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Unexpected ESC Earworm

What has been your unexpected EU earworm? The song first heard the night of the grand final (yes I admit I am just a casual) and we’re like, « it’s fine » and now you have on repeat? For me this year it’s Liekinheitin and last year it was Ese Diva. Which songs got you hooked after the fact?

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u/ohokreddit — 1 day ago

Which should I read next

I’m just getting back into reading so please don’t judge my choices. What do y’all think?

u/ohokreddit — 5 days ago

Back again with an ANEF question oh my god I hate them so much sorry this is long

Helloooo, this group was so helpful last time that I am bothering you again!!

I’m really stressed and hoping someone familiar with CESEDA / renewals / droit au travail can help me understand my situation.

I’ve lived and worked legally in France for about 6 years. I’m American and work full time at an international school. I submitted a request for a new titre de séjour through ANEF as a spouse of a EU citizen before the expiration of my current travailleur temporaire salarié, also requested an attestation de prolongation d’instruction (API) on May 15 (thanks to the person here who gave me the link!) but I still haven’t received anything.

Basically, I was here as a worker but want to switch to be here as an EU spouse.

I’m getting really worried that my workplace will suspend me or fire me once my current card expires. They basically have no real HR department and don’t understand immigration law.

I found these links:

Cassation case:
https://www.legifrance.gouv.fr/juri/id/JURITEXT000048581551/

Article explaining the case:
https://consultation.avocat.fr/blog/gregoire-hervet/article-2979801-titre-de-sejour-expire-quelles-consequences-sur-le-contrat-de-travail.html

The problem is that these links seems to talk about:
- cartes de résident
- cartes pluriannuelles
- or titles valid more than one year

I don’t have that!

What makes this even more frustrating is that I think I SHOULD have had a pluriannual card years ago. Around year 4 in France, another lawyer tried to apply for one for me, but the prefecture only gave me 1 year. My OFII formation civique trainer and my current lawyer said I didn’t get the pluriannual card because my dossier didn’t contain the contrat d’intégration républicaine / formation civique documents from OFII.

HOWEVER: OFII never summoned me. I literally was never convoked for the formation civique until I had already been in France for around 6 years. So I couldn’t include documents I had never been given!!

The prefecture therefore just continued giving me 1-year cards.

Now I’m panicking because these legal protections about maintaining work rights after expiration seem focused on resident/pluriannual cards, and I’m afraid my employer will think they have to suspend or terminate me even though I renewed on time and my application is pending through ANEF.

My lawyer seems much calmer than I am, but honestly I don’t feel she’s being proactive enough considering my job could be at stake.

Has anyone here been in a similar situation with:
- ANEF renewal/change of status pending,
- spouse of EU citizen status,
- expired 1-year card,
- and continued right to work while waiting?

Did your employer accept proof of renewal? Did you receive an API after expiration? Were you able to continue working legally?

Thanks.

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u/ohokreddit — 5 days ago

Looking for wholesome tween cartoons to watch with stepson

Hey all, we love Ghibli and we’ve already watched and loved:
- Hilda
- The Owl House
- She Ra and the Princesses of Power
- The Dragon Prince
- Gravity Falls
- Avatar ATLA
- The Legend of Korra

And are looking for other shows to start. Bonus if they’re easily available on streaming in other languages!!

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u/ohokreddit — 8 days ago

Finally reading for pleasure again!

I’ve read 3 books for fun in the past month or two! I thought my brain was fried from social media and life stress but I’m reading again! Plus a book for work that I had to teach my students. Here are my books. The book I am teaching is Wonder by RJ Palacio.

u/ohokreddit — 8 days ago

Please enjoy all the discontinued perfumes I have that I never use because once they’re gone, they’re gone (or perfumes that I can’t easily get in my country)

SJP Stash, Estée Lauder Private Collection Amber Ylang Ylang, the Queen Latifah perfumes, Givenchy Organza Indécence, Body Shop Rebel Rosebud, 100 Bon Nuage de Coton, Guerlain Shalimar Parfum L’Initial, Tocca Brigitte, Pure DKNY, old bottle Givenchy Ysatis, sample Balenciaga Paris. Please ignore my hands and floor and just commiserate with me.

u/ohokreddit — 8 days ago

Surprising Gucci Rush dupe?

Cacharel Eden is drying down exactly like Gucci Rush to my nose. I can’t find GR anywhere and I liked Eden so I might go for a bottle if I can find it on sale !

u/ohokreddit — 9 days ago

Please enjoy all the discontinued or difficult to find perfumes in my collection that I barely use because I can never replace them!

