to me) then whats the problem? im really looking for a relationship😭

im talking to guys, but it always just ends up as failed talking stage