I need hope

I just got my period. This was our 5th cycle TTC with our first. I’ve never been pregnant before. I got my bloodwork done at the beginning of this cycle and it came back all normal. I never thought it would take this long and I’m feeling so defeated. I need inspiration. How long did it take you to get pregnant for the first time?

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u/northof_normal — 3 days ago
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Weird?

This morning my temps were +0.8 and now they’re +0.5? Why would they change throughout the day?

u/northof_normal — 6 days ago

When did I ovulate?

Oura says I ovulated on CD18. Do you agree? Natural cycles just moved my ovulation date to CD21 for some reason, even though the LH tests show a decline after my peek on CD17. Just looking for other options! This is month 5 of TTC and my first month using musinex, although I started it on CD17 so it may have been too late, but we’ll see! Thanks for any insights!

u/northof_normal — 7 days ago

How Long?

I’m pretty sure I’m about to start my period. I think I’m starting to spot (unless it’s implementation bleeding, I’m 9-10PO). Anyway, how many cycles did it take you to get pregnant? This was cycle 4. Im starting to feel discouraged but I’m hoping to feel better based on others stories! 🤍🤍

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u/northof_normal — 1 month ago

Paint Review

My husband and I are looking at the 2026 MY premium. I’ve heard bad things about the paint quality. Anyone have any first hand experiences? Also looking for general reviews! This would be our first EV. We’re a Hyundai family right now. Thanks!

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u/northof_normal — 1 month ago

Ovulation?

I think I ovulated late CD16 or sometime CD17. Usually I ovulate CD19-21, but this is the first month I’ve tracked fully with OPKs. My OURA isn’t showing anything about ovulation yet. Usually when I have a temp rise it shows the “waiting to confirm ovulation” message. Here are my questions:
- we had sex CD 15 and 17 this fertility window. Did I cover everything?
- when do you think I ovulated?

I’ve been on a bunch of supplements starting this month. I’ve been on a prenatal for about a year (we weren’t sure when we were going to start trying). Then this month I added vit D, omegas, apple cider vinegar and calcium with magnesium. Could this be why I ovulated earlier than usual?

Any insight is appreciated!

u/northof_normal — 1 month ago

Approx 9-10PO now. Been testing negative since Friday morning, now it’s Monday (CD30). I usually get my period CD31 or 32. My temps are still pretty high, but I’m discouraged that I’m still testing negative. It’s making me think I’m out. Anyone have experiences that can give me some hope?

u/northof_normal — 2 months ago

My husband and I are looking at buying a Model Y for our soon to be growing family. Does anyone know of any price drops or interest promos that will be happening in the near future? Any insiders on this sub?

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u/northof_normal — 2 months ago

7-8PO. Neg test yesterday and today. Feeling discouraged. Negative pregnancy test yesterday morning and this morning. My temps were high at the beginning but they don’t seem to be holding! This is the third cycle we’re trying.

Edit to add more info - I’ve been crampy on and off for around 5 days. I had an elevated resting heart rate on Thursday and Friday (today’s Saturday). And my boobs have felt way more sore than they usually do. That’s not even a symptom I notice month to month usually. But I assume it’s too early for any of that to matter!

u/northof_normal — 2 months ago

My husband and I are in Ontario, Canada and are seriously interested in the Model Y. Problem is, we have over 5% rates up here and there’s many other dealerships who are close to half that. Does anyone have any inside info about promos (price cutes, financing rates, etc) that will be coming to Canada in the near future? So jealous of the US with your 0.99% Tesla rates!

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u/northof_normal — 2 months ago

I’m approx 5-6PO. Oura was a little off on it this month. I got my almost positive OPK (natural cycles called it positive) on CD19. We had sex CD19, 20, and 21 through the fertile window. I was so optimistic when my temps were rising so steadily. It had never happened so consistently before. What do you think? Are my chances low this month because I dipped?

u/northof_normal — 2 months ago

Oura says I ovulated on CD19. Natural Cycles says I ovulated on CD21. I had EWCM on CD19 and 20. I have a positive OPK on CD19. I forgot to test on CD20 so I’m not sure how long it was positive for! Based on this info and my temp chart, when do you think I ovulated?

I realized that the last two months we were TTC, I was tracking ovulation wrong! I was going solely on Oura, which I think had us stopping trying too early. Hoping that because we were more on it this month, the third time will be the charm! We had sex on CD19, 20, and 21 through the fertile window.

u/northof_normal — 2 months ago