u/one1ros_

I mean what is this weather, it is going to be like this till September, you cannot do anything in a suffocating humid weather like this, no fun outdoor stuff, there aren't many pretty places to be outdoors anyway, the one's that are, are always crowded or have creeps roamimg around, I heard there isn't gonna be much rainfall this monsoon, it was relatively better last year, rain makes monsoon bearable but without it, it's absolute hell, I don't like being in a room all day, AC is not good for your heath and is expensive as hell, then none of this will get any better after September, yes it will be less humid but then we'll have Smog, and I have a hunch it is going to be worse this year because of less rainfall (correct me if I am doing bad science) but it will be bad enough and it was last till December. That leaves us with only 4 to 5, "good months" and that is no way to live, this city has become a capitalist urban hell and if you are not rich all of this is so much worse, imagine living without AC, all Lahore has is cement, traffic, disgusting weather, poverty when you step out on the streets and just overall terrible experience.

Hi, I want to get HPV vaccine in Lahore, if anyone got it and knows where to get it, please help me out. Where can I get it from and what is the process like? I looked up online and can't seem to find anything helpful. Thank you :)

I recently went through a breakup and I wanted to share something that took me by surprise (I didn't know it was so important). When you breakup with someone you've been with for a long time, there is a temporary confusion around your identity, you lose the sense of who you are, what helped me in this is looking back at the duration of the relationship and having memories, good and great ones that had nothing to do with the person I was dating, these memories and experiences are your anchors, they will hold you when your sense of self is slipping away, in simple words they are reminders that you are absolutely capable of having fun on your own, of being joyous and whole all by yourself, I now realise the importance of doing some things alone solely for your sake when you are in a relationship. I am glad for all the trips I went on without him, for all the time I spent with my friends, for all the first-times I had ALONE. I used to wish I could go with him to a particular spot where I saw the starriest night of my life but I am glad that didn't happen, now that memory is solely my own and safe with myself. Maybe the right thing to do is to eventually let go of the resentment, forgive and move on, that is happening too, but in the meanwhile these reminders proved absolutely helpful.

This is urgent I am losing my mind over this, I need your advice. My Narcissist Dad physically abused me when I was 17, I am 23 now. He violently slapped me repeatedly and threatened to unal*ve me. He has had anger issues that I had to suffer my entire childhood, he is an asshole and I hate him. I have gradually drawn boundaries with him and I grey-rock him. It has helped me a lot, I could see my abuse from a distance and I realised I am doing the right thing. I am so enraged at my Mom right now, she is good to me otherwise but she just cannot give up the topic of me making things normal with my Dad, she always tries to convince me that I should forgive him, that he has changed (that is not true at all, I will not buy that for my own safety). Today she made me so uncomfortable and violated my boundaries so bad, I want to throw up, she made me sit infront of that man and talk about what's going on with me (No I cannot respectfully refuse that beause that can trigger my his rage) so I complied, then after I was done with the conversation she made me hug him (I literally feel sick writing this), and he said things along the lines of, "why are you mad at me?", "you are my baby", which triggered the living hell out of me and I had to leave asap and scream and cry in my room. I hate his guts. Now this is a desi family, these people are absolutely ignorant and insensitive about another's feelings and boundaries. What should I do? This messes with my mind beyond measure. Dad had repeatedly tried to be "good" to me and wish me happy birthday and all. But I just cannot trust this man, my soul hates him, I know if he found out that I am not the kind of daughter that he thinks I am, he would lose his mind with rage and he would most certainly become violent, yet my mom just cannot stop trying to make things normal between us. Luckily no part of me is going soft on him, I still hate him, and I will always hate him. I just want to know how to deal with a situation like this, I am moving out of this hell soon, but what do I do till then?

I am absolutely in love with his dick, it is so beautiful to look at, hold and suck on it tastes immaculate and of course to get fucked with it is heavenly, I don't know how to tell him all this without making it awkward. I have complimented it infront of him of course but not in such details. Just wanted to write it somewhere.

No weird dms please.