My SP came back but not the way I wanted & friendzoned me

Hi, so quick summary: SP and I have history, we we were deeply in love for a year, I never met a man who was this obsessed with me, we never met cause of distance, now he is closer to me, but we fell apart one month ago because of utter and stupid misunderstandings via whatsapp. He said he still loved me but cant do this anymore cause of our fights. I wrote him a letter, he got it and thanked me but had lots of questions, saw that I was back on tinder (no reason behind it, I was just bored) and didn't understand why I write him a deep love letter but Im back on tinder. Whatever. Now he was like "look I still want you in my life, I still wanna keep contact". But as a friend. So he kinda friendzoned me. Lol. Rip.

I am a good manifester and I understand the Law. I am still trying to understand why this happened. Maybe because I still believed he doesnt trust me anymore cause of our fights, but likes me still enough to be a friend.

And then there is my other, more stronger belief: I know he loves me. I know he never felt such a deep connection to anyone. I know I am his dreamgirl. And I literally dont have to tell myself. I know this. Thats why Im a lil confused. I didnt even cry after he friendzoned. I was a lil hurt and then I told him, yes okay, lets be friends. And internally I was like "boy you love me, who are you kidding". But since this happened just an hour ago my rational mind is interfering, telling me he just wants me as a friend.

I just wanna ask for some encouragement, maybe some of you were in a situation like this and changed it? I know I can! I just dont know which direction to take. What to think and how to handle the 3d. As I said this happened an hour ago so the wound is still a lil open.

Thanks 🩷💌

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u/novemberkind111 — 2 days ago

My SP came back but not the way I wanted & friendzoned me

Hi, so quick summary: SP and I have history, we we were deeply in love for a year, I never met a man who was this obsessed with me, we never met cause of distance, now he is closer to me, but we fell apart one month ago because of utter and stupid misunderstandings via whatsapp. He said he still loved me but cant do this anymore cause of our fights. I wrote him a letter, he got it and thanked me but had lots of questions, saw that I was back on tinder (no reason behind it, I was just bored) and didn't understand why I write him a deep love letter but Im back on tinder. Whatever. Now he was like "look I still want you in my life, I still wanna keep contact". But as a friend. So he kinda friendzoned me. Lol. Rip.

I am a good manifester and I understand the Law. I am still trying to understand why this happened. Maybe because I still believed he doesnt trust me anymore cause of our fights, but likes me still enough to be a friend.

And then there is my other, more stronger belief: I know he loves me. I know he never felt such a deep connection to anyone. I know I am his dreamgirl. And I literally dont have to tell myself. I know this. Thats why Im a lil confused. I didnt even cry after he friendzoned. I was a lil hurt and then I told him, yes okay, lets be friends. And internally I was like "boy you love me, who are you kidding". But since this happened just an hour ago my rational mind is interfering, telling me he just wants me as a friend.

I just wanna ask for some encouragement, maybe some of you were in a situation like this and changed it? I know I can! I just dont know which direction to take. What to think and how to handle the 3d. As I said this happened an hour ago so the wound is still a lil open.

Thanks 🩷💌

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u/novemberkind111 — 2 days ago

SP came back but not the way I wanted and kinda friendzoned me

Hi, so quick summary: SP and I have history, we we were deeply in love for a year, I never met a man who was this obsessed with me, we never met cause of distance, now he is closer to me, but we fell apart one month ago because of utter and stupid misunderstandings via whatsapp. He said he still loved me but cant do this anymore cause of our fights. I wrote him a letter, he got it and thanked me but had lots of questions, saw that I was back on tinder (no reason behind it, I was just bored) and didn't understand why I write him a deep love letter but Im back on tinder. Whatever. Now he was like "look I still want you in my life, I still wanna keep contact". But as a friend. So he kinda friendzoned me. Lol. Rip.

I am a good manifester and I understand the Law. I am still trying to understand why this happened. Maybe because I still believed he doesnt trust me anymore cause of our fights, but likes me still enough to be a friend.

And then there is my other, more stronger belief: I know he loves me. I know he never felt such a deep connection to anyone. I know I am his dreamgirl. And I literally dont have to tell myself. I know this. Thats why Im a lil confused. I didnt even cry after he friendzoned. I was a lil hurt and then I told him, yes okay, lets be friends. And internally I was like "boy you love me, who are you kidding". But since this happened just an hour ago my rational mind is interfering, telling me he just wants me as a friend.

I just wanna ask for some encouragement, maybe some of you were in a situation like this and changed it? I know I can! I just dont know which direction to take. What to think and how to handle the 3d. As I said this happened an hour ago so the wound is still a lil open.

Thanks 🩷💌

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u/novemberkind111 — 2 days ago

SP came back and kinda friendzoned me

Hi, so quick summary: SP and I have history, we we were deeply in love for a year, I never met a man who was this obsessed with me, we never met cause of distance, now he is closer to me, but we fell apart one month ago because of utter and stupid misunderstandings via whatsapp. He said he still loved me but cant do this anymore cause of our fights. I wrote him a letter, he got it and thanked me but had lots of questions, saw that I was back on tinder (no reason behind it, I was just bored) and didn't understand why I write him a deep love letter but Im back on tinder. Whatever. Now he was like "look I still want you in my life, I still wanna keep contact". But as a friend. So he kinda friendzoned me. Lol. Rip.

I am a good manifester and I understand the Law. I am still trying to understand why this happened. Maybe because I still believed he doesnt trust me anymore cause of our fights, but likes me still enough to be a friend.

And then there is my other, more stronger belief: I know he loves me. I know he never felt such a deep connection to anyone. I know I am his dreamgirl. And I literally dont have to tell myself. I know this. Thats why Im a lil confused. I didnt even cry after he friendzoned. I was a lil hurt and then I told him, yes okay, lets be friends. And internally I was like "boy you love me, who are you kidding". But since this happened just an hour ago my rational mind is interfering, telling me he just wants me as a friend.

I just wanna ask for some encouragement, maybe some of you were in a situation like this and changed it? I know I can! I just dont know which direction to take. What to think and how to handle the 3d. As I said this happened an hour ago so the wound is still a lil open.

Thanks 🩷💌

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u/novemberkind111 — 2 days ago