Pure DKNY, Tocca Brigitte, Fabulous Nude by My Boudoir, old bottle Ysatis, Shalimar Parfum Initial, 100Bon Nuage de Coton, Body Shop Rebel Rosebud, Givenchy Organza Indecence, the Queen Latifah perfumes, Estée Lauder Private Collection Amber Ylang Ylang, SJP Stash. They may not *all* be discontinued but they’re at least hard to find where I live.

u/ohokreddit — 9 days ago

I hate the ANEF

Hi everyone, I’m looking for advice because I’m starting to panic a bit about my titre de séjour renewal situation in France. I’m posting everywhere bc my lawyer hasn’t gotten back to me and I’m freaking out.

I submitted my renewal dossier through ANEF at the end of March, and my current titre de séjour expires in 10 days. I’m switching from a “travailleur temporaire/salarié” status to a “carte de séjour membre de famille de un resortissant UE” status because I married a non French EU citizen.

So far, I’ve only received the confirmation de dépôt, not a récépissé or attestation de prolongation d’instruction. Radio silence for 2 months.

I’m employed full-time and I’m worried about what happens if my card expires before I receive the attestation. I’ve already contacted my lawyer and also sent a message through the ANEF contact form requesting an API because I need proof for my employer.

Has anyone else been in this situation recently?
- Were you able to continue working with just the confirmation de dépôt?
- How long did it take to receive the attestation?
- Did your employer accept proof that the renewal was submitted on time?

I’m especially interested in recent experiences with ANEF delays, especially for people changing status after marriage to an EU citizen. Thank you so much. I am in 34 (Herault).

Edit: brain fart and wrote the wrong card I applied for

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u/ohokreddit — 10 days ago

What would she wear?

Jessica Fletcher is maybe my favorite character in fiction. I’ve thought about this for years. What would this classy, literal Dame wear? She’s equally comfortable in jeans and fishing boots ans in evening gowns. She can hold her own in a New York ballroom and in an Arizona camping site. She’s the most elegant person in any room, men desire her, women want to be her, and she’s over 60. Widowed, childfree, independently wealthy, always gracious and kind, and always a nosy Nellie. What does she smell like?

u/ohokreddit — 12 days ago

What would Murder, She Wrote’s Jessica Fletcher wear?

Jessica Fletcher is maybe my favorite character in fiction. I’ve thought about this for years. What would this classy, literal Dame wear? She’s equally comfortable in jeans and fishing boots ans in evening gowns. She can hold her own in a New York ballroom and în an Arizona camping site. She’s the most elegant person in any room, men desire her, women want to be her, and she’s over 60. Widowed, childfree, independently wealthy, always gracious and kind, and always a nosy Nellie. What does she smell like?

u/ohokreddit — 12 days ago

Realistic Jasmine and Honeysuckle

I live a few miles from the Mediterranean and every spring the jasmine and honeysuckle blossoms everywhere and when the wind blows, it’s amazing. These are pictures I took yesterday. I want a photorealistic jasmine/honeysuckle and maybe linden blossom smell to put on me to match what I smell in nature. I don’t want a creamy, syrupy, “perfume-y” smell, I want green and fresh and floral, the kind of smell that turns your head. Often I’ll walk down a street and the breeze will carry a scent and I literally stop in my tracks and turn around, trying to find the flowers so I can stick my face in it. I don’t care what the other notes are, as long as there’s this fresh (but not soapy), green/white floral scent in it.

u/ohokreddit — 13 days ago

Hi! I am currently on vacation in Bucharest and want to get a fragrance here that will remind me of my trip. However, I want something I can’t find where I live in France and so far, everything I’ve seen here in România is something I could get at home. Does anyone else pick up fragrances as souvenirs? And does anyone have any recs for Românian scents?

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u/ohokreddit — 22 days ago

Hi! I am currently on vacation in Bucharest and want to get a fragrance here that will remind me of my trip. However, I want something I can’t find where I live in France and so far, everything I’ve seen here in România is something I could get at home. Does anyone else pick up fragrances as souvenirs? And does anyone have any recs for Românian scents?

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u/ohokreddit — 22 days ago

Hi! I am currently on vacation in Bucharest and want to get a fragrance here that will remind me of my trip. However, I want something I can’t find where I live in France and so far, everything I’ve seen here in România is something I could get at home. Does anyone else pick up fragrances as souvenirs? And does anyone have any recs for Românian scents? Mulțumesc!

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u/ohokreddit — 22 days ago